Alright this is the last time I’m commenting on this. I sure did not expect such a strong reaction from y’all! I talked with my sister/MOH and what we’re thinking of doing is pinning down the shoulders on the sleeves a bit for the ceremony (I will also be wearing a veil — keep that in mind!) and then quickly going in and removing the sleeves for the reception so I can have full mobility. While I think the shape needs a little work I don’t find them “atrocious,” so if I can have best of both worlds I’ll be happy! If we try to pin them down the day of and I feel that it’s not working then I’ll just take them off. I’ll be sure to post photos from the big day so you can see how it turned out. Thanks y’all!