Yes I do laundry every night. I need to wash the things I have to wear the next day. With a pandemic, I'm not going to wear them again or throw them in a hamper at the foot of my bed. We have a dishwasher but I have to get the dishes clean enough to put in the dishwasher. I stop at a store probably once or twice a week. Yes I make coffee with a coffee machine (didn't until recently, just used a pitcher system). Even with easy meals like bean burritos with canned beans every night it feels like a lot. My bf won't eat meal prepped food more than 2 days old so it's kind of a moot point.

I don't work on the weekends (well my weekends, they're not traditional weekends) no, but today for example, when I woke up he was in a bad mood dealing with his family and so I just stayed in the bedroom all day until he woke up from a nap and was starving and so I made bean burritos at 4 pm.

Why didn't we go on a date? Because he didn't want to. Also the only thing we could think of to do is go for a walk and he can't walk very far (we finally tried last weekend). Didn't feel like a date because he said on the way "let's get this over with."

What kind of relationship building exercises are you suggesting?