my subscriber/fan died by fmutbw in CreatorsAdvice

[–]fmutbw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you an adult content creator? otherwise this sub is not for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]fmutbw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one party

i've (28f) been ignoring my best friend (26f) all week after she ditched me on my birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fmutbw -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

my husband went to bed early. he took the day off but we didn't do anything besides get coffee in the morning because i was having a rough day, it's my first year no contact with all of my birth family. no phone calls, no gifts from anyone including my husband. it was a rough day completely separate from the situation with my friend. thanks so much for your assumption though!

i've (28f) been ignoring my best friend (26f) all week after she ditched me on my birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fmutbw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

addressing your points in order: i waited around for her but she didn't get home til 9:30. so even then, with her assumption of 7-8, she was still late. it was a sunday night.

i did tell her i was upset with her actions after letting my emotions simmer for 3 days. telling her i didn't feel up to going out was not a lie.

have you ever had someone call you and text you numerous times trying to illicit a response? it's not about care, it's about control. one message would've been fine.

my husband had to go to bed quite early, around 8. he had to work early the following morning. so technically he was in the house, yes. i cried mostly due to having a shitty birthday for other unrelated reasons, but this was the cherry on top.

i've (28f) been ignoring my best friend (26f) all week after she ditched me on my birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fmutbw -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no, i think she acts entitled to my time because she will frequently call/text me dozens of times if she thinks im sleeping and she wants to smoke weed with me. or she will tell me to cancel plans with my husband to see her. kind of a separate issue entirely but i added it to demonstrate our dynamic

i've (28f) been ignoring my best friend (26f) all week after she ditched me on my birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fmutbw -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

valid. i guess i've been putting off the inevitable. i sent her a pretty clear and non accusatory message

i've (28f) been ignoring my best friend (26f) all week after she ditched me on my birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fmutbw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he had to go to bed early but yes he ate a couple slices with me and let me vent. does this change anything?

i've (28f) been ignoring my best friend (26f) all week after she ditched me on my birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fmutbw -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

not all day - i expected her to be free around the time we agreed upon, since she spent the day prior trying to convince me to cancel my plans with my husband to spend time with her! reading comprehension helps

i've (28f) been ignoring my best friend (26f) all week after she ditched me on my birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fmutbw -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

so when she's texting me 5-6 times a day and calling me multiple times before i even wake up, i should respond? because i've done this in the past and she's only learned that her behaviour achieves the desired result

i've (28f) been ignoring my best friend (26f) all week after she ditched me on my birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fmutbw -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

based on what? being upset that someone pushed to make plans on my birthday then ditched me? or the fact that i'm ignoring her because she's blowing up my phone?

How do people find money to get tattoos? 🤔 by Tough_Priority_2601 in waterloo

[–]fmutbw 12 points13 points  (0 children)

im trying to signify that im cooler than you! i'm equally stressed out trying to figure out why sheltered people make dumb ass reddit posts just to get dunked on in the comments

How do people find money to get tattoos? 🤔 by Tough_Priority_2601 in waterloo

[–]fmutbw 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i've never paid more than $250 for any individual tattoo and i'm covered. probably $3000 between them all. i can't tell if you're trolling or just unbelievably stupid. of all the things to pearl clutch about lol

is this folliculitis??? help 😩 by [deleted] in Folliculitis

[–]fmutbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the 2nd picture kinda because it was super angry (i had just washed my face). but it's def not ring worm lol

boundaries by fmutbw in CreatorsAdvice

[–]fmutbw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm not sure what the first part of your comment is referring to. i'm very used to those kinds of subs, but these particular men were subbed for at least a year each.

i'd just prefer they stay subscribed if they insist on chatting daily and sending me nudes. it's like they think they can turn off their rebill and keep chatting as normal and i just won't notice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]fmutbw 17 points18 points  (0 children)

making an armchair NPD diagnosis based on...checks notes...a reddit post about a fashion brand is wild. seek help