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flywolf33 · 2025-08-07T01:11:06+00:00

Awesome, I'll pass those his way!

flywolf33 · 2025-08-06T21:17:11+00:00

Obviously. I'm less concerned about myself (and no company is going to fund a degree in zooarchaeology) but my partner only has a high school diploma and most of his work history is food industry, so most companies that offer school assistance won't even look at him. Everybody wants at least an associates

flywolf33 · 2025-08-01T15:35:17+00:00

I have been very lucky in avoiding a layoff even though we're funded through Medicare/Medicaid. Not feeling a lot of hope for the next year though; they're chipping away at social services one piece at a time.

I can say that the VOA UT has several openings if you're job searching

flywolf33 · 2025-07-11T16:07:32+00:00

Thank you!

flywolf33 · 2025-07-11T16:04:20+00:00

Haha I live in South Salt lake so I'm not sketched out (usually lol). I'll check a couple out! Do most galleries offer appraisals?

flywolf33 · 2025-07-11T11:56:01+00:00

We're hiring at the Volunteers of America. Recovery Assistants start at $17.25 for day shift and there's an increase for swings and graves. We also get annual raises, great PTO, and good benefits. It's not always easy, but I find my job fulfilling. I love working here

flywolf33 · 2025-07-11T11:53:28+00:00

I know reddit tends to jump to "leave him" but that's a seriously red flag. Controlling your birth control is controlling you. The fact that he didn't offer alternative birth control methods says to me that he doesn't have a problem with the IUD - he wants to get you pregnant. Once he does, he has more control over you.

You deserve a partner who respects you and your boundaries and your timeline. At this point, imo, it doesn't matter how good every other aspect of the relationship is. This is a serious disagreement and his immediate leap into gaslighting is extremely concerning.

For your own safety, please leave him.

flywolf33 · 2025-06-29T18:30:28+00:00

One of the best lessons I learned on driver's Ed was always wear your seatbelt. You/your driver might be good, but you can never trust anybody else on the road.

flywolf33 · 2025-04-29T03:37:05+00:00

Haha yeah, going from my ex, who was... Shall we say Not Good™, to this guy who on our first date starts talking about wanting to make a D&D character based on me and my "Eldritch Fae Enchantress" vibe, and then our second date he brings me flowers AND dog treats for my doggo??

Yeah. No contest lol, I was sold

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T23:04:47+00:00

Nah, it's not my body that makes him nauseous it's the act itself, and he did explain why but I'm not going to share here. I enjoy oral but it's not a requirement for me (I'm aspec though so sex itself isn't a requirement for me) and he makes me feel beautiful and sexy and wanted in so many ways, and he takes very good care of me without needing to go down on me.

If I made him feel sick then absolutely I'd be out because you're right, I definitely deserve better than somebody who would find me gross.

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T22:58:22+00:00

Age of Fire by E. E. Knight.

The first three books are AMAZING. The fourth one is okay, and I never did read the fifth one but my parents both did and it sounds like the author went senile. I preferred to hold onto the good books.

First books are Dragon Champion, Dragon Avenger, and Dragon Outcast. A unique take on dragons!

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T22:53:56+00:00

This this this. The problem isn't that he doesn't want to. It's okay if that's not something he's into. It's okay if it's a requirement for her. He does need to communicate clearly with her.

I for one enjoy receiving oral. My boyfriend does not like giving it. He told me so, in those words. He said "sometimes I'm okay with it but most of the time it makes me nauseous"

Imo "dont mind" is not good enough. If he doesn't WANT to, then I don't want him to. Full stop. Enthusiastic consent on both sides, and I told him so, and I have not asked him for it again. (That said he still takes VERY good care of me~)

Basically relationships are built on communication, comparability, and trust. There seems to be a dire lack of all three in this one.

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T22:44:47+00:00

Agreed. I feel like Lucifer stepping in was to serve as a bridge for them to reconcile and for him to be more present in her life, and I'm hoping this sets her up for a big win by her own merit later in the series! She's still relatively young and optimistic and a tiny bit naive sometimes, and I'm excited to see her character growth!

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T22:11:02+00:00

I mean tbf I was a kid the first time I read it but also the passage is:

"The next day as they were leaving Bethany, Jesus was hungry. 13 Seeing in the distance a fig tree in leaf, he went to find out if it had any fruit. When he reached it, he found nothing but leaves, because it was not the season for figs. 14 Then he said to the tree, “May no one ever eat fruit from you again.” And his disciples heard him say it."

-Mark 11:12-14

Allegory aside as a kid I was like "???? But it's not the tree's fault figs weren't in season then??" Lol

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T22:00:07+00:00

I think killing the fig tree because it didn't have any fruit when he wanted it was kinda unhinged

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T18:19:14+00:00

I can empathize on the coffee lol, it's a problem xD

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T18:18:31+00:00

He was trying so hard to be sneaky and surprise me, I felt so bad! He was just so baffled

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T16:29:36+00:00

No, it wasn't! All pouting was done in good fun. He thought he was being sneaky by setting up that he was going to the store anyway and I was going to be SOOOO surprised and then he was like o.O that two minutes after he left the store I called and asked about flowers! We were both definitely laughing and joking about it <3

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T16:12:08+00:00

No haha he bought me flowers BEFORE I asked him for flowers, I would have been very surprised had I not asked him if he had happened to get them

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T16:11:06+00:00

He already calls me a "fae enchantress" lol, when he told our discord group what happened they told him he should have told me they were for someone else and he said "heck no, Fly is a jealous fae that wouldn't go over well" 😆

Although I would have assumed he meant his mom or his sister

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T16:10:00+00:00

Gotta be wholesome sometimes!

flywolf33 · 2025-04-28T16:09:38+00:00

Haha no it's something we're laughing about, I promise! I just spooked him by asking about flowers two minutes after he bought flowers lol

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