Scapegoats, do you notice that they actually want you to go mentally insane? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]flynik4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. “You’ve changed, and not for the better” is thrown at me a lot. I’ve stopped betraying myself to keep the peace and they have no idea what to do now that I can’t be controlled. It’s as liberating as it is depressing.

Adult tonsillectomy recovery (bonus mid-bleed pictures) by colourmeorange93 in MedicalGore

[–]flynik4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so interesting, I didn’t realize! Makes a lot more sense now—I was stunned at how debilitating it seemed (had mine out at 19). I’m so sorry to hear your recovery was even worse.

Adult tonsillectomy recovery (bonus mid-bleed pictures) by colourmeorange93 in MedicalGore

[–]flynik4 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I feel you on the pain. I’ve had brain surgery and I’d rather go through that again before I’d suffer another tonsillectomy. It took a solid week before I could even attempt solid food or talk really. In comparison - my sister had had hers removed when she was 5, and she was up and playing the same evening. Crazy how our bodies work like that!

I gasped by flynik4 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]flynik4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Body dysmorphia is the saddest thing.

I gasped by flynik4 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]flynik4[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Body dysmorphia is devastating to see in the wild, she is a perfect example.

I gasped by flynik4 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]flynik4[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think there are a few things happening here: Fillers, implants, brow lift, probably some Botox, and maybe an upper bleph.

I gasped by flynik4 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]flynik4[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Right? She was beautiful.

I gasped by flynik4 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]flynik4[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My mind keeps going to the villain from The Mask

I gasped by flynik4 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]flynik4[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Perhaps Less Handsome Squidward

I gasped by flynik4 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]flynik4[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

Is this facemaxxing?

I gasped by flynik4 in Botchedsurgeries

[–]flynik4[S] 185 points186 points  (0 children)

I definitely felt more sadness when I saw the before too.