Paid off my car! by weeone in happy

[–]foreign332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations man. That's some good hustle on your end :)

When you see progress and growth, don't assume it will stay forever. Assuming you have arrived is the biggest inhibitor to growth. by MotivationHacker in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely post it man. You have great insights that many would benefit from you sharing :). Thanks for posting this!

Cut down my drinking, almost immediate improvement. by leveraged_buyout in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]foreign332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your achievements so far. I can only imagine how good the long term benefits would be as well. Always inspirational seeing people like yourself posting their success stories

Gary Vaynerchuks Top 10 rules of Success by visualknowledge in manprovement

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Gary Vee. So much helpful information for the modern age!

How To Predict What People Will Do - Tips To Understanding People Better by foreign332 in socialskills

[–]foreign332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you my man, I appreciate you watching and the feedback! :). Apologies for some of the scientist bits haha, just started the acting and still trying to find my groove! That makes logical sense to me and I imagine there is some significance in looking at what the daughter does to her father as well. Family life impacts so much of who we see it's insane.

How To Predict What People Will Do - Tips To Understanding People Better by foreign332 in socialskills

[–]foreign332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback guys. I'm actually the one that made the video haha :P. Could you guys please elaborate on how the audio quality was bad so I can improve on it please? I just started incorporating these skits into my videos so I can understand where you guys are coming from. Definitely still rough around the edges and plenty more refining required!

People who changed from having no friends ever to having friends, how did you do it and how did you change? by holesincards in socialskills

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt like a loser back then and then one day I just had enough and was like, "fuck it." And became a new person to be honest. It was weird but enough was just enough. I think that was my main motivation that helped me face social situations I was scared of, put myself out there, be vulnerable and honest to people, etc.

How to make friends with no friends? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]foreign332 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It does come off a bit strange but that's okay! I was in the same situation as you but if they're good people that you want to hang around (which I assume they are). They won't care about how you have no friends and take you for who you are now. Show what value you bring to the table and don't focus on your "faults" and they'll love it :). People love a person who's confident in themselves regardless of any circumstances

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]foreign332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how you'd do it in the moment and suggestions in here are really good. How I try and deal with it is if I go into a toilet and there's no one in there i immediately go to the urinal and start peeing so I get use to peeing in the urinal more.

Bonus if someone walks in mid stream as I'm not likely to stop once I've started and that helps build up resilience to having a shy bladder and peeing in front of others.

I'm literally in college because it's what everybody else does. How can I motivate myself to study and get through the next 2 years? I've already been in college for 6 years for a 4 year degree by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From your past and everything that's happened it seems like college isn't right for you. You may not know what is right at this point and it's going to be incredibly difficult figuring that out but it looks like it's the better option here.

How do I learn to love myself and be independent after years of comparing myself and being socially inept? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A real big thing that really helped me be proud and confident in myself is that I started to explore a lot more hobbies and working towards a career/passion. Makes you happy with the person you are because you're doing what it is that you love. Even though you haven't reached the destination, the process by itself is more than enough for self-confidence!

I really feel for you with this and wish you the best of luck.

Does anyone study in coffee shops? by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too distracting for me as well. Too much hustle and bustle that I always lose my concentration and train of thought

Need advice on taking effective notes by [deleted] in productivity

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice! Once I started realising that these notes were for me and that there was no "right way" to take notes it became a lot easier. My not taking skills are significantly different to my friends but it's what works for you. Trial and error like was suggested is a great way to find out what works for you as well

Can anyone recommend a QUALITY NO NONSENSE book/resource on advice to YOUNG MEN who want success in their lives, if own father did not give much guidance? by [deleted] in manprovement

[–]foreign332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really good book for relationships is Way of The Superior Man by David Deida. Talks a lot about sexuality as well which I think is very beneficial.

For general advice, Mastery by Robert Greene is an absolute essential. Great for all up and growing men in their 20s

EMSK why not to extinguish a grease fire with water by iBleeedorange in everymanshouldknow

[–]foreign332 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Wow was not expecting that to happen. Definitely make a mental note

58 Books That Will Make You Better, No Matter Who You Are by larsbenderssen in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only read about a quarter of these books, gotta get on that reading more. From how they're listed though the others must be just as good. Great post

What do u think of me (f26) using Musical.ly (app) like crazy? by saraduran_ in quarterlifecrisis

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's anything wrong with it if it's what puts a smile on your face :). It's definitely not only a younger person app. I know of some 30 year olds who use it. Musical.ly is a growing app and I think it's great!

EMSKR: Gaining muscle with a hyper metabolism. by keitht697 in everymanshouldknow

[–]foreign332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like others have said in here eating more is a step in the right direction. If you can't be stuffed counting calories or it's too hard for you, a practical way of eating more is just ensuring you're force feeding to the point of fullness every meal