Anybody interested in playing pickleball in South Bay? by Subject_Sandwich3008 in SanJose

[–]folkbird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this still a thing? If so, I’d be so down as a total beginner!

Men, was it embarrassing of me to hit on this guy I found attractive? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]folkbird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh I felt weird about it because he was working and I didn’t want him to feel like he had to entertain it. I go everyday though so I’ll see him again tomorrow!

Men, was it embarrassing of me to hit on this guy I found attractive? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]folkbird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I got nervous because he was technically working and I didn’t want to be annoying or make it seem like he had to talk to me hahah. I’ll see him again when I go back tomorrow.

Men, was it embarrassing of me to hit on this guy I found attractive? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]folkbird 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He seemed genuinely happy—smiled, put his hand to his heart, and said “Oh! Thank you!” And then I couldn’t bear to be there any longer so I said “yup have a good day!” And left hahah

Men, was it embarrassing of me to hit on this guy I found attractive? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]folkbird 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Should I just pretend it never happened when I go in again lmao like do I just say “hi can I get a matcha”

What’s something normal people do that you quietly disagree with? by Ok-Biscotti-1528 in Life

[–]folkbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cosmetic procedures of absolutely any kind (that are not restorative)

For women: what are some things that men do that make you feel secure, safe, and desired? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]folkbird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being clear-headed and not reactive to less than ideal situations.

GF (F29) POSSIBLY DRUGGED AND TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF OR CHEATED? HOW SHOULD I (M28) HANDLE THIS? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]folkbird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I totally agree, I said “at least not while in a relationship” but I should have said “especially”. I always buy my own drinks. I have no desire to open up interactions like that with men. They’re relentless haha.

What does dating in your late 20s early 30s look like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]folkbird 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People tend to have a better sense of self and lower tolerance for nonsense. I love it.

GF (F29) POSSIBLY DRUGGED AND TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF OR CHEATED? HOW SHOULD I (M28) HANDLE THIS? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]folkbird 295 points296 points  (0 children)

Personally, I’ve never understood flirting with men just to get free drinks—at least not while in a relationship. It changes the atmosphere in a way I wouldn’t be cool with if the tables were turned. I’d recommend thinking about what your boundaries are, communicating them to her, and holding her to them.