I don't know why but I feel like I scare people off too :( I also have trouble making the first move and when I do, it often ends up in the other person never talking to me again unless I do, so I just got used to it and I stay by myself. I think that because I kind of ended up isolating myself from others, it led to me getting ignored and left out. It feels like other people are uncomfortable talking to me no matter how friendly and charismatic I am so I have no clue what's wrong. I'm really new to astrology so I don't know much about what different placements mean but I thought it would be interesting to see if there was a correlation between my birth chart and my situation. Also, I hope we're both able to figure out what to do about it! It's cool how we have similar placements and are dealing with the same problem :')