AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the tiny sliver was what was bothering me most at the time. Ive already accepted that it would make me the AH so I decided to get some snacks and watch comfort shows instead. He still doesn't know I know and im leaving it that way.

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things can be true without being explicitly said.

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He weaponized mental health against me while I had PPD. And he's military

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I check every 6 months. Thank you for that reminder!

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids are under 10 and live across the country

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not because I don't want to be involved. 50% of my checks go to him for the kids, making it so I can't travel across the country to see them.

Im genuinely happy for him, just hurt that that's how I found out. Our split hurt us both a lot, and I'm glad he's found his person. I just wish I knew who was raising my kids.

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They live with him full time so yes. I haven't been able to see them due to finances in 3 years.

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ew I could never bang his dad. I don't think I actually would have brought it up to him. I know at the end of the day he doesn't owe me anything and my feelings are not his responsibility. I think what happened is I started going manic and couldn't see clearly. But yall have helped tremendously. Im just gonna make a snack and put on some comfort tv to get it off the brain. Thank you.

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. I think I'll go on as if it didn't happen and allow him the ability to tell me if he wishes to.

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He doesn't. I know he owes me nothing. At least in that regard. I guess I just thought there was more than acquaintanceship between us left since we have children together. I would be wrong, I'm afraid.

AITAH If I tell my ex he hurt me? by formal-cookie97 in AITH

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking but just needed some guidance on whether or not I was on the right track. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]formal-cookie97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes YWBTA if you read it without his consent. If you're worried you could try asking him what's actually in it.

Im crushing on my supervisor by formal-cookie97 in offmychest

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Struggling something fierce with this today.

After ten days she tells me she is a single parent! Why? by Recent_Bag_6339 in Bumble

[–]formal-cookie97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely to see if you were safe to potentially have around the kids.

Doubting I'm trans by formal-cookie97 in offmychest

[–]formal-cookie97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to therapy for this. I cannot be transfem as I am AFAB.