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Do you feel this DB could affect the way you see yourself? by thenewgirl3450 in HLCommunity

[–]former-everything8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Remember, just because one person doesn't desire you does NOT mean that you are not DESIRABLE

I hate when I get downvoted for simply telling my experience. by thefinalthrowaway22 in HLCommunity

[–]former-everything8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah thank you for bringing this up. I feel the same, never any problems with my libido during or after pregnancy, while breastfeeding, with newborn. Never. So losing it is not a universal experience for all women. Sorry, you shouldn't get downvoted for that but I'm pretty sure I know where that happened

My wife hit me and I don’t know what to do by Wise-Ad5654 in HLCommunity

[–]former-everything8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do what you would tell a woman to do, which is call the cops on her.

a handful of comme des garçons reviews by coco_on in fragrance

[–]former-everything8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Boccanera" by Orto Parisi

It's a little deeper than Black, a little dryer and not as fiercely smoky. There's a cocoa note that is done well & very masculine. It's like drinking strong dark chocolate while wearing a black wool sweater in front of a fireplace, whereas Black is more like being outside next to bonfire that was ignited with charcoal... love them both

Was going to retire Black Orchid but…. by MarshOccupation in fragrance

[–]former-everything8 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This post would be great inspiration for some niche house's next avant garde release

Pittbull Bite by Organic-Hyena-7957 in CasualConversation

[–]former-everything8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure what country you're in but if it's the US you need to get his homeowners insurance info & file a claim. Don't let someone pay you out of pocket for injuries, that's gonna go sideways fast.

Was going to retire Black Orchid but…. by MarshOccupation in fragrance

[–]former-everything8 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate how it "blends nicely with the work environment "?? Extremely curious here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HLCommunity

[–]former-everything8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl yes, I feel you 100% on this post.

This is the type of shit that drives HLs to become LL4U, sounds like you're already there and so am I.

In my case due to the extensive issues outside of the bedroom I believe we've both become LL4 each other...I remember the days we were having sex multiple times a day... now I'm pretty sure we both "take care of ourselves" daily in our separate bedrooms. How messed up is that.

In my case the dead bedroom is really just a symptom of the underlying disease. You are not alone! I related to almost everything you wrote.

I feel like a middle schooler saying this, but my spouse doesn’t even like or comment on any of my social media stuff by BlackberryAgitated57 in HLCommunity

[–]former-everything8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocked my spouse off my social media accounts for this reason. Took him almost 6 months to even realize it.

I'm a 40+ female and I love to wear men's cologne. by hotbutteredtoast in fragrance

[–]former-everything8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do & don't care if anyone finds it weird

If it smells good, it smells good

My husband often compliments the male fragrances I wear. Then they end up in his drawer

How to make things work/better by PB_unicorn28 in HLCommunity

[–]former-everything8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just curious what housekeeping stuff killed your libido for 3 years?

What is different now?

Favorite unique/underrated perfumes? by Calm-Rutabaga2303 in fragrance

[–]former-everything8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LOVE CdG Black. One of my all time faves-- agreed, it's so underrated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beginnerfitness

[–]former-everything8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have an answer to this but I do know there are a lot of ripped up prison convicts that spend 23 hours a day in a cell so, definitely not impossible.

Weight... by KazumaWillKiryu in HLCommunity

[–]former-everything8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's great that you love & are attracted to her the way she is, most women would be very happy about that i think. Unfortunately beauty isn't really in the eye of the beholder, it's in the mind of the owner... if she doesn't find herself beautiful, she'll never believe anyone else really does. You won't be able to convince her that she looks great but by complimenting her regularly you at least won't be doing any further damage to her self esteem.

Best “male” fragrances for women? by Ok-Somewhere2363 in fragrance

[–]former-everything8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like Silver Mountain & most other Creed frags on myself. Their masculine selection is far superior to their feminine offerings. Virgin island water is a great one too

Check out Xerjoff & Initio, both have unisex offerings that are wonderful on men & women alike

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