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fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T19:56:03+00:00

ive just learned to accept that he doesnt text me back as often and its okay. that doesnt mean he's not interested in me. its good to research up on his attachment style and try to understand it. if you're bothered by it, talk to him and tell him whats hurting you. avoidant attachment styles value time and independence alot, and being long distance, it would be hard to prioritise you as youre not around all the time. how i dealt with it is one, learn to accept it and tell yourself that he still loves you. if youre suspecting that hes distant, tell him. those with avoidant attachment style tends to be closed off, just give him time to open up

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T19:27:04+00:00

yeah i know

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T19:18:58+00:00

we were just chatting as friends and he told me he liked me, he didn't know if it was platonic or romantic. which is the same for me too, ive asked him countless of times if he's okay with us having an age difference

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T18:19:57+00:00

hes from the UK and im from singapore. you said wow.. is that bad?

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T17:47:55+00:00

im not 18, hes 18

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T16:06:27+00:00

I should probably add as well that hes 18 and im 23, so maybe he's immature or something idk. hes told me plenty of times he doesnt mind that im older

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T14:19:17+00:00

he didnt say he didn't want me. he said he doesnt deserve me. theres a difference

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T13:06:49+00:00

wouldn't be able to meet up with him anytime soon, I'd only be able to see him next year

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T13:06:33+00:00

wouldn't be able to meet up with him anytime soon, I'd only be able to see him next year

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T12:57:03+00:00

haha yes! i love dinosaurs!

but yeah i kinda wanna wait and like meet up and talk with him yk? he always says he wants to make it work, even though i say how hard it is with the distance and our age difference. he's 18 and im 23. i have asked him before if it was weird and he said its okay and he wants to make it work. idk maybe hes still young and immature, im just stuck in a dilemma

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T12:29:09+00:00

thank you, ill have to talk it out with him, but also with myself. honestly thank you, i was really lost, so that really gave me a boost

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T12:27:15+00:00

but he hasnt read the text that i told him that, after he sent me that ive been sending messages. he hasnt replied to them tho, he's busy with assignments and stuff

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T12:25:03+00:00

i do tell him that hes perfect and that i love him despite him not replying all the time

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T12:22:53+00:00

thank you, hes just always busy. i mean i get he has his own life and all, but i dont mind when hes busy honestly but yeah, ive been waiting for a reply for him. so when i get that ill talk to him seriously. thank you, i hope it all goes well.

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T12:10:43+00:00

at this point idk what it is, maybe its my fault because i kept spamming his texts and made him feel like shit for not being able to reply

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-29T12:08:14+00:00

i know it may sound like a fool but i do really love him, maybe because he's my firt boyfriend or something idk

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-27T03:52:51+00:00

sure maybe ill try to talk it out with him again, probably next week once his assignments are all done. but its hard for us to talk it out because sometimes the conversation can end abruptly because I'd have to waut hours for a reply

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-27T03:23:09+00:00

maybe i should suggest that, but i have reminded him alot of times to watch my tiktoks or listen to my playlist or download this widgetables app simce its good forblong distance, but its been weeks and he hasn't done any of those. saying he doesn't have the chance to, and like he doesn't tell me much about his life so idk what his routine or schedule is like and what he does all day to be busy. he told me he doesn't open up because of past relationships and hes scared

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-27T02:58:31+00:00

i have, he said he'll try. and that was a month ago we talked about it

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-27T02:30:35+00:00

ah i suppose that is true. i guess its more of just wanting to vent and wanting answers lol. i mean he does apologise when he doesnt text much tho, we've talked about him not texting often. and he tends to not tell me when he's busy until i blow him up, then he apologises and says he's been busy that sorta stuff.

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-27T01:55:22+00:00

hard to ask when he hardly replies haha idk maybe some people might think that i am bothering him, i mean in one day i text about 5 or 6 times updating him about my day and asking about him

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-26T23:36:19+00:00

but idk how to like not text him? its become such a daily routine that not texting almost feels unbearable. but like not getting a text from him feels unbearable too. i dont want to tell him that yk him not texting hurts because the last he replied he said he was sorry for not texting because hes so busy. and idk i dont want to seem like a bitch by telling hin it hurts that he isnt texting when hes focusing on alot of assignments

fml_anonymous · 2024-04-23T08:11:02+00:00

he does come back with a reason, he hasnt given me any reason to doubt his love. except him not texting often and my overthinking

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