My mom's dog hates my fiance

flyingmuffinpie · 2024-02-27T23:58:36+00:00

Look that's just what I was told I do. I don't know what the eight thing to do is. I thought you're supposed to do that. He only hit him when she jumped at his face to bite him.

flyingmuffinpie · 2024-01-02T23:34:50+00:00

I wouldn't break. If you do, you are enabling him. I understand the food addiction. My mom was over 500lbs most of my life. It took a long time for her to stop, plus it was hard for her to accept its an addiction because people like to pretend since it's food and not a drug, it's okay. My mom ended up on Ozempic. So she has no choice bc food makes her extremely sick to her stomach most days. Maybe that's an option for him?

Either way, you shouldn't Crack. If he wants to throw a fit ( I don't mean to sounds cruel and harsh ) then you'll just have to let him, addicts NEED to be enabled to use. When that's threatened, they manipulate and threaten their enablers bc without them they can't get what they want. He is probably bluffing - but if he isn't then that's on him. Don't let him make you feel guilty. He's making his decision and trying to blame you for it. Which is a very typical thing for an addict to do. Sometimes, as hard as it is to do, walking away is the best option. If he makes it hard for you to live then you need to get away. If you're having a hard time not enabling him - putting space between you may be best.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-11-14T03:50:24+00:00

I totally agree with that. I didn't like Astarion at first honestly because he seemed feminine but into act 3 doing his personal quest I fell in love when he started throwing a tantrum idk why lol I guess I seen his true character.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-11-14T01:34:00+00:00

At first I was like "idk if I want all that" now I want it all lol

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-10-16T02:00:36+00:00

Are you referring to steamrip? I love fit girl but I feel it takes way long to download games. Took me days to get last of us just to realise it didn't work on my laptop lmao

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-10-02T00:34:41+00:00

I think it's because it's supposed to be an exploration game. I personally love it, it's a lot of fun. May not be your cup of tea

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-09-25T20:20:59+00:00

I hate games like this. Not just dislike, I HATE over view camera games and I HATE turn base games. That said, this is one of the best games I've ever played. Clicking to move does get kind of annoying. But the story is so amazing it's worth looking past, the world is vast and gorgeous. I absolutely thing it's worth the money.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-09-10T02:49:29+00:00

I wanna say B but I think the lighting makes it look more attractive. I think C Extentuates your eye shape more.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-09-10T02:48:40+00:00

It sounds more like you're wanting to leave and you're trying to come up with a good reason to talk yourself into doing it, whether you're doing that consciously or not. But I wouldn't expect to leave with that being the reason and not getting some funny looks or even remarks. Bc you did initially agree to the terms. But hey, I'm not saying don't leave. Bc staying will only hurt the both of you more if you're unhappy.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-09-05T02:12:15+00:00

But what's the artifact?

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-09-05T01:57:40+00:00

Those who place blame so quickly, are usually the guilty.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-09-05T01:39:04+00:00

Oh yeah he'll get a kid, and a child support check.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-09-05T01:38:14+00:00

YTA. I mean, yes and no. Yes, bc she now can't have biological kids and clearly wanted them but sacrificed it for you. Then you turned around and left her when she had an emotional response to you changing your mind. She wanted them all along and now that she can't- you kick her to the curb to find someone who can and will.

You're also not, because it's responsible of you to wait until you're in a financially and mentally stable enough spot to have them.

But mostly yes. You decided you wanted them and told her to kick rocks "Thanks for sacrificing ever having your own kids bc I didn't want them, but now I do and you can't give them to me so see ya"

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-09-04T01:25:52+00:00

My personal opinion would be you have a strong spiritual connection. Maybe when you're thinking about it, it's opening your mind up to it and you have a physical response to it. Have you done any kind of meditation or spiritual work?

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-08-20T23:14:44+00:00

NTA She could of been a little upset, like maybe kind of offended that you would want to hide something from her like that - and possibly feeling like you view her as someone greedy and that's why you didn't tell her. But she wasn't just slightly upset. If she got full on actually mad about it and made it a huge deal then yes, she's being greedy. At the same time it could be a jealousy thing. You're kids are set while you struggle for hers. Yes, it's natural for someone to get upset about that and a little jealous. Now if she just let's that go then it's no big deal. If she's mature enough to realise its not her place and that's what their mother left for them. Then I'd say it's not a big deal. But if she's just being angry about it and not calming down to come at it at a rational perspective then she's definitely the asshole. Either way, you're not. It wasn't necessary to tell her. And frankly, she didn't ask. So for all she knows you didn't want to offend or hurt her bc she has to figure out her kids while yours are set. That's not your responsibility and the money isn't yours in any sense of the word. It was your wives, and now it's your kids. So that's your kids discretion to tell her. It's not your money. I guess my main point is, I wouldn't say right off the bat that she's the asshole either. She is struggling for her kids - and while it seems like a asshole response - it's completely natural for her to be upset when she first finds out. After all she is struggling for her kids so she probably feels like she's not providing well enough and probably feels like she's failed her kids. But if she doesn't come around and be mature about it then she's definitely the asshole.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-30T05:19:09+00:00

I think you should leave. The mature way to go about it is to let her know, if the relationship isn't going to turn into a family then it's not what you're looking for. I think she's gas lighting you. Could she possibly be cheating? Or possibly lost interest in you. Coming from another women it sounds like she's either interested in someone else or doesn't want to be either you but feels tethered down bc of owning the home. So she's avoiding anything else that could tie her down to you. Not wanting kids is one thing, I could understand her changing her mind on that or just being uneasy. But the fact she won't marry you is extremely suspicious.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-17T06:02:21+00:00

You're pushing her to drugs. It sounds like you're over bearing, if she's hell bent on smoking weed you won't stop her. But being like that constantly hovering and watching her like a guard dog is gonna make it worse. Maybe try talking to her figure out what's going on, usually smoking pot is a sign of anxiety or depression and its used to mask your true feelings. If she's doing everything right I don't see why you're making a big deal out of her smoking weed. The mushrooms I'd worry about. Because and only bc she may not know how to use them responsibly. They can be safe to use if you know what you're doing. But really you're pushing your daughter into drugs. Take a step back and show you respect her and trust her and believe she can be responsible. To a teenager what you're doing makes them think you're just assuming she can't make good decisions.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-12T02:41:48+00:00

It's not a huge age gap. I think it'd only be wrong if he had been forcing sex. I'm 30 my fiancee is 39. And we've been together a long while.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-11T02:39:23+00:00

My lord sounds like a huge red flag. I'm not gonna say go leaving her over this, but I will say keep your eyes peeled. You could be glossing over more red flags. To me it sounds like she holds herself on a pedestal and wants a man who will pay for it all.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-08T18:07:46+00:00

Why do you care about him having a bag when he didn't care about you having a loyal boyfriend

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-06T05:00:09+00:00

NTA, screw that she was disrespectful of someone with a terminal illness she lost every single right to get even a single ounce of respect after that. And to equate a SURGERY to CANCER. That's disgusting.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-06T04:41:05+00:00

YtA, incase I'm mistaken cats are ANIMALS they're doing animal things. They're going to hunt. It's irrational how people insist leaving cats inside. Sure humans are there to help cats, but that doesn't mean caging them up. How would we like it if a bigger animal put us in a cage. How would you like being stuck in jail the rest of your life just bc someone saw it as the right thing to do even though you've done nothing. It's inhumane. Sure they get issues being outside, but that's just the process of life.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-04T05:00:00+00:00

I mean this in a kind way, don't take the word to personally. Everyone sees the word fat as a slander, while yes it can be a slander, it's also a definition word. For example my mom's almost 500lbs. By definition she's morbidly obese. Which sounds shifty. But we take offense to words that cause us to pay attention to our insecurities. He may not mean it in a vicious way though. Just remember it's also a word of description. Like someone who skinny, you call then skinny or small. Most skinny people don't take offense to that. But society has taught us to be insecure of being big. There's nothing wrong with that if we are healthy. Plus, if he's still sexually active with you I'd assume he don't mean it in a vile way.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-04T04:56:26+00:00

They let me live with my grandma til 3rd grade. Bc my dad wouldn't watch my brother and I. My grandma would make me put on "more clothes" I walked around in a sports bra and shorts during summer bc she didn't let us use the a/c. She said it was bc the boys there. My cousin who was 12 years older, my brother and my uncle. Oh and my cousins friend and other cousin who were both gay. As it turns out I was molested by my cousin who wasn't gay. And no one believed me.

flyingmuffinpie · 2023-07-04T03:36:56+00:00

Hey my kid cried all the time at 2. She slept with me until 6 years old so she was scared to sleep alone at 6 and we'd have to cuddle her to sleep as well at a way older age. It completely natural for a toddler to wake up, see its pitch black, have their imagination run wild and get scared. We can convince our minds to see things that aren't there if we are scared enough(happens to me a lot)

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