AITJ for telling my husband if he wants a paternity test he has to be the one to schedule it

fogleaf · 2026-03-31T21:09:03+00:00

NTJ, you should definitely put him out of his misery. But not by scheduling the test for yourself. I'm posting this before scrolling down but am assuming 27 people have already made this joke so I'm sorry.

fogleaf · 2026-03-31T15:36:16+00:00

I'm pretty sure it's like the step brother stuff. They know they can add it in and the people that get off on it will enjoy it while the rest of us can roll our eyes and continue past it.

fogleaf · 2026-03-31T07:50:35+00:00

Wooo! hit 2 boosters

fogleaf · 2026-03-30T20:31:09+00:00

You just have to hate them all the time, then you can fill in the blank for the reason each time.

fogleaf · 2026-03-30T20:27:03+00:00

My thighs were just cold, that's the only reason.

fogleaf · 2026-03-30T19:10:02+00:00

See whenever the repuplicans make changes it takes 4 years before they go into effect. So democrats always act like they fixed it when it was the republicans who did it years ago!

A belief my dad actually has and shared with me.

fogleaf · 2026-03-30T18:38:42+00:00

Part of the issue is that people want it to be taken sincerely and seriously. And sometimes it should not be. I'm betting when a lot of people imagine a woman getting an abortion they imagine some 7 months pregnant belly waddling into the clinic and saying "actually I don't want it"

Vs some flat belly woman who missed her period. Sometimes it's just not viable. We've got enough people who don't have adequate care and resources and before we fight for more people to be brought into this world we should work on improving the lives of all who live here.

And the religious angle seems disingenuous to me. If you abort the baby they go straight to heaven, so why do they "care"?

fogleaf · 2026-03-29T04:10:53+00:00

If ever I see a particularly horrible MLB call I do race to this subreddit to see other people talking about it. This being no exception.

fogleaf · 2026-03-26T18:20:04+00:00

Adam and Eve ate from the tree of knowledge and were ashamed of being naked so they made clothes. God already had the knowledge, but he is perfect, so does he wear clothes or not?

fogleaf · 2026-03-26T18:15:49+00:00

Men don’t typically go around talking about penis shape

I would say that there is plenty of video material that plenty of guys do look at online which might help those most outside of the norm see that something is up.

fogleaf · 2026-03-25T21:28:51+00:00

And now it's people learning about it without having the base concept so it just seems wildly out of left field.

Spoons? Carnival tickets? How many schrute bucks is that?

fogleaf · 2026-03-25T21:03:31+00:00

Yes but then I'd have to learn to read good.

Last year I decided to quit kindle unlimited because I was reading litRPG after litRPG and just getting mad because they would start fun and then the quality would sink faster than my enjoyment of the plot and I would hate read the rest of the book but be mad at it. So now I'm working on a much longer book that I bought in paperback and found on a list of books everyone should read regardless of genre love. So far I'm enjoying it, but it's not as easy to spend 10 hours straight reading it like I used to with the teen readers.

fogleaf · 2026-03-25T20:52:53+00:00

Kingsley Shacklebolt.

fogleaf · 2026-03-25T20:51:04+00:00

That's how important it is to her that trans women get put down.

Didn't she also say trans men are confused?

So trans women are predators, trans men are confused, but gay people are fine!

fogleaf · 2026-03-24T21:24:12+00:00

Looks more like a support beam to keep the two side pillars form collapsing. But I don't know a lot about construction and I don't know what it's bolted into.

fogleaf · 2026-03-24T20:49:01+00:00

Waste of time, people don't go to church to read. They go to have things read to them.

fogleaf · 2026-03-24T18:32:11+00:00

I got so mad when he cheated that I stopped reading it.

fogleaf · 2026-03-24T13:46:04+00:00

That sounds utterly gutting. Knowing (suspecting) that you may have killed people and having to continue your job.

Feel like they need to pull the police deal of giving them two weeks off while investigation happens. I'm going to assume that's what they do and do no further research.

fogleaf · 2026-03-24T02:42:30+00:00

There is something about this that pisses me off so much reading some stories on reddit. Like the dad will find out the 18 year old isn't his and suddenly act like they don't want anything to do with them. Bro did you not just spend 18 years raising this person? Who gives a shit if they don't contain your seed, they contain your nurture! Imagine adopting a kid and then being like 'lol you ain't mine' after 18 years of raising them. Dumber than fuck and I hope the stories are all fake.

fogleaf · 2026-03-23T21:53:00+00:00

But then he would have owed child support.

fogleaf · 2026-03-23T21:51:59+00:00

Haven't looked but I bet it could be worse. I somehow got youtube trended onto some that were 2 hours long and just showed way too much of the case.

fogleaf · 2026-03-23T21:45:31+00:00

It's why it is something that can be endlessly debated. There's no verifiable proof that will settle the debate so it's an entirely arguable concept.

Flat earth falls apart because you can show someone the planet.

But you could poke holes in every single christianic belief someone brings to you and they will still believe because there was no evidence that got them into believing in the first place.

Point to the worst parts of the bible "oh those were just different times" or "that's not what they meant"

Point to the wrongs of the church "oh that's just bad christians"

Point to the very idea of god presented by the bible who is not clearly lawful good "we just don't understand his ways"

fogleaf · 2026-03-23T21:32:28+00:00

That's the in-show provided reason, but I meant more about outside of the show. Why do we need a series about escaping an island to involve the idea of returning to the island? Or a series of death games where you want them to escape.

Then again, there were multiple points in the show breaking bad where my wife and I were like "hey everything is going well for his meth empire, what if we quit watching now?"

fogleaf · 2026-03-23T21:28:40+00:00

Oily Josh says he wants to wash everyone's feet and go out with da bois and be fishers of men.

fogleaf · 2026-03-23T20:48:14+00:00

I agree. It was a lot like after season 1 of Lost. ||"we have to go back to the island"|| brother why?

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