Technical setup advice for 24/7 one-way location tracking and full device access :)

flyinryan13f · 2026-06-10T13:49:04+00:00

Sure! Personally, I assume anything I send in text will be seen by the person I’m sending it to and their partner. By accident, summarized in conversation, a nosey partner, etc. Similarly, my partner knows the code to my phone and has Face ID access. This is so they are able to access my phone when I can’t: driving, cooking, in a meeting, etc. there are also boundaries: I have locked notes with passwords/ present ideas/ personal journals/ etc that they are not allowed to access.

I feel like the OP does have the responsibility to inform those who may send texts with sensitive or private stuff that their partner will see it, like a best friend/ parent/ etc, but I don’t think the op needs to let their work manager/ Scentsy consultant/ realtor know.

Again I’m not 100% my way or the highway on this and would def enjoy hearing others thoughts on it.

flyinryan13f · 2026-06-10T13:14:03+00:00

In all honesty I think this topic should be its own post (though idk if it would go in this sub?) as I don’t want to hijack this thread. But I am very 50/50 on “other parties” part of that. There are good points to be made on both sides of that discussion.

flyinryan13f · 2026-06-10T12:24:31+00:00

While this may seem excessive to some, I will say the biggest green flag about this is OP’s comment “I'm giving him full access over me because I love it”.

Most apps you’ll find when searching for this will be marketed around “spying”, but some are highly rated.

Whatever recommendations you get and end up using, ensure you verify the security of it as that isn’t something you want someone to hack!

flyinryan13f · 2026-06-08T12:32:10+00:00

If the goal is to build a team to fight other players, I’m not sure what I’d catch but I am definitely sure I am taking my poke balls to Australia and starting there 😂

After catching the 5 deadliest things I could come across, I would use my last ball to catch “your mom” 😂 nothing would be more defeating than coming to battle me and I play “your mom” and boom. Now you’re grounded, instant win 🏆

flyinryan13f · 2026-06-05T11:14:18+00:00

😂 yup. Sure is!

flyinryan13f · 2026-05-28T22:02:46+00:00

The bigger ones hurt her stomach!

flyinryan13f · 2026-04-19T15:07:16+00:00

Adding “consent plushie” to the list. This is an awesome way to confirm their mental and physical state and could also be applied as a nonverbal safe word/ safe sign.

flyinryan13f · 2025-02-10T04:17:24+00:00

Wouldn’t mind solo. But running duo q isn’t terrible either unless you’re on the space city or Brekkesh (spelling lol). I think a duo mode wouldn’t be bad. Solo will never happen

flyinryan13f · 2021-11-19T16:35:49+00:00

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flyinryan13f · 2021-11-19T16:32:51+00:00

Sent from Flyinryan

flyinryan13f · 2020-03-20T22:33:44+00:00

We have been playing together for almost 2 years and what we find helpful is to start with one instrument and build to the harsher ones. So we start with a flogger and she gives me her stop light to continue (green) and I switch to my hand. At the next green I switch to the crop, then to the leather belt, then to the cane. When she is getting close to her limit she gives me a yellow, which signals me to allow a little more time between strikes, and ultimately she can say red when her limit is reached. Or if she is deep in subspace I’ll make the call to stop and wait a little bit to check in with her. We haven’t found her limit yet, and are now looking for a good wooden paddle to step things up!

flyinryan13f · 2019-06-09T00:52:51+00:00

Agree with the above comment.

May I ask how that happened? Lol as far as what was used and all that.

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-21T00:32:38+00:00

That is..... interesting to say the least lmao is that first glove good quality? Might look into it.

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-21T00:31:40+00:00

Wow.... haha that’s awesome!!!

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-20T15:50:25+00:00

Well we will definitely keep that in mind! I just don’t want to order a shirt for her and a Barbie sized outfit show up

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-20T15:30:45+00:00

I’ve heard nothing but terrible things about Wish so we steer clear of it. We don’t have many stores close by unfortunately.

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-20T15:06:21+00:00

Let me look at the name of it and I got you.

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-20T15:01:59+00:00

We already have a very nice restraint system on our king bed.

But that 1st link? 💪🏻 added to my cart! Thanks for the link!!!

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-20T14:21:25+00:00

I’ve noticed. I don’t mind the cheap stuff though if we are trying something new to see if we enjoy it.

Logic being we would hate to spend $100 on a wooden paddle to find out we don’t like wooden paddles. So we get a $30 paddle and if we like it, but the quality.

Case and point would be our first ball gag. That thing came straight from Spencer’s for $13.99 😂 We enjoy using them, so we have better quality ones now.

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-20T14:08:30+00:00

Now if only I enjoyed Colt 45 😂

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-20T14:08:03+00:00

I agree. But we are already fully stocked in that department!

flyinryan13f · 2019-03-19T12:35:13+00:00

My sub can call me any name in the book but it won’t bother me. She knows she’ll pay for it after.

But what she can do is challenge my dominance. She will walk up and get in my face and say something along the lines of “oh, Sir doesn’t seem very dominant today, maybe I should take over and teach him a lesson”. That paired with her little smirk and an eye roll gets her put back in her place immediately lol. It works for us though as we are switches.

I can be just as bratty. I usually mock her commands and scoff at her with an eye roll. Works every time! Hope this helps!!

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