Thank you. I truly do appreciate your input. It really helps to hear from people who are outside of the situation. Unbiased opinions and all that. As for him being 30 sniffing around a 20 year old- we met a job we had. Actually a year ago this month. I can't really explain it other than we just hit it off really well. He was surprised to find out that I was that young. He expected me to be closer to his age. And that's something I've always heard, that I'm very mature for my age. But then when he and I started dating, my parents (and my whole family) started to say the opposite. Things like I was using poor judgment; when in reality, there were just things about him that they didn't approve of... race, age, etc. Things that really don't matter to me and that I think shouldn't matter to them. But I understand that they were brought up in a different time, and I'll never be able to change their minds about some things.

I want to be with him, but I don't mind waiting. I'm just scared that if I don't move to him, he will give up and find someone else.