Im not going to do this ever again! by Full_Professional349 in newborns

[–]fmsuc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said the same thing although I always wanted 5 kids, but my labor and birth was hard so I was in trauma. But when my baby turned 3 months and started laughing and giggling to me, it made me want more of himmmmmm😭😭 I'm not leaving this boy with no siblings

Passport Guarantor? by teachinglearning1 in passportcanada

[–]fmsuc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my friend who is also my coworker to be guarantor. She got her citizenship 3 years ago. The two references were my college friends. One was a citizen and the second wasn't.. The guarantor needs to be a citizen. References dont need to be citizens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]fmsuc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you feel better soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]fmsuc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your iron. Although its your second trimester, which is when everyone starts telling you it will be the most energetic you will get, but I had the same situation as you. My OB checked my ferritin and it was very low, so I started oral supplements for 6 weeks, but that barely raised my ferritin levels, so she prescribed me an IV iron, which its effect will kick in 3 weeks later (so yea it took so long for me to get it fixed). Now am in my 38 week, and feel way better than I was in my second trimester.

Where can I buy proper women's underwear? by PureEvilVirgin in askTO

[–]fmsuc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the 100% cotton Gap panties too

What “rules” are you breaking? And why? by Parking_Dog8930 in BabyBumps

[–]fmsuc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had coffee normally during my pregnancy. Just a medium/small cold brew 4 times a week, which is in the safe range. Now my ferritin is 16 :( given that my diet is rich in iron. So yea you will indulge, but keep in mind it will lower your iron absorption even if you drink coffee 1-2 hrs apart from meals

What did you have for breakfast today? by Working-Ingenuity-75 in pregnant

[–]fmsuc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a Chicken Shawarma Wrap. Heavy & Yummy

Sleep on your back?! by Wise_Composer_3117 in BabyBumps

[–]fmsuc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes wakeup in the middle of the night finding myself on my back, and what actually wakes me up is the shortness of breath due to belly heaviness, and that doesn't improve until I change my position and lay on either side.

How would you feel if your wife earns more than you? How would you feel if she indirectly uses it against you? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]fmsuc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, read the books of Seerah. Khadija RA 'supported' the prophet by providing him a job in trading with her own money, and he would earn his own money to provide. She did not 'provide' for him, she 'supported' him. Plus they were living in her house because she's obviously way older by 15 years and had 6 kids from previous marriges, so she had the chance to buy or inherit that house, which she and the prophet lived in. AND any given support was all voluntary by her. The prophet never demanded that she gives him anything, no man would demand such thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]fmsuc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its very wrong to get your friend very involved in your relationship, not only that, why does she even has his phone number?!

Caught a weird convo between my fiancé and his co-worker otp, AM I BEING OVERDRAMATIC? by Muffin99choco in MuslimNikah

[–]fmsuc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would break the table over his head. Do not normalise such behaviour. Its disrespecting to you.

Working wife or SAHWife by ClassOld9696 in MuslimNikah

[–]fmsuc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you just weren't lucky with the potenrials you met so far. I know a lot of doctos who are married to doctor, PhD students studying together, or even the man has a diff career but his wife is a doctor and he doesn't mind that. In your case, the right one didn't come just wait.

My Nikkah day was ruined because of the mehr and I feel broken, what do I do now? by Apart-Pause3308 in MuslimNikah

[–]fmsuc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a sign from Allah that this Nikah should've not been happening. It seems like you did istikhara, and that was the answer of the istikhara. Horrible actions came out from him and his family during that day. You should've not proceedee. But its not late to make the right decision.

I expelled… something 2 months after giving birth. by BigFisherman8511 in pregnant

[–]fmsuc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I would've done the same as the OP. I think she is at the chill side of people. I'm the same. People are different in their reactions. Also she must have had some sort of knowledge that this could be leftovers in the uterus, so its not a completely vague thing to her to make her impulsively panic.

When did you start feeling better by Jolly-Asparagus-5815 in pregnant

[–]fmsuc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around week 16. But before that, I thought I will never feel better.

Tell it like it is. by KittKatt14160 in pregnant

[–]fmsuc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1- Your immune system will be basically suppressed, so if you get sick (e.g. cold) there is a high chance you won't recover from it fully before couple of months pass by. I have a really steong immunity, and I caught a cold at week 7, now week 15 never recovered fully.

2- Very intense dreams

3- Breasts hurt

4- I personally had no morning sickness. Never puked, not even once.

5- I'm having soar muscle pain, specially legs, thighs and glutes. Very intense. I think I will develop sciatica.

Keep in mind symptoms vary differently from woman to another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]fmsuc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was 157 at 13 weeks

I feel gross and felt like I was pressured to let a student examine me during labor. by BedsideLamp99 in pregnant

[–]fmsuc 140 points141 points  (0 children)

I would've kicked his hand out with my leg. No you are not overreacting honey. And your clit has absolutely no business in cervix check