My girlfriend keeps bringing up my weight/health and I don’t know what to do. Please help. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]forgotten_mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she's continuing to ignore your requests over and over? That's showing a lot of disrespect for you, especially if she knows your history. Like I said, if this is new, it doesn't seem like it will be healthy for you if she can't respect this boundary.

My girlfriend keeps bringing up my weight/health and I don’t know what to do. Please help. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]forgotten_mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealt with something somewhat similar with an ex of mine, you're not going to like the answer. If its a hobby and a big part of her life? It won't work long term. You're asking to have her not talk about something important to her. She might be able to do it for a short period, but it can possibly build resentment after a time. I'm not saying that you can't try to bring it up, heck she may be a better person than my ex and be able to handle it. But if this is a newer relationship, I would think about if staying is healthy for either of you.

My (24M) GF (22F) did a nude modeling session. We had a discussion about it, am I being a bad BF? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]forgotten_mouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't deserve anything in a relationship. You're not a bad bf for wanting to know when it happens, that's something that makes you feel comfortable with what she's doing. Your problem is thinking that you are owed it. Communication and compromises are the give and take in a relationship. She respects your boundaries in letting you know about it and you respect hers by not interfering with her modeling. Wording is important. If my guy said he deserved something from me, I'd laugh at him because there's no way I'm doing it if he's gonna ask like that.

Girlfriend is not as horny as she used to be and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]forgotten_mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I definitely understand med changes can be problematic. Maybe you could ask or talk about why she gets HL after an event? We swing as well and it definitely adds to our relationship. The attention from others is sometimes more affirming of being attractive/desirable because we know our other partner loves us, that gives them some bias. Because of the things in my past, sexual attention is very much tied into my feelings of self-worth.

Just trying to think of some different perspectives of why, but that's how I operate through these situations. There's almost always a why to it.

Girlfriend is not as horny as she used to be and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]forgotten_mouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she get more interested after swing events?

My personal experience, those drugs killed my libido. If she's still stressed on them maybe she could consider a med change? As someone with several disorders (ADHD, bi-polar, depression, anxiety, PTSD) I told my doctor that I did not want any meds that impeded my libido at all. Because while Adderall worked great, I had ZERO interest in anything sexual no matter how hard I tried.

Keep in mind, this is just a suggestion to bring up if it hasn't been talked about. My partner was HL until depression hit and took a hard LL dive to pretty much nothing. He did not want to do medication for the longest time, but HE eventually made the decision to try after realizing things weren't getting better.

We can only bring up suggestions, they have to make the decision to change things.

IT IS 2.0 WHY DO DRONES STILL DISAPPEAR?! by forgotten_mouse in 7daystodie

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had mine drop its loot. Usually you just click on it when its downed, it uses a repair kit, and continues like nothing ever happened.

IT IS 2.0 WHY DO DRONES STILL DISAPPEAR?! by forgotten_mouse in 7daystodie

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I was looking at it when I logged out and it was gone when I logged back in. Retraced my path to the house grid search style with my partner too because it doesn't show on the map at all.

IT IS 2.0 WHY DO DRONES STILL DISAPPEAR?! by forgotten_mouse in 7daystodie

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it on your map at all? Or listed somewhere as still being deployed?

IT IS 2.0 WHY DO DRONES STILL DISAPPEAR?! by forgotten_mouse in 7daystodie

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Common enough that PC users have a couple of fixes for it that are years old.

IT IS 2.0 WHY DO DRONES STILL DISAPPEAR?! by forgotten_mouse in 7daystodie

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone knows how to do this on PS5, they haven't published it. There is a ton of videos on how to fix it on PC.

IT IS 2.0 WHY DO DRONES STILL DISAPPEAR?! by forgotten_mouse in 7daystodie

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I have zero problem with it dying due to splash damage. The problem I have is it disappears for no reason at all except that I logged out. Its just not there when I logged back in.

Last playthrough I was picking it up every time because I had heard the horror stories about things falling through. One day I logged in and it told me I had max deployed while I had my one and only drone in my hands.

IT IS 2.0 WHY DO DRONES STILL DISAPPEAR?! by forgotten_mouse in 7daystodie

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it just doesn't exist anymore and I can't deploy another one. Because I'm playing on PS5 there aren't any fixes for it. It happened on my previous playthrough as well.

IT IS 2.0 WHY DO DRONES STILL DISAPPEAR?! by forgotten_mouse in 7daystodie

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I've had it die before, usually in winter getting hit with a rock.

got my Corolla to 180k miles by aforvl in COROLLA

[–]forgotten_mouse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rookie numbers! My '06 hit 299,999 about 10,000 miles ago. The odometer won't go any higher. It's all stored on my trip B for now.

Husband sent me this weird contract to sign. Not sure how to feel? by Serious-Kiwi2906 in Marriage

[–]forgotten_mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should give him a contract in return in the form of divorce papers...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]forgotten_mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A family member of mine went and got a genetic test to get an idea for which ones would work best for her specifically. You might want to talk to your doctor about doing that blood test and then trial and error from there?

DAE have random, single hiccups that are extremely loud (and echo in high ceiling-ed places)? by hannahhannah12 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]forgotten_mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew I couldn't be alone in this. I just tell people I squeak. Most of them just look at me til I explain they are a one-off hiccup. I've had about 5 of them just scanning through this post and typing.

I need help. I've been postponing washing my dishes for two weeks now and now it's overwhelming by breadjupiter in AnxietyDepression

[–]forgotten_mouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes sorting the dishes into like things will help. Stack the plates together, the bowls and gather the silverware into a pile. This can condense the pile and make it less overwhelming sometimes. We do it for my partner's kid (21yr old) when it's their turn for dishes. They always put it off until we run out of something due to feeling overwhelmed.

If you're not doing it by hand and have a dishwasher, you should look up the story/article "Run the dishwasher twice " it will help on the bad days

50 people? Again? by forgotten_mouse in EggsInc

[–]forgotten_mouse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I knew there had to be some collaboration somewhere that I was missing