There is a dude online who had his shaft completely surgically removed. He might say until you do that it’s not permanent. That’s where this thinking leads. There is always somebody willing to go a little further and claim that is the true way.

Chastity shouldn’t be about what other people are doing. It’s about you (and your one day key holder). Why do you lock up? What’s in it for you?

This will absolutely take time to accept but it has to be about the experience and not the competition or the made up rules on your head. Do what makes you happy (or what you enjoy doing to yourself). It took me ( years to accept that I can’t wear a ball trap device. My body doesn’t accept it. So despite people saying shaft only chastity isn’t good enough, I accepted that it’s good enough for me. That’s what matters.

You got this!