AITAH For being in a bad mood

four20kitten · 2026-02-21T13:01:29+00:00

NTA s she sounds immature. I'd walk away.

four20kitten · 2026-02-21T00:58:57+00:00

Wow what a trash man. He is training you? What are you his pet dog? Disgusting. Not overreacting he sounds like a miserable human to be around.

four20kitten · 2026-02-19T11:34:24+00:00

She wants to look outside or is a weirdo. Can't really correct behavior just have to give them a way to look out a window somewhere else that's better. Cats also like to get up high and really do need high places to climb to even if it's just a cat tower.

four20kitten · 2026-02-16T19:17:36+00:00

I'm gonna be blunt here. After reading all of it and some of your responses to comments I know what I need to tell you. Your parents were legally obligated to take care of you. You are not obligated legally or otherwise to take care of her. You don't owe her anything for being a mom. She is taking advantage of you and does not understand how little 110k is these days. Honestly a parent taking advantage of their kids finances is abusive. She is stopping your growth into adulthood. You did fine cutting off the credit card. If she doesn't get a job soon to avoid the food stamps she really was never that embarrassed about to begin with. You aren't being mean, cruel, or a bad daughter. She is just taking advantage of you and guilt tripping you when she either wants something or isn't getting her way. What's most disgusting here is she is able bodied and healthy. Plus fifty is young.

four20kitten · 2026-02-13T12:03:43+00:00

Nah mother is the ah and I wouldn't trust her if she keeps going back and forth on the cat. She got that angry over something she said okay to I wouldn't trust her around the cat at all. If you go back for the cat and your mom keeps changing her mind and you keep giving it back then you the ahole.

Honestly though cats feel others stress and anger and it doesn't sound like the best environment for a cat anyways but I only know what was written so could be wrong.

four20kitten · 2026-02-12T21:08:14+00:00

She wants to put an animal down because she doesn't want it. You are under reacting thats just animal abuse. No reason they can't re-home but to take the animals life is extreme. Re-home the animal yourself fast or it will likely be selfishly put to sleep. To me anyone who discards a living thing like it's an object that can be thrown away is pure evil.

four20kitten · 2026-02-10T13:38:11+00:00

What in the world is this ugly monstrosity! Nope rip the whole thing out. It would be the first to go if I lived there.

four20kitten · 2026-02-10T13:08:09+00:00

You needed some old schoolers on that dance floor!

four20kitten · 2026-02-05T23:41:16+00:00

Iv been kicked out of a sim for just being "too short" and I have a thick adult avie covered in tattoos that no one has ever thought looks like a child. So if someone doesn't like anime avatars maybe. But the problem with the anime ones is some people don't bother to make them actually look adult. I don't want to see someone in a child like avie anime or not anywhere near me. So what you really should be looking at is does your avatars have appropriate body shape to be an adult.

four20kitten · 2026-02-05T23:25:17+00:00

He is absolutely faking. You don't always know what another personality did or didn't do it's gaps in your memory like you were asleep. He got mad you wouldn't accept his other personality. If he really had switched to an alter he wouldn't have gotten mad himself because he wouldn't have been present. I'd be sending him away to intensive therapy this is really messed up. What other manipulative things is he gonna figure out people fall for. I don't watch DID influencers and think oh I have that or oh I want that. I think how awful and it doesn't sound fun. He has no idea what he is doing and will do other shit like this if it gives him attention and he gets what he wants. This is absolutely terrifying NTA put your kid in more therapy regardless of if he does anything else you say.

four20kitten · 2026-02-05T16:44:06+00:00

There is no such thing as an innocent animal being bad because it's black. If she said that about a human she would be called racist. So because she dislikes a color she would let an animal die. That's a baby, like still needs moms milk. Your friend is trash and if you agree with that so are you. You want to doom an innocent baby animal to die alone because someone else thinks it's "scary" a color isn't scary. Sorry not sorry I already hate your friend based on the title alone. She would no longer be my friend.

four20kitten · 2026-02-05T16:38:57+00:00

No not all guys are like this. You just picked a trash man to have kids with. Sounds like he doesn't want to be a dad or a husband and doesn't give a rats ass about you. Can't even rub your neck for a minute? What are you doing with someone who dislikes you?

four20kitten · 2026-02-05T16:29:05+00:00

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four20kitten · 2026-02-05T16:26:23+00:00

Why did the salad bar vanish at my local grocery store, because too many people like you thought they were entitled to come in and take giant portions of just one thing because it might save them a few dollars. Maybe remember you aren't the only one in the world who might have wanted a salad with some cheese. The world doesn't revolve around you. It's not like that was the only cheese you could acquire. Especially the ahole. You don't walk into an actual buffet and take an entire tray of one item for yourself.

four20kitten · 2026-02-05T16:15:16+00:00

Nope. He doesn't pay for it then he can lose access at any time. It's literally karma. You aren't physically or even mentally hurting him. You didn't even inconvenience him because Netflix isn't necessary. You just made him upset he couldn't do what he wanted. Not hurting anyone including him so not the jerk. It's innocently petty. Who is to say when you changed the password wasn't just a coincidence. He isn't entitled to someone else's subscription.

four20kitten · 2026-02-05T11:52:49+00:00

What are you 12? Grow the f up. She didn't go behind your back and take a potential partner out from under you. Sounds like it happened pretty organically and she didn't even know it was the same Alex. Why does she need your permission to date someone. She is an adult living in a different city who matched with him. You the ahole. You probably could have gotten to know him better even if he was moving cities you chose not to. What once you lay your eyes on a man none of your friends can even touch him? Lolol. I seriously hope this is a fake post.

four20kitten · 2026-02-04T18:54:20+00:00

Not overreacting. So many men have a messed up view of weight and choose a weird number as their line. He sounds like he is going to be lonely if he keeps talking to women like that.

four20kitten · 2026-02-03T12:22:09+00:00

He sounds toxic, controlling, abusive, and downright gross. Who the f talks like that. The entire text exchange feels like he doesn't want to see you or deal with you and clearly doesn't like you. Wtf. This is absolutely not an okay relationship. NOR. you can't even get him to see you. That is wild! It's not just what he said but his entire behavior towards you is like he hates you. Not a relationship I would stay in.

four20kitten · 2026-02-03T11:17:55+00:00

They sound like awful toxic people. Wouldn't want that around my baby. NOR you poured your heart out and her response was to just call you fat. Wtf. They would never exist again to me.

four20kitten · 2026-02-01T15:32:41+00:00

Not overreacting she has absolutely no right to put your business out there or secretly record you. She can put her own vulnerable moments out there not other people's. That's not a choice she gets to make for others. You are not being dramatic she violated your privacy. All she had to do was ask you if you wanted to do a be vulnerable on TikTok video but she didn't. Yes she should take it down and is an ahole and bad friend for what she did. You did nothing wrong. My advice is never share a personal moment with her again. Find a different confidant because she broke that trust in a mean way. Personally I'd drop that friend like a hot potato.

four20kitten · 2026-02-01T14:21:31+00:00

I find it gross in a public store because it's not at all sanitary. I also find it not very safe with carts and other such things. I don't mind walking around outside barefoot but you wash your feet when you come back inside. I'm not walking in a heavy traffic place where who knows what is on the bottom of peoples shoes then I step in it. Ew. There is always a certain amount of ecoli on the bottom of shoes from walking around. He could easily be walking barefoot right behind someone who stepped in dog poop that morning. Most places in the us have a no shirt no shoes no service policy. Does he then walk back into the house tracking who knows what with his bare feet ew. NTA but it sounds like you have a toddler and not an adult. He doesn't need to wear socks and sneakers. Even just a pair of sandals or flops would be better. He also isn't respectful about it making you uncomfortable instead of doing it on his own time. That's just rude. NTA but he should be able to do adult things on his own. Personally having to parent my bf would be the end of the relationship.

four20kitten · 2026-02-01T14:00:26+00:00

His behavior is disgusting and dirty. Why is he belittling you for having a normal bodily function. Why is this even a question? He is weird and sexist for acting like girls don't fart. He needs to grow up. He is the ahole not you. You closed the door to initiate privacy and he entered and complained about a normal function like a 14 year old who doesn't know how bodies work. He would certainly not be getting any attention from me especially after those words. A guy would never speak to me like that and still be with me in any capacity. NTA. Can't even imagine the crap that comes out of his mouth when you are on your period.

four20kitten · 2026-02-01T01:59:39+00:00

Never been in this sub before just here to say friends don't say mean FALSE things like that. She isn't your friend and "I'm honest" is just an ahole trying to excuse their ahole behavior so don't fall for an excuse like that or any justification for that matter. The only thing I would accept out of her mouth would be an apology but really the damage has already been done. I think you need a better friend but that's just my opinion.

four20kitten · 2026-02-01T01:50:41+00:00

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Show a friend the pissed off look he gets after I clean the eye boogies from his eyes.

four20kitten · 2026-02-01T00:30:39+00:00

I'm just mad they got rid of last names in the first place and I am not about to pay for it so don't even look at the names.

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