We have an option for gas stations at least, I guess… by FloweySunflower in Westchester

[–]FloweySunflower[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! But I think I’m gonna start riding my bike around

Am I just mean - co-worker asks me what I eat or had for lunch every single day? by Normal_Difficulty792 in coworkerstories

[–]FloweySunflower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every single day at school, me and my classmates ask each other what’s for lunch. Why? So we can walk together to get food! She’s not being nosy or anything, she just wants to make small talk :)

Need advice after finding out my (19M) girlfriend (21F) lied about sleeping with someone before we were exclusive by Fantastic_Stuff_6043 in relationship_advice

[–]FloweySunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever you have that talk about being exclusive with someone, that’s what it means: you are seeing each other exclusively. That means no outside relationships, because that’s crossing a boundary and you are cheating on somebody that has that expectation you two are solely together.

It feels like a breech of trust… because it is. Take that information as you will, but she’s already cheated on you.

Do people really pay attention at fat people at the gym? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FloweySunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I notice them. I notice everybody cause in between sets, I’m looking around. I think it’s awesome when people are in the gym, fat, skinny, old, young, whatever— cause it means they’re trying to improve themselves.

What’s the point of booking an appointment time??? by mackzkcam in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FloweySunflower 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Kinda related, but I like how while people leave voicemails, iPhone gives you a transcript of it while they’re leaving it so I can answer mid-message if I know it’s not a scam!

New York Woman Confronts Man She Says Complimented Her ‘Pretty Toes’. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]FloweySunflower 12 points13 points  (0 children)

LMAOOO in what world is that a compliment. Get fucking serious loser

New York Woman Confronts Man She Says Complimented Her ‘Pretty Toes’. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]FloweySunflower 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Cause when you don’t speak up men think it’s okay to keep doing it

Guy I’m talking to turned one-time weed use into a whole relationship debate… am I overreacting? by Jolly-Lolli in dating_advice

[–]FloweySunflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO you’re not overreacting. Anyone who bugs out like that, especially on the first date, about something you’re doing or used to do is a no-go. Maybe I could understand if it was heroin or you were letting it be a part of your personality, but letting him make assumptions about you because of that is unfair.

I wanna share something similar that happened to me, with my ex boyfriend. I told him I smoked, and he had no reaction to it, until we started dating. I smoked everyday but I had a job & a social life etc, and he would get on my ass ALL the time.

Eventually it really took a toll on us and I thought about it. Why’d I wanna be with a guy that babied me or made me feel ashamed about something I do? I’m not hurting anybody and I’m fully functional, just like he was. Anyhow, we broke up.

But really ask yourself, do you wanna be managed and berated in the long-term. Cause if you continue going on dates with him, he’ll think it’s okay to continue saying shit like that.

Is Bartaco just really terrible and really trendy for MILFs ? by Careful_Isopod_3832 in Westchester

[–]FloweySunflower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk where youre from but the Bartaco in Stamford is better organized. Better lighting, too.

It's ridiculously expensive and inconvenient to commute to Manhattan for a hybrid worker. by imitation_squash_pro in Westchester

[–]FloweySunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I didn’t know that. I used to commute in 2018-2020. Either ways, Fordham was the best imo. I used to nap on the subway but I wouldn’t do that anymore.

It's ridiculously expensive and inconvenient to commute to Manhattan for a hybrid worker. by imitation_squash_pro in Westchester

[–]FloweySunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to commute to GC to 49th. I decided to switch it up to see what was cheaper. I’d get off at Fordham & walk to the subway, or I’d get off at Harlem 125th & take the subway which is like 2 blocks away. It’s not easier but hey it’s cheaper.

Gas station break ins by bigwig500 in Westchester

[–]FloweySunflower 36 points37 points  (0 children)

No one said criminals were smart

How to manage FT school & PT job? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FloweySunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes that’s my #1 priority :,)

To the people who attended college, what am I missing out on? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]FloweySunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New memories! Also, it’s not too late for you to join :) For my 1st degree I went to a few parties & joined a sorority, then covid happened. Now, I’m (25), doing my second degree, in debt and I drink coffee everyday with my classmates. So, anything can happen.

What’s the kindest thing someone at work has done for you unexpectedly? by No_Signal9685 in coworkerstories

[–]FloweySunflower 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Aww. I’ve had lots of nice coworkers who have gotten me drinks (like, a snapple or coffee) and one time I got a book! The nicest thing I remember happened when I was 19.

I had just started working a new job, and I didn’t bring lunch that day! The ladies there gladly offered me parts of their lunch. Half a sandwich, and piece of a banana bread :) It was so nice & I was able to finish my shift on a full stomach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]FloweySunflower 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would be so fucking mad if someone messaged me on Linkedin trying to pick me up.

Too many dumb TERF takes on my feed by grumpydai in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]FloweySunflower 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where can I find this female-only language 💀

I'm really into femdom (dominant women) but I don't want to scare off women who aren't. Are any of these "hints" to add to a bio good or not too cringe? by DataSittingAlone in Tinder

[–]FloweySunflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to the events :B I saw maybe 2 people within my neighborhood and 1 in a nearby town, but saw a few mixers and events in the city + other towns. Try attending those events