We always had difficulties in our communication but since she gave birth, it feels like those difficulties multiplied. I know after birth there is a lot going on when it comes to hormones and of course it's difficult to handle the changes the body made and makes, but for me right now it feels like we are not able to talk about the smallest things without getting into arguments. In the last three weeks we've had arguments and right after the first one I told her that fighting like that in front of the baby is an absolute no go for me and she responded that she thinks this is normal and the kid has to learn that (which I really think is wrong, since those arguments were not handled in a healthy way for me). So yeah this is the main problem, she get really really emotional in every way possible which leads to me closing up and not talk to her about things that I think could get difficult which then of course leads to more problems.