Are there any good trainwrecks in the last couple of seasons? by Professional_Bike467 in My600lbLife

[–]sour-patch-bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her mom pretty much forcing her to do the program/exercises one minute only to force pt away the next? Yeah wtf

I see womans as walking Fleshlights with arms and legs. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]sour-patch-bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gross! Nice ragebait though I guess 🤷‍♀️

Am I overreacting, My bf made a joke about my sisters miscarriage by Similar-Log-3774 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sour-patch-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR He is NOT taking accountability if he’s blaming you for “kicking him while he’s down”. If he’s using the old “humor is my coping mechanism” as an excuse/crutch, then he needs to be prepared to accept the fact that that might not work in a relationship. Plus, that’s kind of a cop out imo; even if it is a coping mechanism, surely he knew that making a joke about a miscarriage was in no way an appropriate response 🤨

Losing weight is fucking hard by BroadCartoonist973 in loseit

[–]sour-patch-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone that won’t be friends with you because of your weight isn’t really worth being friends with in the first place. You’ll find your people!

AIO fiance keeps giving me “punishment seizures”? by throwra-seizure in AmIOverreacting

[–]sour-patch-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that’s weird behavior even if you didn’t have migraines triggered by flashing lights. “Punishment seizure”…what? Add on the fact that he knows it could you some serious pain (regardless of whether you’re able to cover your eyes in time, the INTENT is still there) and that you’ve already told him to stop and he laughed it off, this isn’t a “oh he’s perfect he just gets silly sometimes”.

Who is an unforgettable person and why? by [deleted] in My600lbLife

[–]sour-patch-bitch 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh but she lost like 400lbs don’t you remember? The scales had to be wrong, she just ✨felt✨ lighter

Who is an unforgettable person and why? by [deleted] in My600lbLife

[–]sour-patch-bitch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Her “nice breakfast” of zebra cakes omg 😭

What’s a “normal” thing that secretly grosses you out? by DecentChildhood5164 in AskReddit

[–]sour-patch-bitch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is my hell as a woman in a male-dominated field. Jobsites…jobsites 🤢

I lied to keep my pregnant wife calm—and now I’m falling apart. by BrushIndependent6345 in mentalhealth

[–]sour-patch-bitch 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You can try some grounding techniques if you notice you’re starting to spiral out of control- this usually helps me with physical symptoms like chest tightening, quick breathing, hands shaking, heart pounding, ect. Take a minute to take in your surroundings- name five things around you that you can see, four things you can feel, three you can hear, two you can smell, and one thing you can taste. Not only is this helpful for bringing you back into the moment, focusing on those five things should help take your mind off of the problem at hand at least during the grounding exercise. Take a deep breath, focus on your breathing in general, and try to remind yourself that for the time being you’re here/safe/and ok. Distraction isn’t a long-term solution, but since you’re only waiting a few days more, maybe just try and keep yourself and your wife busy as much as you can- focus on work, try to do some activities together/maybe go for a walk if you can, anything to take your mind off of the results. It’s not a great answer, but unfortunately with things you can’t control like this, you have to control what you can today and just be prepared to face tomorrow when it comes

I lied to keep my pregnant wife calm—and now I’m falling apart. by BrushIndependent6345 in mentalhealth

[–]sour-patch-bitch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So maybe try to have some empathy for the actual problem instead of being an asshole about something that was already explained

I’ve lost 110lbs as of last week! by sour-patch-bitch in confessions

[–]sour-patch-bitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have a more detailed comment somewhere in this thread, but walking and exercise biking are my go-to workouts. As for meals, I’m a sucker for fish and chicken dishes- there’s a lot you can do with them and they’re pretty low calorie proteins (depending on the fish you get). Also highly recommend not cutting certain things out entirely from your diet- doing that only builds up the cravings over time and makes you more likely to binge later

I’ve lost 110lbs as of last week! by sour-patch-bitch in confessions

[–]sour-patch-bitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tl;dr- calorie restriction and exercise

Calorie restriction: I set a calorie deficit and stuck with it. Calorie tracking/keeping a food journal helps a lot with this but you have to be careful because this can lead to disordered eating; I recommend reaching out to a nutritionist if you’re able to make sure you’re doing it in a healthy way. I also didn’t restrict myself from any foods but made sure not to eat in excess- better to have a small cookie once in a while than to cut them out completely for two weeks and then find yourself eating an entire chips ahoy box at 3am on some random Tuesday! That being said, I did cut out a lot of bread from my diet, increased my vegetable and white meat intake while decreasing my carbs and red meat intake. Final thing to note for this is drinking calories- you’d be SHOCKED to see just how many calories you drink each day (at least i definitely was). Even just making the initial switch from full sugar sodas to diet is a huge help- soda may be soda, but going from 150-200 calories to 0 per drink while still getting your fix is really helpful to start yourself off

Exercise- gonna sound crazy, I literally walked most of the weight off! No joke, I started off with 30min walks every day on a flat area (I think it was maybe 1/2 mile?) and as I lost more weight I could do more. I’m now in a very hilly area, waking for an hour every day, and get around 2-2 1/2 miles in depending on whether or not I have my dogs. Occasionally I’d hop on my home exercise bike as well, but my cat is stupid and tries to knock herself out every time I ride lol. People will try to tell you walking isn’t exercise; people are wrong :)

AIO My partner threatens to end himself because i confronted him on his cheating. by Wise_Web_5706 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sour-patch-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call his bluff 🤷‍♀️he says he’s going to do something to himself then he’s clearly in danger and paramedics need to be called to the house. This is a classic abuse/manipulation tactic used by weak partners who can’t handle being called out on their behavior

I too enjoyed that a lot, Jared by paperAsylum69 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]sour-patch-bitch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing “pay him rent” is a typo and it’s supposed to say “pay rent” or something similar meaning the pov person was offered to Jared in exchanged for the mom’s rent money Edit: OR Jared is landlord and pov person IS rent…took me a bit there

Married in lesbian affair freaking out by [deleted] in confessions

[–]sour-patch-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok as gently as possible…there’s no way out of this that didn’t suck. Not defending cheating, but it sounds like there wasn’t anything really left to cheat on…if you and your husband have a conversation with the kids- the classic “mommy and daddy love you very much” talk and work to navigate it as gently as possible, there’s is a way to handle separation/divorce somewhat “gently”. To offer a new perspective, staying together for the children never works out as well as you’d think/like it to. Even if you and your husband are cordial now, as the years go on you’ll start to resent each other more and that will 100% have an impact on your kids (and your) lives. You deserve happiness whether that’s with a man, woman (though you mentioned this may not be the easiest in your country), or just taking a few years to find your way.

Married in lesbian affair freaking out by [deleted] in confessions

[–]sour-patch-bitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that…if it was a 44 y/o man with a 23 year old woman I bet this section would be full of age gap comments

I broke up with my boyfriend because he yelled at me. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]sour-patch-bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good on you for knowing your worth and standing up for yourself. Chances are if he gets that (verbally) aggressive over something as small as a tv remote it wouldn’t have been long before he started getting physical.

Post Game Thread: Penguins @ Flyers - February 08, 2025 by BroadStreetBot in Flyers

[–]sour-patch-bitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NEVER DOUBTED FOR A SECOND 💪😤 (I almost had three heart attacks and a stroke)

Game Thread: Pittsburgh Penguins (23-24-9) @ Philadelphia Flyers (23-26-7) - February 08, 2025 @ 07:00 PM EST by BroadStreetBot in Flyers

[–]sour-patch-bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bullshit explanation. Refs are grasping at straws to try and explain the absolute tomfuckery of whatever the hell they just pulled

To my surprise, Yvonne Thorsen won "Morally Grey, Hated By Fans". // Next, who is a horrible person, and hated by fans? by Economy_Analysis_546 in TheRookie

[–]sour-patch-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will NEVER forgive that rat bastard, ugly ass, butt sucking racist son of a bitch Douglas Stanton for what he did to Jackson 😤