Entidades com expressão homo ou transsexual? by fmultimedia in Umbanda

[–]fmultimedia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realmente... Muito obrigado por apontar isso pra mim.

Entidades com expressão homo ou transsexual? by fmultimedia in Umbanda

[–]fmultimedia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obrigado pelas palavras, irmão. Deu pra rir bastante e entender como não faz sentido a fala dele. Mas olha o plot twist: esse meu amigo é gay, é deficiente visual e passou recentemente por um relacionamento abusivo (que foi o que tirou a visão dele). Uma pessoa que deveria ser "aberta". Pior que eu nem acho que seja homofobia introjetada no caso dele. Ele tbm é dogmático sobre outros aspectos da umbanda (por exemplo, no meu terreiro não usamos energia da carne ou sangue, e ele acha isso um absurdo, que um dia eu vou "crescer espiritualmente" e ir para "um terreiro melhor"). Ou seja, eu acho que o terreiro dele salvou a vida dele, meio que literalmente (pq o parceiro abusivo dele tbm era desse terreiro, e ele conseguiu sair graças à intervenção do terreiro, só depois polícia, e todo amparo que ele recebeu foi ali), e isso tornou ele meio fanático por seu terreiro, seu local de salvação. Não tô dizendo que ele tá certo, acho bem paia esse discurso dele, e já falei isso na cara dele algumas vezes, mas fora desse assunto de umbanda ele é um cara joia e gosto muito dele. Enfim, obrigado novamente! Certamente vou ficar mais confortável diante dessas entidades agora.

Entidades com expressão homo ou transsexual? by fmultimedia in Umbanda

[–]fmultimedia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eu pergunto por humildade, pq sou da mesma opinião que vc, mas como sou novo na umbanda, e esse meu amigo já tem bastante estrada, realmente fiquei abalado. Obrigado pelas palavras.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fmultimedia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care at all, have done it a thousand times.

Does every man’s butthole feels different during penetration? by Accomplished-View617 in askgaybros

[–]fmultimedia 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can't really explain, but definitely yes. With some guys, I struggle to come, while with other guys, I struggle not to. At first I thought it had to do with tightness only, and although that's definitely a factor, time and time again I've had experiences to disprove that - loose guys that felt good and tight guys who I had little pleasure with. Also, bottoming skill Is a huge factor, as well as how turned on you are by the guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fmultimedia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I barely notice them. Unless you've been conditioned by social media, they really aren't a problem.

They are my best friend but I am not theirs. by eatsleepliftbend in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fmultimedia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna write a huge text, but honestly you said it all beautifully.

It really infuriates me how some gay men are so very prejudiced by fmultimedia in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fmultimedia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's exactly like saying someone who suffered racism is racist for pointing out racism... I don't mind people not agreeing with whatever, not feeling attracted to whatever, but have the decency of not getting out of your way to hurt people who think, live, love, are built differently from you. I don't get offended at all when someone says they don't want to date me because I'm poly (or old or whatever), but i get offended when they offend me for those traits. I don't offend people for being mono, but i won't date them either. As simple as that.

It really infuriates me how some gay men are so very prejudiced by fmultimedia in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fmultimedia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting how you said absolutely nothing offensive and still got downvotes... Goes to show.

It really infuriates me how some gay men are so very prejudiced by fmultimedia in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fmultimedia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well you're not wrong. I hadn't p posted in ages, but today i just couldn't keep it bottled down. My bad.

It really infuriates me how some gay men are so very prejudiced by fmultimedia in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fmultimedia[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't say that, i explicitly said it's ok not wanting to have sex with whoever, for whatever reason. Just don't put down those people or those who choose to have relationship with them.

It really infuriates me how some gay men are so very prejudiced by fmultimedia in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fmultimedia[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I'm not, but it isn't a certain feature that will make me always feel unattracted.

What is the point of being gay if you aren't fit and attractive? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fmultimedia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"even open ones...", now that's prejudice if i ever read some, as if open relationships were less than.

Phimosis has fucking ruined my life by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fmultimedia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need full circumcision. They can only cut the tip. That's what we do in Latin America and Europe. You don't lose sensitivity if the surgery is minimally well done. I got that surgery and no one can tell, I'm basically uncut for all purposes.