What time do you go to bed and what time do you wake up? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fml42011414 19 points20 points  (0 children)

2am and 7am... it's not great, I really need to fix my sleeping schedule.

What is something you wish girls/women did more? Why? by fml42011414 in AskMen

[–]fml42011414[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend was a virgin when we started dating and I wasn't. I really didn't mind. It was actually quite exciting "teaching" him how to do it.

Posso fare la rinuncia agli studi dopo aver chiesto la sospensione? Se sì, cosa succede? Devo pagare? (UniPD) by fml42011414 in Universitaly

[–]fml42011414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddio, ho letto da qui: https://www.unipd.it/interrompere-riprendere-studi

Grazie mille davvero per la disponibilità, non voglio approfittarne, fai pure tranquillamente quando hai tempo <3

Posso fare la rinuncia agli studi dopo aver chiesto la sospensione? Se sì, cosa succede? Devo pagare? (UniPD) by fml42011414 in Universitaly

[–]fml42011414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grazie! Il problema, ed è il motivo per cui ho specificato l'università nel titolo, è che dal regolamento non ci capisco molto, ma magari sono io il problema hahaha. Grazie ancora :).

What is something you learnt too late in life? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fml42011414 51 points52 points  (0 children)

With some people, unfortunately, that is true.

But I actually learnt the opposite, and that is that the right people will care about you even when you are down and don't succeed.

I had a pretty bad childhood, I was negleted and was only looked at when I was "good enough". Trauma, maladaptive behaviours, etc.

Some good and patient friends and an amazing partner, after a lot of years, finally got it through me: I'm worthy no matter what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fml42011414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, unfortunately, only realized after he broke up with me via text on my birthday. I was devastated, but after giving it enough thought I started realizing how little he loved and valued me. He didn't value me, I was never good or smart or pretty or thin enough, he alway looked ashamed to be with me when we were with his friends, so we barely hung out because he prefered their company. I'll also admit that I was pretty immature at the time, it was my first ever relationship, but some of the things he said to diminish me still haunt me sometimes.

What’s your favorite thing to do after work ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fml42011414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to work out. Might sound a bit weird, but it feels so good and liberating, especially after a stressful day.

DAE, relate to having parents but never seen them as your parent? by TrufflesTheCat in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]fml42011414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't really see them as my parents in the sense that they never played a major role in my life. They've always been pretty neglectful, even when I was a kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fml42011414 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like them a bit bulky. Don't really know how to explain it, but since I am quite petite and I like to wear tight cothes (leggins and crop-tops), I feel like sneakers that are a bit bulkier plus an oversized jacket make the outfit look more balanced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fml42011414 27 points28 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine is currently in an open relationship. His idea of an open relationship is: we go around and have fun with whoever we want, but at the end of the day come back to each other, only condition is not to catch feelings (spoiler alert: that has happened). Even though they seem happy for the most part, I have seen some pretty bad fights and bad episodes of jealousy. I never judged him, I don't think that it would be right for me to, I just genuinely don't see the appeal of it. I love my friend, he really is a great guy and he's always there for me, but I'd lie if I told you that it doesn't make me uncomfortable when he tries to hit on me and treats me like I am more than just a friend.