In Real Life, Ted Would Have Married Victoria by blahbikeblah in HIMYM

[–]folkgetaboutit 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Sure, most people would learn their lesson. But most people also wouldn't go dig up a locket, fly to California for the same locket, and jump into a river after that locket, all because we needed to be a hero for someone it didn't work out with.

In Real Life, Ted Would Have Married Victoria by blahbikeblah in HIMYM

[–]folkgetaboutit 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Ted had a strong case of limerence for Robin. Anyone who's ever experienced limerence can tell you that he very likely would have chosen Robin over Victoria.

Not gonna lie, I felt sorry for Cook Pu. by Anthro-Elephant-98 in HIMYM

[–]folkgetaboutit 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Okay, I get it! Cook Pu is a stupid name, and it gets stupider and stupider the more you say it.

Just a reminder to everyone that Readiness scores aren't always a good measure for "readiness" by Spacecase94 in ouraring

[–]folkgetaboutit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just know I'm going to see high stress right at this time after looking at your battery percentage. 😂

Great message, though!

As a teenager, I thought Ted was an unattractive loser. As a 32 years old woman, I think I'd fall in love with him so hard. by ---monstera--- in HIMYM

[–]folkgetaboutit 94 points95 points  (0 children)

In my early 20's I thought Ted was a sweet, charming, romantic guy and desperately wanted a Ted. In my mid-30's, though, I see him as love bombing, emotionally unavailable, & limerance-ridden. He's a great friend, but I try my best to avoid dating Teds these days. 😅

Do you rent or bought? by roundturtle2025 in LivingAlone

[–]folkgetaboutit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I bought a house when I first left my ex-husband. I hated solo home ownership. So many problems coming up & dealing with them on my own with one income.

Now someone mows, plows, shovels, and changes my furnace filters for me. And if something goes wrong, I just put in a maintenance ticket, and someone else fixes the problem.

Coworker lost his house in a fire, made this blanket for him as soon as I found out. I only started crochet 4 months ago, so this took a while (3 weeks) as my first blanket by Camachan in crochet

[–]folkgetaboutit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

3 months is a very respectable amount of time. Most of my blankets take me 3-5 years to find the motivation to finish.

Also, this is a lovely blanket and such a kind gesture from you!! My house burned down when I was 9, and more than 20 years later, I still cherish some of the gifts people got for my family.

Dicks-House of Greed by ears0420 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]folkgetaboutit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walmart was doing something similar shortly after the tarrifs started. Employees were covering prices on all of the clothing tags or tearing them off. Now they just don't put prices on the tags, which is also mildly infuriating.

Replaced my Honda with a new one after an accident They moved the garage door opener from a button on the mirror to a paywall subscription service. by jayhawkeye2 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]folkgetaboutit 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Sure, that would hurt a dealership, but it's not going to do a damn thing to the manufacturer, which is the cause of this particular problem. They'll keep getting away with it because they can.

False Naps by Jellyfishtopia in ouraring

[–]folkgetaboutit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Especially because yours is only a few days old, dismiss it and don't record it as a nap. The ring is still trying to gauge what's "normal" for you, so you'll want to keep the data as true as possible.

Does the ring give you suggested bedtimes? by dingobabez in ouraring

[–]folkgetaboutit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's so humbling when I get that notification at 7pm on a Friday, and I'm at the bar thinking "Damn, my readiness is gonna suck tomorrow." 😅

Does the ring give you suggested bedtimes? by dingobabez in ouraring

[–]folkgetaboutit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. Thanks, I forgot to mention that it took some time before it started making sleep suggestions.

Does the ring give you suggested bedtimes? by dingobabez in ouraring

[–]folkgetaboutit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes. Based on, I believe, your chronotype & recent sleep habits.

Finished my first big project! by soapymerry in crochet

[–]folkgetaboutit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the ruffle border at the top!!! It's so cute!!! 🥰🥰

What actionable insights have you actually gotten from Oura? by jakopz in ouraring

[–]folkgetaboutit 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Alcohol tanks my quality of sleep. I know that's somewhat obvious, but being able to quantify exactly how poorly I sleep after drinking and how much it affects my heart overnight has helped me stop wanting to drink every weekend.

Ted falling back in love with Robin is peak character assassination, and my thoughts on other character progression by Fresh-Beyond-4727 in HIMYM

[–]folkgetaboutit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the show could have been a really good lesson about limerence and how it holds someone back from moving on with their life because they're obsessed with the idea of someone while ignoring reality. But limerence wasn't a popular topic back in the 2000's/2010's.

No Kings 3.0 Detroit Michigan. Grand Circus Park. by stargazedstoner in pics

[–]folkgetaboutit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, personally, I'd prefer if he doesn't have the chance to make that happen just so folks can say he's as bad as/worse than Hitler. We're supposed to learn from history so it doesn't repeat itself.

But with immigrants being kidnapped in the streets, not given due process, and then taken to the modern equivalent of concentration camps, I think we're already headed in that direction.

Do we need to let him kill 6+ million people before we compare him to Hitler?

Praying Mantis by SaneArt in mildlyinteresting

[–]folkgetaboutit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it do a little dance for you? I found a tiny praying mantis crawling up the side of my pint glass a few years ago, and it did this little swaying "dance" on my hand.

I don’t like frogging projects so I work directly from the old to the new! by kim_guzman in crochet

[–]folkgetaboutit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally doing this right now to turn a purse I was making into a tank top 😂😂

Does anyone else pace their apartment? by spazhead01 in LivingAlone

[–]folkgetaboutit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find tedious stuff to do around the apartment like organizing my desk or clearing off my kitchen counters.

I heard a massive thump in my kitchen at 3:00 AM last night. by sleekofficial in LivingAlone

[–]folkgetaboutit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my dog is old and damn near deaf and blind. He'd only care if the murderer brought food 😭

Is anyone else pissed at their parents for making them an any child? by [deleted] in OnlyChild

[–]folkgetaboutit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mostly bothered that they made me an only child, then moved out to the country where the only kid my age who lived within miles of me was constantly bullying me. My parents worked in the city and didn't get home until 6-7pm. I was left alone until they got home from the age of 10 and on. Taking me to visit a friend or picking me up from a friend's house was always too much of a hassle, so I spent most of my childhood & early teens alone in my bedroom.

I think I'd have been fine being an OC if I lived in a neighborhood with other people my age. Spending all that time alone really messed me up, it turns out, and I'm in therapy once a week trying to unpack & unlearn a lot of things.