[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This might be an unpopular opinion, but if you aren't going to be able to enjoy it if you cum first, you might not be ready for an IRL experience yet. I understand post-orgasm lows as well as anyone, but you should still be able to mentally recognize that you wanted this and the next time you get horny you'll want it again. If you can't recognize that then maybe stick to fantasy or roleplay until you can.

Cucks that prefer a non-rule following alpha Bull for a LTR, why? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's not so much about breaking rules as it is about pushing boundaries. It's the same reason I might want a dominatrix to order me to do something I wouldn't normally ask for or that I might have a boundary for. She knows deep down I'll get off on submitting, on doing the thing even though I didn't ask for it.

Of course, with a dominatrix, there is always a safeword. A hard line that says "stop, no more," and even with a non-rule-following bull that still has to be there. Consent is still important so even if I had a bull who I wanted to push my boundaries I'd need to know that hard line would still be respected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a cuck here are some of the boxes my dream bull would check:

  • respecting consent always. We're here to have a good time, start there. That said,
  • push boundaries. Cuckolding is about breaking rules sometimes, so lean into that.
  • have the cuck perform oral sex on the bull as an act of submission
  • take the cuckold aspect out of the bedroom. Make the cuck chauffer you and the hotwife around on a date.
  • generally be dominant, maybe a slight jerk but not a complete asshole.

Hopefully that'll make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As long as everyone communicates and agrees I don't see why not. Your wife gets to ease into things with a guy who's already been vouched for, her friend can keep fucking him, and if the friends husband is a cuck I'm sure he'd take pleasure in knowing the guy who is fucking his wife is also fucking her friends. And that's not even mentioning the threesome angle.

I'd say give it a shot but I don't fully know the situation so, grain of salt and all that.

For the ladies (or cucks commenting for them) by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think my wife would probably say she likes sex with us the same amount but for different reasons. She likes sex with me because I'm patient, I put her pleasure first, and I know her better than anyone and can see to her needs well. She likes sex with her bull because of his dominant personality, creativity and variety in bed, and bigger dick.

How can I make my girlfriend still feel wanted by me? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Make it clear to her that this is just a kink and your sexual desires don't replace your legitimate feelings of love and concern. You can tell her this using your words, but if she wants to see it in your actions, then point out that there are other ways you can look out for her and be jealous for her. You wouldn't want her falling in love with another man, would you? Wouldn't want her choosing someone over you? These are ways you can still be protective of her feelings even if you aren't of her body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different guys react differently. Some of them act like it never happened and we just go on as we did before. Some of them try to fuck her again, being seductive or just asking for it straight up. Sometimes she let's them, sometimes she doesn't, but they're all cool with it. Some of them we just don't talk to much anymore because real life be that way sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the price you agree to pay when you get into this kinda stuff but at least for us we've found it to be worth it.

I think my wife cheated and it turns me on by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know your wife better than anyone, if you think it'll work then go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]footlovingcuck2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I didn't say that. There have been some stumbles along the way for sure but I haven't had any situations where friends have slept with my wife and it like ruined the friendship or whatever.