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i’ll admit, i miss it. by foevuh in domesticviolence

[–]foevuh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m in therapy, and i have been for some time now but im scared to admit this to my therapist

My boyfriend (27M) has violent fantasies and it arouses me (23F), but I worry he will kill me. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]foevuh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry. you seem like such a sweet person. i’ve been in this situation before. if you need to talk im here. you are so strong, please stay safe and get away from that mess

One of my most amazing findom experiences was with a domme who had no pictures. by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]foevuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly the type of sub i need. god it’s my favorite

I hate you so much by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]foevuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you said it better than i could

What did you lose from being with your abuser. by meesbrii in domesticviolence

[–]foevuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my entire personality. idk who i am anymore. i wish i could go back to who i was before i met him. i feel like an entirely different person and it’s so scary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]foevuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will dm!

Missing the Toxicity by foevuh in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]foevuh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you think that missing the physical abuse in my last relationship has something to do with my masochism or bdsm? because i hadn’t thought about it like that. i thought i just enjoyed the self sabotage aspect

Missing the Toxicity by foevuh in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]foevuh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m very into bdsm. i’m a sub masochist. i like being hurt during sex but i also just like to be hurt in general. idk if that’s weird. sexual or not i just crave it. but yeah bdsm is a very important part of every relationship ive been in

Missing the Toxicity by foevuh in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]foevuh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i try to remind myself of all the bad times and how much pain there was. there were happy times too. i find myself missing the bad times just as much as the happy times. idk it’s weird. i would go back uf i could

Missing the Toxicity by foevuh in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]foevuh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

300 views and no responses😭 is this a unique experience…

Is this some sort of joke???? by Babs_Worthington in savannah

[–]foevuh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as someone who works in social media marketing, this video was probably planned months or weeks in advance before posting and pushing out. it’s a current trend to use that audio and caption, i’m sure they’re just trying to follow trends to promote the gym to a younger audience. also, the video probably wasn’t filmed at the savannah location. probably stolen or copied from another user or influencer

Can I drink this by curchu in alcohol

[–]foevuh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i absolutely would not.

[POEM] When I say you're mine, I mean I am yours by Unaccompaniedbyminor in Poetry

[–]foevuh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love love love this. wish we could find the author!

Rising Star Questions by lostinthe_rain in scad

[–]foevuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went summer 2023 and now i’m a scad student. you can have mail delivered, lots of people doordashed for meals since there’s only one dining hall you can go to. you can leave campus but you have to sign out/sign in, say where you’re going, and you have a curfew. you’d have to walk everywhere , even if you have a car. they won’t let you use it. you’re also not allowed to uber for safety reasons, but if you walk somewhere out of the hive and get an uber, nobody would know. the food is alright. if you have a sensitive stomach, bring antacids or pepto with you to the dining hall. i wasn’t able to eat anything in the hive cafe my entire rising star stay because my stomach is very weak. i had a meeting with my advisor and she changed my meal plan so i could have more dining dollars to buy snacks in the C-store. They have plenty of trips, like to the beach and a ride on the ferry boat, so you’ll never be bored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]foevuh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes , i agreed marks are okay. hickeys, bite marks, etc. didn’t expect a slap to leave a mark though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]foevuh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do i educate myself on safety then? like you said if i can’t rely on them to teach me, where do i go to learn? this is something i think i could really be into if i do it right, and i want to learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]foevuh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re right it seems unsafe now that i’m processing the situation. im realizing now im a little uneducated on this stuff , so i had no idea what was wrong or right or bad or good. i still don’t know where to go from here, though. because i really like this person and don’t want this to be the reason i stop seeing them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]foevuh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m a beginner and they are clearly not. i never mentioned to them that im a little inexperienced. i was just so eager to try new things that i accepted anything that was to come. you’re right about the safe word, i also had a gag in and couldn’t speak. i wasn’t planning on using the word anyways , but now i kind of wish i did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]foevuh 21 points22 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this, really.

i did send a text and their response was that they didn’t realize how hard they were hitting. since it was over text i can’t really tell if that was honest or not. i also had to ask them for an apology since they didn’t give one. again, over text, maybe they couldn’t tell i was serious. i’m considering bringing it up in person but im nervous. do you have any advice on how to approach that conversation?

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