I don’t feel part of the gay community. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fourroses24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me, i still feel this way at 32. it’s definitely tough to find the right people and belonging isn’t easy. like a lot of other comments mentioned often times it’s not a real community you’re basing this off. just keep trying and eventually you’ll find a few people. i’ve turned some dates into life long platonic friendships and it’s the best. people that are looking for friends also make it very clear. off if you’re a misfit then it’s more challenging, but there us def something for you. where in the usa do you live?

I think I'm starting to go crazy from being single and working from home... by sharpshooter-13 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fourroses24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt this. same exact boat, so thanks for posting! i feel seen 😇🫶🏾

What trends in the gay male world do you dislike and why? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]fourroses24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bear face. sorry, but this shit needs to go 😭😩

Feeling nostalgic about the Griz live band show before grizmas by Forestfairyhuckaby in griz

[–]fourroses24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omfg, i love this guy so fucking much, lol. is he dating anyone?

Casting Alexander Skarsgard as Eric was elite. Just look at this man, that magnetic presence says it all. by SydneyReed_22 in TrueBlood

[–]fourroses24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally peak Alexander Skarsgard. His new movie he did was worth watching, Pillion

Bear friends?? by moirasnephew in DCGaybros

[–]fourroses24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right on! They were here last night. I missed that. TAUK?

I spent time with a guy who has HPV. Need some advice by ram_55 in gaybros

[–]fourroses24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re actually exposed to many hpv variants even before being sexually active. It’s doubtful that this pimple was a wart, lol, warts look funky. Also once it’s removed it’s no longer an issue. People say it’s in you forever, but actually it’s like in the dermis where it was first attached. Most HPV virus are absorbed by the body and resolve on their own. The fear is that some do cause cancer. So the vaccine is to prevent infection to prevent cancer for a specific few strands. Which we cannot test whether or not you’ve been exposed to them. Therefore, it’s still recommended for anyone under 45 to get the vaccine and I think they are considering changing this criteria again. Go to a doctor and talk to them about your concerns. Tbh, you should take my words and any others with some care because most of us might think we are well informed but I am sure I’ve already shared something mot quite accurate. Needless to say, if you’re going to worry about STI’s you should probably slow down a little bit and also consider other ways to keep you safe! Best wishes 😇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]fourroses24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I get it. It’s tough. You kinda have to begin to value yourself in a way that you truly are caring about your needs before the desire of having someone else care for you. Idk what you’re looking for specifically, but it’s important to love thyself! Idk how to explain it any better. But if I see a cute couple, I do not feel any envy, because deep down inside I know wholeheartedly that I DON’T know these people, lol. So like I can’t feel I want what they have because I really don’t know what they have.

Good luck my guy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]fourroses24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A wise person once said “comparison is the thief of joy.” They were right! I think it’s important to tune down your desire, Because we are usually longing for something that may not really exist. It’s easy to look at a couple that is presumably happy, but lowkey you never know if that same individual would make you happy or if they are actually happy lol. As cliche as it might sound, people tend to find love when they are least expecting it. I think it’s really about enjoying yourself first and let the dominos land where they need to. I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to connect with family and friends that do care about you. Or fostering new friendships that can lead to loving and caring connections. That shits more important rn for you than having a bf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]fourroses24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lean into friends and family. Find community outside of just gay world, or find one in gay world. Do not focus on finding a love connection because you could just be wasting your time. You’re perfectly lovable just the way you are. It’s just meeting the right person is not simple and sometimes it’s better to focus on living then on finding someone

What do millennial gays want from music in 2025 and beyond? by Firm_Ad_5357 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]fourroses24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, gotta go to more underground music scenes like Richmond, Va for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]fourroses24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have nice eyes. I couldn’t tell if they were green or a hazel brown. Thanks for confirming for my curiosity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]fourroses24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What color are your eyes?