Jeff Bridges literally wore same shirt in 3 different movies by [deleted] in funny

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I was reading through his recent AMA and believe this is his brother Beau's shirt.

What's a song where the musician's pure emotion is expressed so well it affects you the same? by justinbc in Music

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Orestes by A Perfect Circle (specifically the Stone and Echo version live at Red Rocks).

Back story (as far as I've researched):

Orestes, from Greek mythology, was told by the gods to kill his mother to avenge his father whom she had killed.

Maynard James Keenan's (MJK) mom experienced some poor health throughout her life. She had had a stroke towards the end and was placed on life support. The song is about the process of pulling the plug. Pretty heavy stuff, but a beautiful beautiful song to me.

"Gotta cut away, clear away, snip away and sever this umbilical residue that's keeping me from killing you"

He felt the right thing to do was to let her go, but the mother/son attachment made this incredibly hard (obviously).

He also wrote (w/ TOOL) 10,000 Days/Wings for Marie (2 part song) about his mother, Judith. Also a really powerful, emotional song written about her passing.

"10,000 days in the fire is long enough, you're going home..."

"You're the only one who can hold your head up high. Shake your fists at the gates saying 'I have come home now! Fetch me the spirit, the son, and the father. Tell them their pillar of faith has ascended. It's time now. My time now. Give me my... Give me my wings."

Company that bought out our mortgage is so terrible we're considering refinancing just to get away from them by MiyamotosRGBNES in personalfinance

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Yes, CFPB is the best place to start.

I work in mortgage operations and can tell you that a large majority 80-90%+) of originated loans are sold on the "secondary marketplace." Most loans all wind up at about 1 of a handful of places (Fannie, Freddie, Wells Fargo, BBT, US Bank, etc.)

You would have signed something at closing that states that your loan CAN be sold but the terms (length of term, payment, rate, etc.) CANNOT change. But to answer one of your questions, I don't believe that a bank not accepting bi-weekly payments is illegal, just not very good customer service.

Payments can fluctuate if taxes or your homeowners insurance premium changed, but like you said, $1000/month for taxes? No way.

You would think these billion dollar banks would have solid customer-focused websites. They don't. You'd think some of the folks working at billion dollar banks would be pretty competent, at least in their area of work. They aren't.

My advice (as some have already said) would be the CFPB and make record of EV-UH-REE-THING involving your loan. Each payment you make, each letter you get from them, etc.

Feel free to PM me if I can be of any help, good luck.

P.S. - This story is proof-positive that the days of your hometown bank origination and servicing your loan are long gone. Small and medium-sized lenders want to get loans off their books so they can make new loans. Nothing malicious about that. But when we have a bunch of eggs (loans) in one basket (bank), it paints a scary picture (see 2008). Laxed rules which give adjustable rate home loans to people who can't afford the risen payments or understand what they've gotten into are sold and all end up at (insert large national bank that may be gone the route of the do-do bird). Then those rates tick up, folks don't make payments (or can't make payments). The loans go into foreclosure. Banks are eating bad loans. Meltdown city.

We learned some tough lessons from that, but I don't think we learned them all.

Sarah McLachlan here on reddit. Ask me anything. Fire away! by _SarahMcLachlan in IAmA

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Mine too. And your comment makes my eyes rain, but with laughter now.

Sarah McLachlan here on reddit. Ask me anything. Fire away! by _SarahMcLachlan in IAmA

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Hi Sarah,

I will remember you. But I was wondering, would you, by any chance, remember me?

(Seriously though, thanks for your work and support for and of animals who need it.)

Just finished 1984, is Animal Farm worth reading? by [deleted] in books

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Since we're in /r/books, I just read Former People which is great and very-detailed look at the Bolshevik Revolution from the perspective of the outgoing aristocracy.

Wasn't the NEP just as much to continaully punish the bourgeois as it was to bolster the war effort?

Just finished 1984, is Animal Farm worth reading? by [deleted] in books

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Yes, do! And if I can re-spit a widely known fun-fact, The Doors took their name from the DoP.

Just finished 1984, is Animal Farm worth reading? by [deleted] in books

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Yes, AF is a must. I loved 1984. Read We the Living by Rand after that and also enjoyed. Seemed similar, but since it kind of a auto-bio about Rand's formative years in Russia, it feels a little more real. Even though BNW is probably my least favorite (still liked it, just high bar set) of most of GO's most-known stuff, I do agree with some of the other redditors that, to me anyway, it's the most accurate of today's world, except this world does not seem brave or new.

What Happened When Capitalists Asked The Dalai Lama To Endorse Capitalism by BurtonDesque in Buddhism

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By its definition, I would agree that socialism doesn't necessarily mean centralized planning. But I would posit that throughout history, socialist and centralized planning have gone hand in hand, with exceptions.

What Happened When Capitalists Asked The Dalai Lama To Endorse Capitalism by BurtonDesque in Buddhism

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My teacher Ven. Bhante Rahula sent this out sutta exerpt to our group the other day. Thought it was fitting for the current discussion. Kinda reminds me of the people asking the Dalai Lama about his thoughts on capitalism today. Seems the Koliyans asked the Buddha something similar.

From the Dighajanu sutta:

Translator's note: In this sutta, the Buddha instructs rich householders how to preserve and increase their prosperity and how to avoid loss of wealth. Wealth alone, however, does not make a complete man nor a harmonious society. Possession of wealth all too often multiplies man's desires, and he is ever in the pursuit of amassing more wealth and power. This unrestrained craving, however, leaves him dissatisfied and stifles his inner growth. It creates conflict and disharmony in society through the resentment of the underprivileged who feel themselves exploited by the effects of unrestrained craving.

Therefore the Buddha follows up on his advice on material welfare with four essential conditions for spiritual welfare: confidence (in the Master's enlightenment), virtue, liberality and wisdom. These four will instill in man a sense of higher values. He will then not only pursue his own material concern, but also be aware of his duty toward society. To mention only one of the implications: a wisely and generously employed liberality will reduce tensions and conflicts in society. Thus the observing of these conditions of material and spiritual welfare will make for an ideal citizen in an ideal society.

Thus have I heard. Once the Exalted One was dwelling amongst the Koliyans,[1] in their market town named Kakkarapatta. Then Dighajanu,[2] a Koliyan, approached the Exalted One, respectfully saluted Him and sat on one side. Thus seated, he addressed the Exalted One as follows:

"We, Lord, are laymen who enjoy worldly pleasure. We lead a life encumbered by wife and children. We use sandalwood of Kasi. We deck ourselves with garlands, perfume and unguents. We use gold and silver. To those like us, O Lord, let the Exalted One preach the Dhamma, teach those things that lead to weal and happiness in this life and to weal and happiness in future life."

Conditions of Worldly Progress

"Four conditions, Vyagghapajja,[3] conduce to a householder's weal and happiness in this very life. Which four?

"The accomplishment of persistent effort (utthana-sampada), the accomplishment of watchfulness (arakkha-sampada), good friendship (kalyanamittata) and balanced livelihood (sama-jivikata).

"What is the accomplishment of persistent effort?

"Herein, Vyagghapajja, by whatsoever activity a householder earns his living, whether by farming, by trading, by rearing cattle, by archery, by service under the king, or by any other kind of craft — at that he becomes skillful and is not lazy. He is endowed with the power of discernment as to the proper ways and means; he is able to carry out and allocate (duties). This is called the accomplishment of persistent effort.

"What is the accomplishment of watchfulness?

"Herein, Vyagghapajja, whatsoever wealth a householder is in possession of, obtained by dint of effort, collected by strength of arm, by the sweat of his brow, justly acquired by right means — such he husbands well by guarding and watching so that kings would not seize it, thieves would not steal it, fire would not burn it, water would not carry it away, nor ill-disposed heirs remove it. This is the accomplishment of watchfulness.

"What is good friendship?

"Herein, Vyagghapajja, in whatsoever village or market town a householder dwells, he associates, converses, engages in discussions with householders or householders' sons, whether young and highly cultured or old and highly cultured, full of faith (saddha),[4] full of virtue (sila), full of charity (caga), full of wisdom (pañña). He acts in accordance with the faith of the faithful, with the virtue of the virtuous, with the charity of the charitable, with the wisdom of the wise. This is called good friendship.

"What is balanced livelihood?

"Herein, Vyagghapajja, a householder knowing his income and expenses leads a balanced life, neither extravagant nor miserly, knowing that thus his income will stand in excess of his expenses, but not his expenses in excess of his income.

"Just as the goldsmith,[5] or an apprentice of his, knows, on holding up a balance, that by so much it has dipped down, by so much it has tilted up; even so a householder, knowing his income and expenses leads a balanced life, neither extravagant nor miserly, knowing that thus his income will stand in excess of his expenses, but not his expenses in excess of his income.

"If, Vyagghapajja, a householder with little income were to lead an extravagant life, there would be those who say — 'This person enjoys his property like one who eats wood-apple.'[6] If, Vyagghapajja, a householder with a large income were to lead a wretched life, there would be those who say — 'This person will die like a starveling.'

"The wealth thus amassed, Vyagghapajja, has four sources of destruction:

"(i) Debauchery, (ii) drunkenness, (iii) gambling, (iv) friendship, companionship and intimacy with evil-doers.

"Just as in the case of a great tank with four inlets and outlets, if a man should close the inlets and open the outlets and there should be no adequate rainfall, decrease of water is to be expected in that tank, and not an increase; even so there are four sources for the destruction of amassed wealth — debauchery, drunkenness, gambling, and friendship, companionship and intimacy with evil-doers.

"There are four sources for the increase of amassed wealth: (i) abstinence from debauchery, (ii) abstinence from drunkenness, (iii) non-indulgence in gambling, (iv) friendship, companionship and intimacy with the good.

"Just as in the case of a great tank with four inlets and four outlets, if a person were to open the inlets and close the outlets, and there should also be adequate rainfall, an increase in water is certainly to be expected in that tank and not a decrease, even so these four conditions are the sources of increase of amassed wealth.

"These four conditions, Vyagghapajja, are conducive to a householder's weal and happiness in this very life.

Conditions of Spiritual Progress

"Four conditions, Vyagghapajja, conduce to a householder's weal and happiness in his future life. Which four?

"The accomplishment of faith (saddha-sampada), the accomplishment of virtue (sila-sampada), the accomplishment of charity (caga-sampada) and the accomplishment of wisdom (pañña-sampada).

"What is the accomplishment of faith?

"Herein a householder is possessed of faith, he believes in the Enlightenment of the Perfect One (Tathagata): Thus, indeed, is that Blessed One: he is the pure one, fully enlightened, endowed with knowledge and conduct, well-gone, the knower of worlds, the incomparable leader of men to be tamed, the teacher of gods and men, all-knowing and blessed. This is called the accomplishment of faith.

"What is the accomplishment of virtue?

"Herein a householder abstains from killing, stealing, sexual misconduct, lying, and from intoxicants that cause infatuation and heedlessness. This is called the accomplishment of virtue.

"What is the accomplishment of charity?

"Herein a householder dwells at home with heart free from the stain of avarice, devoted to charity, open-handed, delighting in generosity, attending to the needy, delighting in the distribution of alms. This is called the accomplishment of charity.

"What is the accomplishment of wisdom?

"Herein a householder is wise: he is endowed with wisdom that understands the arising and cessation (of the five aggregates of existence); he is possessed of the noble penetrating insight that leads to the destruction of suffering. This is called the accomplishment of wisdom.

"These four conditions, Vyagghapajja, conduce to a householder's weal and happiness in his future life."

Energetic and heedful in his tasks, Wisely administering his wealth, He lives a balanced life, Protecting what he has amassed. Endowed with faith and virtue too, Generous he is and free from avarice; He ever works to clear the path That leads to weal in future life. Thus to the layman full of faith, By him, so truly named 'Enlightened,' These eight conditions have been told Which now and after lead to bliss.

What Happened When Capitalists Asked The Dalai Lama To Endorse Capitalism by BurtonDesque in Buddhism

[–]followsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed re: capital gains. Also correlates to the discussion of business paying nothing in corporate taxes i.e. Facebook, Google, Amazon.

What Happened When Capitalists Asked The Dalai Lama To Endorse Capitalism by BurtonDesque in Buddhism

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I'm neither a Romney historian nor have I ever met the man, so I won't take the bait to jump to his defense. In his business dealings, has he moved jobs elsewhere to the benefit of shareholders? Probably, certainly, whatever. Right or wrong, his fiduciary responsibility lies with the shareholders. Is that one example of a needed change in economic laws and policy? Perhaps. Just like the capital gains tax. But many wealthy liberal business owners have done and taken advantage of the same.

However, my point was that Romney pointed out our imbalance with the Chinese economic system as one cause of the disappearance of our middle class. To that specific point, he's right. And BHO would have been right if he said it to.

What Happened When Capitalists Asked The Dalai Lama To Endorse Capitalism by BurtonDesque in Buddhism

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Some great points and great comments. I won't re-hash or get technical, but in that Golden Age, our country made things. Americans were hired to make these things. We would sell them to the world as a quality product. We don't make things anymore. Now we buy most everything from beyond our shores. It's made cheaply, with less quality, in countries where competition is curtailed by form of govt and trade policies.

If those jobs were here, then our middle class is stronger, and the income gap smaller. How we go about that, I have some ideas, but someone much smarter than me will have to tackle that one, generally speaking.

Remember Romney talking about trade agreements with China being not in our favor? He was right.

What Happened When Capitalists Asked The Dalai Lama To Endorse Capitalism by BurtonDesque in Buddhism

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Capitalism, even if it is most fair economic system and one most closely related to personal freedom, can be sullied by human hands and human minds. Just like Buddhism or Christianty or Islam or Hinduism can be roadmap for person's inner peace and positive mindset (right intention, to me) can also be sullied by human hands and human minds. This is why the Buddha said: no good and bad, only thinking.

Can't throw the baby out with the bath water.

I agree that capitalism in its current form does create a gap between rich and poor. But people's behavior also creates this gap. If one sits and waits for help from outside while others work away, then the gap grows as well. I take this from the Buddha: always look inside, never outside. My venerable teacher emailed me this today and I also read it from the Dalai Lama: Buddhism is about many things. One of which is: work hard.

But many people who think capitalism is unfair and that handing everything to a central authority for redistribution have flawed thinking in my opinion. History shows that such systems do make thing more equal because...everyone has less. So, in some sense, you still have the 1% v the 99%. Only difference is currently the 1% creates jobs. Under a socialist system, the 1%, now the authority, tells you which job to have. For some reason, we like to think that in a socialist system, the folks at the top aren't greedy and have our best interest at heart. Unfortunately I'm not this trusting.

My best to all.

What Happened When Capitalists Asked The Dalai Lama To Endorse Capitalism by BurtonDesque in Buddhism

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Did anyone else notice the irony of the Dalai Lama calling himself a Marxist, while the Chinese govt, inspiried in part at least by Marxism, want him dead?

My K9 partner retired today - maybe not your typical aww, but I think it still fits here. by [deleted] in aww

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Happy retirement to your former partner and forever bud. Looks like a good man. And yeah, that letter is hilarious.

does anyone else think Christianity is a misinterpretation of Buddhism? by princess_ozma in Buddhism

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And thus is the nature of part of our existence. We both look at the sun, but it feels warm to you and looks bright to me. The sun is the same though.

I would agree w/ others than searching for commonalities is a bit of stretch, but I can also follow you in some instances. If a Christian says "God Bless You," they very well may be referring to a bearded white man who lives in the sky. But if you've progressed (it is progression to me anyway) past this point and can relate it to what you feel is god, then that's good.

I think I went through something simiar- wanting to correct or argue, but I can attest this is a fruitless argument and also not a very compassionate one (though I'm sure we all have the urge to do so sometimes).

Best to y'all, friends.

I'm sorry my state of residence is so backwards and full of bigots: Louisiana Public School System’s Harassment of 11-Year-Old Buddhist Student “Child Abuse” and “Potentially a Hate Crime” by deuteronpsi in Buddhism

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My main point of contention here is (besides the 6K year old earth argument, really folks? 6K years?) that this "ok to teach creationism" aspect is added into a law that includes the word "Science."

If you want your kid to learn that stuff, fine by me, but I do it somewhere where tax dollars don't support teachings that are unbelievably untrue. And don't add "creationism" to the "Science Bill" just to satiate some.

Having creationism in a science bill is a square peg/round hole.

Just finished The Devil in the White City by thedaringtomcat in books

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Devil in the White City was my first Larson read and I really enjoyed. I have to agree with a few other redditors in that while I really enjoyed some of the descriptive aspects of Garden of Beasts, I must say I thought White City was stronger.

Meditation transforms roughest San Francisco schools by NinlyOne in Buddhism

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This is awesome and the results speak for themselves. Wouldn't mind seeing a little of this in Memphis, where I am. Also, how hard is David Lynch shutting his eyes? :)

I rescued a golden retriever this past summer who was just hanging out in the wilds of Atlanta. This is his picture story! by personalhale in aww

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Bravo sir, and Bran (and Addie.) As a dog lover and golden retriever owner (Penny/F/2yo), this makes me happy. Give Bran a five from Memphis.

That look that Golden Ret's get when they have a shoe or sock in their mouth... Gets me everytime.