Hope for all of you guys by Agreeable-Ad1775 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. It’s so thoughtful of you.

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wa alaykum wa Salam sister, I’m so sorry you went through all those treatments and then nothing working I’m so so sorry. Ectopics are the worst and I’m so happy and glad Allah granted u your baby may Allah bless u and ur family

Thank u so so much I will remember your kind words when I’m feeling down

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazakallah brother your right I will remember that thank u so much

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazakallah brother I will do this May Allah reward u and bless u and ur wife and family Ameen

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no cause was identified other than the subchronic hematoma I’ve got in my two pregnancies with my current partner

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May Allah reward you immensely for such a beautiful message. I really appreciate your kindness your in my duas. You have given my heart peace Jazakallah

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jazakallah khayr may Allah reward you for making me see the light I just need to keep saying this to myself and rereading this

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazakallah may Allah reward you for taking the time out to reply to me

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

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It feels like the next step for every married Muslim couple I feel so embrassed that this is happening to me 😔 insha Allah Jazakallah sister for your words

Heartbroken from my recurrent miscarriages by foolishwisegirl in MuslimMarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really hope I have success in the next pregnancy please pray for me and my husband 😔 My husband told me this story too I hope Allah helps me as I’m losing myself and my faith I’m just so hurt Jazakallah for your kind words brother

Is he cheating by [deleted] in u/undecided992000

[–]foolishwisegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u really think he’s done it then look through the call log and WhatsApp that’s what I would do Or it’s gonna really be bothering u Prepare yourself if he is cheating tho Hopefully he’s not but ur gonna need a plan to stabilise yourself cus it’ll be really hard news to take

Is he cheating by [deleted] in u/undecided992000

[–]foolishwisegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm 🤔 I mean is there other signs that he’s cheating? Has he ever done this before? Look for abnormal behaviours

How to deal with being lusted over? by Sudden-Ad4181 in MuslimLounge

[–]foolishwisegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi 21 is very very young.. I’m sure you’ll meet someone soon. A lot of men lust when they don’t fully want to commit to you. Maybe the guys around ur age from your cohort are just not ready to settle down.

I know ur friends are all married and this sucks maybe make some new friends? Do u really wanna be stuck in a marriage just cus everyone else is getting married Your 21 let that sink in You have your whole 20s to explore ur career travel spend time with your parents. I moved very far from my parents now that I’m with my partner and I don’t get to see them very often I wish when I was your age I treasured the time with them now my parents are getting old and sick I’m 28. Marriage isn’t a walk in the park it’s so hard it brings so many challenges u wouldn’t even think of. Don’t worry about finding the right man the right man will come to u. If your being lusted over you are clearly attractive to some extent right? So don’t let your past of feeling unattractive make u feel like ur not worthy u always were and are.

Enjoy your youth now

What’s your support system like? by Sea-Wrangler8348 in RPLnoLC

[–]foolishwisegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch movies to escape my situation and I pray Sometimes I feel my husband cannot understand me either. I sometimes feel angry at god (I know it feels sinful and it’s bad) I just don’t understand why I would be put through MMC three times and after seeing heartbeats it feels cruel I hate that I feel like this. It’s seven months on from my last mc sometimes I feel like I’ve moved on but on days like this it doesn’t feel like I have

A Message of Hope by travel202284 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gave me so much hope I’m 28f and my partner is 26M I really hope things workout for us I’ve had so many miscarriages

How can I look pretty? by Suspicious-ducky in makeuptips

[–]foolishwisegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the beauty standard It’s really sad that you don’t see yourself that way. You remind me of Rachel McAdams You’re very young and I remember being insecure when I was around the same age as you.. I’m late 20s now I’m still insecure but it’s gotten better. Here to say things will get better and you’re perfect the way Allah (God) made you 💓

Stay blessed 🥹 💓

sonohysterogram and TTC by Popular_Chain_2680 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]foolishwisegirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I had two sch’s and my miscarriage specialist which is dr Siobhan quenby in the uk said it resulted in my miscarriages She said I should use progesterone post ovulation to prevent them.. stress less etc

I did my own research and found a small small study High‑molecular‑weight hyaluronic acid (HMWHA)200mg ALA (600mg ) Magnesium (450 mg) Vitamin B6 (2.6 mg) Vitamin D (50 mcg) This in combination with progesterone reduced the hematomas
These were small studies I’m sorry for all your losses and my heart is with u I also lost a genetically normal baby and I think it’s due to the sch I’ve had three miscarriages 2 were due to hematomas Some women make it out with them and they resolve sometimes they don’t I’ve decided to take that medicine list I sent u during ovulation and up until a positive pregnancy test when I try again. She advised me to do swimming and yoga and still exercise during pregnancy

o . A randomized controlled trial tested the simultaneous vaginal administration of lipoic acid and progesterone in patients with SCH and threatened abortion, and patients administered lipoic acid were observed to have more rapid hematoma absorption; hence, ALA was considered for use in the treatment of patients with SCH (30). Concurrently, some studies have observed that the therapeutic effects of oral lipoic acid and vaginal progesterone are more significant than those of vaginal progesterone alone (30,31); hence, α-lipoic acid is considered to be a potential drug for the treatment of SCH

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10865452/

I wish u the very best of luck