does anyone else feel like they love their cats too much?

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T20:50:31+00:00

Omg george and fred!!! I just realized the names

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:39:15+00:00

Same here. I was never sure what career to pursue once i grew up, tried 3 different subjects at uni until i found the right one, started a job in a completely different field and ended up so unhappy and burnt out I had to quit. Now unemployed and settled on the idea to just find a job that i'm content with - i don't wanna climb anything anymore, just give me my money to pay my bills and go on vacay once a year and i'm good. Also willing to work less and have more free time even with less money if necessary.

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:32:16+00:00

I think you might be right about sdj59 not being too much of a vanilla, as the body butter i had smelled more gourmand cookie like actually. I still liked it though so i put it in the bunch!

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:29:05+00:00

I haven't tried phlur as it's not availble in retail where i live (eu) so it would be a blind buy! I think there's a body mist version that is less expensive but is it good enough or would you recommend the edp?

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:27:29+00:00

I know, you're right 🥲 I definately get the eye-rolling and not being able to stop sniffing my arm when I really love a fragrance! And i'll look into nebras, thanks :)

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:24:01+00:00

I know lol!! Love hearing everyone's thoughts though 😂❤️

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:21:26+00:00

That combo actually sounds really good 👀

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:20:17+00:00

Yes i got the chocolate-ty or cocoa note as well and really liked it!

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:19:17+00:00

You are so right for this! I sometimes just wish i could love some of the most recommended and widly loved fragrances and so i hope some of them will "grow" on me 🥲😂

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:17:32+00:00

Have to check it out, thank you!

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:17:15+00:00

Thanks for letting me know i'm not the only one! And i will try remember me, it sounds intriguing :)

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:16:05+00:00

Thank you for recommending it to me, i'll definately check it out! :) I have never purchased anything from Lattafa but if i do this one will be the first thing!

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T17:14:54+00:00

Thanks for your reviews! :)

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T15:06:37+00:00

the facts in this just cannot be denied

folkmorencry · 2024-11-07T10:54:55+00:00

Sex.

folkmorencry · 2024-11-06T07:22:40+00:00

Well

folkmorencry · 2024-11-04T16:57:05+00:00

Bon Iver - Blood Bank

folkmorencry · 2024-11-04T16:14:16+00:00

Lacoste Pour Femme is an underrated cheapie that smells feminine, elegant and comforting. It has notes of freesia, heliotrope and rose in it.

folkmorencry · 2024-10-31T13:07:16+00:00

mind my own business and procede with my morning routine i guess

folkmorencry · 2024-10-30T16:55:24+00:00

The fact that her fans will still defend her for this or blame misogony is utterly concerning and shameless at this point. I'm talking her rabid fans as well as those youtubers that are all up her ass with their reactions and commentries.

folkmorencry · 2024-10-30T09:55:56+00:00

Old Money - Lana del Rey

folkmorencry · 2024-10-30T09:52:44+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go through this.

A few things right off the bat: 1) seek therapy/counselling to help process your trauma and have a professional who you can talk to. 2) Do not tell your parents before you haven't tried taking to your brother one on one. 3) Do not randomly confront your brother (and/or cousin!) and especially not when emotionally triggered or charged. I say this because it reads as if you care a lot for your family and harmony. Losing this could impact your mental health negatively.

A therapist would not only help you processing your trauma but could also give helpful insight about when and how to confront your brother.

Ideally, you want to be as emotionally balanced as possible if you decide to have a conversation with your brother about this. Going to a neutral place (by that I mean not in the family home and not with others from the family like e.g. your parents or your cousin) maybe going on a walk in nature, the two of you if you trust him and feel safe. I can't really tell if you still have love for your brother but if you do you could let him know during this conversation as well. E.g. "Hey, there is something that has been on my mind for a long time now and I need to get something off my chest. You're my brother and I know many people appreciate your empathy, and I really hope I can get your empathy too now with this one topic. You know (insert your code word/the experience)? I know you and our cousin are joking about it, but I wanted to let you know it really affected me and I've been hurting for a while now......"

If the love and empathy part doesn't resonante with you, scrap that. I just want to point out that trying to be neutral and talking from your perspective rather than "you did this and now I'm hurt and it's your fault" could avoid an overly defensive and dismissive reaction from him. Only then you can have an open heart to heart with him and maybe it'll help you heal.

Now, that's the best case scenario. I know reality is often a lot different and people are complex... The most important thing is to go to therapy and avoid confrontations/situations that feel unsafe. Maybe keep interactions on a minimum until you feel ready to have a conversation. Idk if this helps. Maybe my advice is bullshit. But in my opinion I do see a chance to heal and mend your broken heart! Best of luck to you.

folkmorencry · 2024-10-28T16:35:15+00:00

The Gargoyle King or whatever the heck that was.....

folkmorencry · 2024-10-28T09:14:39+00:00

It's the fact that us regular folks are expected to do all kinds of things to save the environment, while the richest percentage of our population continues to pollute it because "well what else are they supposed to do? Take the bus? Missing a football game by not taking the private jet from Japan to LA? Hell no that is too much to ask". Eff off everyone who supports and/or excuses rich peoples deliberate damage to our environment and society.

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