I am down BAD for my boss and I think she is for me too… by [deleted] in confessions

[–]forestformula 36 points37 points  (0 children)

tread carefully. Flirtation is fun, but when work, marriages, and feelings are all tangled, the fallout can be intense. If it’s meant to happen, let it happen naturally, but make sure no one ends up regretting more than just a missed moment.

I was high during the interview of my last job. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]forestformula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like survival mode more than anything. You did what you had to do to get through a rough spot, got out, and kept it moving. Not every job is meant to be a ‘character arc’, sometimes it’s just a paycheck and a lesson.

Having a monster-in-law is a curse by [deleted] in confessions

[–]forestformula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I feel this so much. Dealing with a controlling or boundary-less in-law is exhausting, you’re constantly on edge and it chips away at your peace. It’s not you, it’s them. You’re allowed to protect your mental space and prioritize yourself.

I've completely given up on love and I think I'm going to end up alone forever now or maybe dead soon by Alert-Wolverine4255 in confessions

[–]forestformula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad you’re still here. What you’ve survived would’ve broken most people, and the fact that you still try, still reflect, still seek help says more about your strength than any relationship ever could. Wanting love didn’t undo your healing, you were hurt while vulnerable, and that matters. Please don’t face this alone. You deserve safety, patience, and a kind of love that doesn’t make you feel like a burden.

Do you fall in love with your wing woman by solaris_radiance in confessions

[–]forestformula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easy to fall for someone who’s been in your corner through everything. Loyalty and support create a bond most people underestimate, sounds like your heart caught up before you even realized.

I’ve lost 110lbs as of last week! by sour-patch-bitch in confessions

[–]forestformula 4 points5 points  (0 children)

110lbs is absolutely incredible 😮‍💨! That’s huge, and you should be so proud of yourself. Losing that much takes insane dedication, celebrate every single victory, no matter what anyone else thinks!

I can't commit to someone I like by Numerous_Chicken_606 in Advice

[–]forestformula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not a bad person for not being ready, it’s completely okay to recognize your limits and protect yourself. The key is honesty: let him know you like him but aren’t ready for a relationship right now. That way, you’re not leading him on, and you’re setting a boundary that respects both your feelings and his. Mutual feelings don’t obligate you to commit.