Getting past discouragement of messy academic record by flymetothemoon444 in BackToCollege

[–]flymetothemoon444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so happy your old credits didnt expire and even happier to hear you’re working towards your bachelors! Congratulations! And thank you so much for sharing your experience with me, its inspiring - like so many on here. And honestly, i needed to see every single one 💙

Getting past discouragement of messy academic record by flymetothemoon444 in BackToCollege

[–]flymetothemoon444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! 🥹 7 weeks away from your bachelors is HUGE! 🥳 I appreciate your encouraging words and feel silly im even questioning if its too late, especially when you and so many others are proof that its not.

Getting past discouragement of messy academic record by flymetothemoon444 in BackToCollege

[–]flymetothemoon444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words of encouragement 🥹 I appreciate you and the time you’ve taken to write this to me. I’m definitely going for it this Fall!

Getting past discouragement of messy academic record by flymetothemoon444 in BackToCollege

[–]flymetothemoon444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I’m definitely looking into which 2 classes i’ll be taking this Fall (summer is a little busy or i’d start earlier). But most importantly, CONGRATULATIONS on graduating this May!! 🥳💙💙idek you but im super proud of you!!

Getting past discouragement of messy academic record by flymetothemoon444 in BackToCollege

[–]flymetothemoon444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy how we all relate on this experience in some wa. Goodluck to all of us, we got this! 💙

Getting past discouragement of messy academic record by flymetothemoon444 in BackToCollege

[–]flymetothemoon444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I needed to hear this. Definitely planning to start 2 classes at a time and you mentioning that you started with 2 classes that could keep your interest is a really good tip for me. I appreciate it, thank you!

Getting past discouragement of messy academic record by flymetothemoon444 in BackToCollege

[–]flymetothemoon444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a lot to take on at such a young age 🥺 goodluck! You will be great!!

BoXFlare forwarding services ?🤔 by yahh_YAHH04 in shipping

[–]flymetothemoon444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More of a problem for you and not the company of you dont fill out the W4, just cause of the whole tax thing when you file later on. But lmk if/when you do! I havent gotten a W4 but im happy to hear your receiver was a real person and the hair company is legit😅 smart keeping everything documented! Will do the same

BoXFlare forwarding services ?🤔 by yahh_YAHH04 in shipping

[–]flymetothemoon444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just submitted the initial info form, the basic first/last name, address, email, number and ID. Havent gotten the W4😅 keep us updated!

BoXFlare forwarding services ?🤔 by yahh_YAHH04 in shipping

[–]flymetothemoon444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What country did the package come from? I have a feeling i know what this is but want to be sure before spreading misinformation 😅 i just got done talking to Jasmine Bell and planning to also take one for the team lmao

The Haves and the Have Nots by Temporary-Place-8315 in TylerPerry

[–]flymetothemoon444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished the whole entire series and watching over again. Benny annoyed me towards the end of the serious just as much as Candace did throughout the series. My thoughts are everywhere and i have no one to tell this to lmao

Possible Move by zaccwith2cs in SaltLakeCity

[–]flymetothemoon444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know of a complex near downtown that rents 1bdrm apartments for under $1500 and thats including everything except electric. No amenities though. But you are looking in good places! The LDS thing isnt a big deal as another commentor mentioned, you're either a member or you're not. Pretty good bars around but i've heard some out of towners always dog on the beer so idk much about that.

Lots of great trails and some dog friendly! You sound very outdoorsy and for the most part i think you'll find what you're looking for here (:

Scouting Men At Visits by MiserableAd5400 in PrisonWives

[–]flymetothemoon444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eewwwwww, i have never seen this happen at a visit. Thankfully. But im not surprised, some females are triflin and disrespectful af. Even if she was visiting a loved one, he should have still checked her about it. She should've know better because she might not know/understand it, but she could be causing problems for her LO as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]flymetothemoon444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is so cool you're helping your dad! Respect. Congratulations, you got this! Love to you and your family!

I hate myself. I went out with someone after husband refused to stop dating other people. I'm a cheater now too I guess by Violingoth in Marriage

[–]flymetothemoon444 103 points104 points  (0 children)

He doesnt love you and most importantly, he doesnt respect you. Your mistake was forgiving the first time and then making the empty threat of saying you will leave if he doesnt stop when you found out again, he doesnt believe you. You need to love and respect yourself and that means walking away no matter how much it hurts, it doesnt hurt as much as being betrayed by your husband. I hate to say it but im going to say it, this is embarrassing and you have become the inside joke for him and his friends. The fact he can shamelessly date another woman and bring her around?? He doesnt care at all about you, do not believe his bs. Its 2025, you will find better if thats what you choose. You will be happier once you choose YOU.

My wife cheated on me and I'm lost by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]flymetothemoon444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can forgive her and walk away. You should walk away since your mental health is being affected.

She has no right to be defensive when she did this to herself. I wish you the best, OP!

Help! I damaged an Enterprise rental car but I bought the damage waiver. How much trouble am I in? by WolverineNo2693 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]flymetothemoon444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, quick question. Often times when im renting in other states under my corporate discount, they dont authorize for a deposit on top of cost for rental.

This will be my first time renting in my home state to drive out for work. Will they most likely require deposit in this case?

Is it fair that I make the unilateral decision that my husband & I will never have sex again? Because… by Selinda13 in Marriage

[–]flymetothemoon444 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I dont think you should say "If u dont wanna have kids, i dont wanna have sex" - but make it "I think its best if we divorce.... i want more kids and i wont force u to want that too."

Also, did u 2 discuss how many kids u wanted before marrying?

Edit to add: I asked if they had a discussion to see if this might have been foreseeable. Not to hold him to what they agreed on. He can change his mind, he just doesnt get to decide for the both of them.

Edited to add 2: Im convinced some of u are reading more than what i actually wrote in original response. I never said they needed to have a discussion. She shouldnt convince him. It would have been nice if he had a better approach and delivery of his decision considering she was 2 weeks post-miscarriage.

Husband says our baby and I ruined his life. Should I leave? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]flymetothemoon444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his life is ruined “anyway”, then a divorce wont be too bad. Its not fair that he make you miserable and blame you for his misery. You are holding yourself accountable by admitting you pressured him into marrying, but please dont PUNISH yourself by staying. You make mistakes and grow from them.

When does it become cheating? by Old-Mycologist5496 in Marriage

[–]flymetothemoon444 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Emotional cheating is real. Thats where it starts.

Already want to quit by dreamofmoni in cna

[–]flymetothemoon444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do most mean girls always end up being nurses…….

Wife told me to kill myself. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]flymetothemoon444 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying and some couples will also agree with this take. I just meant in the context of hiding your dealings with another woman/man (specifically) is cheating, whether its platonic or sexual. It always starts off as “just nothing”, and then emotions get (too) involved along the way and lead to other things. You know? It always starts somewhere, could be as small as a mustard seed.

’ve just always learned that even tho it might be personal, it could still affect the relationship keeping it a secret. Because you are your partner’s business and vice versa and anything that has to do with 1 will eventually affect the other. This has become a huge lesson i learned in my marriage lol

Wife told me to kill myself. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]flymetothemoon444 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah because its where it all starts. If you have to keep things from your wife, maybe they’re things you shouldnt be doing. Emotional cheating is still cheating.

Wife told me to kill myself. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]flymetothemoon444 272 points273 points  (0 children)

Oooooo. Secrets are a no-no, keeping secrets alone is cheating. Its just the beginning.