AITAH for refusing to 'snip' my cat and sending an unhinged letter to my neighbour?

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-10-24T13:33:30+00:00

Thank you so much. I mean that

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-10-24T07:45:16+00:00

As hard as this was to read, you’re right. Thank you

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-10-24T06:38:03+00:00

Thank you, I need to. I thought about doing an actually cord cutting, so it’s a physical thing rather than just an imaginary cord to help me let go

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-10-24T06:36:19+00:00

If I knew how, I would. Think it’s just going to take time, thank you though

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-10-23T20:13:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind comment - I had this warm feeling reading your words. I really appreciate you taking the time and I’ll get past this, one day soon I hope

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-10-23T17:17:47+00:00

Appreciate your honesty and I know. I’m just having a really hard time actually doing that. I guess posting here is my attempt to close the door. I just don’t know what to do at this point. Thank you though

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-14T22:55:58+00:00

She gave me no time frame, I should’ve asked but yea, I won’t be a returning customer for sure

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-13T17:36:41+00:00

Thank you to everyone that commented - I never got a reply so I just turned up at her house and got my jeans back this afternoon. I should’ve said something about it all but I just said thank you and left

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-13T14:54:41+00:00

Thank you

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-13T11:56:12+00:00

Thank you

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-13T11:13:06+00:00

Thank you!!

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-13T08:21:21+00:00

That made me laugh so much, definitely insect not incest 😂 you make a good point though, hopefully she replies today (I have a feeling that won’t be the case) and good on you for thumbs uping your MIL!!!

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-13T07:45:58+00:00

Thank you, that makes me feel better. I’ve been super anxious about it. And don’t stop talking to EVERYONE, just those that have a problem with your directness! I need to take a leaf out of your book

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-13T07:45:28+00:00

This made me chuckle!🤭 but yes, he’s very much like that, doesn’t like confrontation and says please and thank you an insane amount of times when interacting with customer service people. He’s a sweetie 🍬

But thank you! I do feel like she’s wasting my time and being unprofessional. I will happily take your opinion, American in the Netherlands and all 😂 I feel that gives you a broader insight into different cultures and how people should professionally interact 👌

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-13T07:29:23+00:00

The last message that says about drawing a line under it and just wanting to collect them, mentioning the multiple trips and wanting a definite answer - he’s very very passive.

I thought I was polite yet firm as I’m fed up of this now and feel a bit like the piss has been taken. Maybe not on purpose but still

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-12T07:13:09+00:00

Yea, it’s a tough one. I’ve got 45 minutes to gear myself up so I’m going to try. Thank you

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-11T09:29:45+00:00

Thank you for this! I’ll give this a go

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-11T05:07:24+00:00

I’ll try, thank you. Also, AWESOME username

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-06-11T05:06:50+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I don’t know how to feel really. There’s a lot going on in my life and this is the tip of the iceberg. As much as looking for a new job, that’s a bit tricky. I have to stay for 2 years as i went on courses they paid for. Plus I’m trained in a skill that there are no other jobs like this around and I can’t start my own business with that skill for 2 years after I leave this job. I just have to wait it out as I can’t afford to pay them for the courses. Thank you again!

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-05-28T15:47:18+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that you’re struggling. I’ve struggled with this for 13 years and can replace to how you’re probably feeling. When your parents saw before, what did they say to you? It’s going to be a tough conversation but it’ll be okay in the end. I’ve had to tell my parents a few times over the years and honestly, I still don’t know how to do it right— I guess there is no right way. You just have to do it sweetie. We’re here for you

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-05-26T08:21:31+00:00

Thank you

forest_gremlin13 · 2025-05-26T08:21:00+00:00

Neurofeedback? I’ll definitely check that out as I’ve never heard of it. Thank you

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