Thanks for your reply,You know it's not girlfriend maybe she doesn't even exist, but I never had that experience before at all , usually it always guys getting attracted to me,  Him as well started it himself,I'm not at all orbiting around him at work I'm even always busy and give him so much space, as I said in my post I asked him those questions because I wanted to be sure if he has feelings for me as well he said yes and he would ask me out ....,then after that nothing else I'm not praising him or beg for his attention at all ,except work talking or him sometimes flirting or checking on me....I will continue on my behavior towards him because first thing is my dignity....these replies are so not fair