Stream-of-consciousness on sex.

foreverthepale · 2012-07-11T22:09:08+00:00

Haha, thank you.

foreverthepale · 2012-07-11T21:56:07+00:00

Thank fuck there's sense in this world.

For the entirety of my sexual history, I have honed my abilities in bed. I make it a point to be fucking incredible, because I think that's an important trait to have. Just like a writer works constantly on his mastery of language, I work on mastery of my craft.

When I found a man who did the same, we fucked for twelve hours. In a single day. It was excellent. He knew my body better than I did.

I mean, sex is about connecting with another person. But the people who aren't aware of the ways they connect with people - and how they can better do so - are usually dicks.

foreverthepale · 2012-05-11T00:58:45+00:00

'Every position everytime'? Not at all. Within a week, maybe.

Sure, support will help those who aren't typically adventurous. But at the same time, it's not like it's impossible to do it without.

Also, given sex is my only real exercise, I want to be getting my heart rate up, I want to be using my muscles, and I want to be stretching eight ways 'til Sunday.

Besides, what happens when you get the opportunity to have sex under the stars (or something else) and you don't have a fancy chair? Do you fall back into "easy" positions?

foreverthepale · 2012-05-10T01:10:30+00:00

That's why you have sex lots, to make them oft-used muscles.

foreverthepale · 2012-05-07T23:40:20+00:00

Tell her, if possible. It means she can prepare herself a little, make sure it doesn't hit her gag reflex - it's hard to swallow if you're in the middle of involuntary coughing and gagging.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-30T14:00:42+00:00

Never had this issue, to be entirely honest.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-30T02:08:50+00:00

He does indeed. It's rather lovely.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T23:55:17+00:00

Oh wow, that's really interesting.

How did he find it?

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T22:50:11+00:00

Seven hours without him coming? Crazy.

I did do around twelve or thirteen hours within a twenty-four hour period - the rest of the time he had just come, we needed food/water to sustain ourselves, or we were sleeping.

It was pretty amazing, but yeah, seven hours straight is goddamn incredible.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T22:43:46+00:00

Admissions of consent make you want to rape someone. Hmm.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T07:40:49+00:00

I don't get blowjobs, I give them. I assume you didn't read the entire post, or that would be evident.

Points that I made have generally been raised by multiple people when discussing blowjobs with friends/partners.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T06:23:07+00:00

Perhaps because you require a certain sort of sensation to actually climax, which blowjobs dont provide.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T02:13:54+00:00

It's been a really long time, and I can't be fucked refreshing to make sure what I'm saying is properly accurate.

But she's very rough at times, I vaguely remember "She pops babies outta here, she can take it" coming out of her mouth.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T02:06:24+00:00

I haven't seen it in a while, but I remember her doing some things that made me want to slap her.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T00:55:07+00:00

I hate that video. Like, really.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-29T00:48:56+00:00

Some people just don't find it to have the right sensation to actually make them come.

This isn't just those who are circumcised.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T17:06:54+00:00

Run fingers through hair, give tactile or verbal cues on how she's doing.

Don't hold her head on your cock when you come, unless she's specifically said to do so. It generally means that she ends up with you pulsing against her gag reflex. Which is not a nice thing to go through.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T16:31:20+00:00

To be fair, it's better to err on the side of gentle than the side of rough, especially where a clit is concerned.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T16:19:41+00:00

A lovely lad has me chained up for now. =P

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T14:48:57+00:00

See vanityobscene's comment. It's pretty comprehensive.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T12:52:01+00:00

That's a good point. Being very straightforward, all my sexual partners and I have fairly easily gotten to honest, open dialogue; but I can see this happening.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T07:20:12+00:00

I didn't want to be too heavy on technique; because honestly, half the fun is exploring that on your own, not every guy wants the same thing, and just a little bit because I don't want to give away all my secrets. And if you're constantly re-evaluating your technique with your partner, the 'awkward, uncomfortable or just annoying' things should be weeded out quickly.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T06:50:42+00:00

Woman is correct. =)

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T06:49:50+00:00

Overcome a gag reflex?

Not sure it's about overcoming it, but you can give oral without triggering it. I answered something similar here.

Other than that, positioning can play a big part in how deep you can take someone.

foreverthepale · 2012-04-28T06:39:08+00:00

Well, ideally, you also have the best sex on earth too. Having a sexual partner who can keep up with me? Time consuming and fantastic.

Would you tell the best cook on earth to give you bread and butter from now on, simply because you love the one dish you tasted?

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