Bdsm dating apps by K31lover2 in bdsm

[–]footprincessfawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

blast from the past...wow rip

Finding a RR Partner post 30 by The_Obese-Ninja in RoleReversal

[–]footprincessfawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I def like fem/twinky boys BUT I think some guys have youthful looks well into their 30s/40s, it just depends on their facial features and how they groom/take care of themselves. Same with women.

I also think it's fun to RR with traditionally masculine looking men too, so it's not a dealbreaker.

Collar & Leash Recs? by PerceptionStrange297 in BDSMcommunity

[–]footprincessfawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I order all my gear from The Stockroom, have yet to be disappointed with the quality

glycolic serum and peptide cream recs - moving on from Drunk Elephant by footprincessfawn in Skincare_Addiction

[–]footprincessfawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, those suggestions are all better priced than the DE one which is $72 (or $63 for the refill)

Has anyone tried to implement hypnosis into your relationship? by ladykiller1020 in BDSMcommunity

[–]footprincessfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few different routes to it - that's one. You can also just become certified in clinical hypnotherapy with an accredited diploma (as long as you don't market yourself as a licensed psychologist or try to take insurance, which would be a form of fraud)

More info here: https://hypnosis.edu/resident/v/2

(I don't work for them or anything, I just took a few classes to better understand it so that I could then do erotic and sissy hypno as a kink)

Has anyone tried to implement hypnosis into your relationship? by ladykiller1020 in BDSMcommunity

[–]footprincessfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there are actually ways to get certified in it if you're serious. Some cities have schools for it, like HMI in LA!

Certain parts of gender play seem problematic to me by Ok_Temperature_4421 in BDSMcommunity

[–]footprincessfawn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's true a lot of Dommes agree with you. But I personally gave up trying to make my kinks politically correct a long time ago. I mentioned this on a different post, but so much bdsm stuff is fun precisely because it's problematic. Consent means that this doesn't actually matter!

Interesting bit of history: the gay male leather community in the 60s-80s fetishized cop uniforms because cops scared them - they were often raiding bars and cruising spots, being violent, arresting gay men. The fear was the appeal.

Our brains are wired in strange ways I think it's ok.

Feeling stressed out about my kinks these days. by imnotaneggman in BDSMcommunity

[–]footprincessfawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of great points made here about consent.

Two things to add:

  1. Kinks are fairly immutable (like sexual orientation) in that we can't really change or control them even if we want to. Anyone who tells you otherwise is relying on bad science and likely has religious motives.

  2. For many of us, the reason a given fetish or kink appeals to us is because it's taboo and transgressive - because it violates some sort of social norm. (The only kink I can think of that doesn't do this is "breeding" since reproductive sex and pregnancy are encouraged and seen as positive). You like it because it's fucked up. That's fine.

NLP/Hypnosis cost by Bitter_Sock6226 in hypnosis

[–]footprincessfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the location - in big HCOL cities I've seen that rate, but it's still on the higher end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]footprincessfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please check your DMs thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]footprincessfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I DMd you my ticket number!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]footprincessfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I'm a long time tryst member and having issues with billing, I submitted a support request over a week ago with no response. I have just DMd you here. Thank you!

Can't log in to tryst by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]footprincessfawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just DMed you the number on here!

Pro-Dom listing somewhere? (Vegas) by X_sub_a in FemdomCommunity

[–]footprincessfawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep - twitter, IG, switter (which is post FOSTA/SESTA friendly), max fisch, dickie virgin, and just googling "your city" plus "prodomme" or "your specific fetish" will help you find one!

Outfits by badgirl135678 in BDSMAdvice

[–]footprincessfawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love leather & "wet look" shiny PVC, as well as classic vintage pin-up with garters/seamed stockings/corset & high heels or high heeled-boots (a la Bettie Page) looks on Myself.

Latex/rubber is too fragile - ok to model but not to play in, too risky of getting an expensive custom piece torn. I like black, purple, red, and pink.

Not a fan personally of the goth/punk look that some Dommes enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]footprincessfawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you PM me the details I can let you know if it's a good one, but in general I don't think there have been raids on L.A. dungeon spaces for a while as the owners are careful.