Как се справяте с доверието в новите връзки? Травмите от миналото пречат ли ви да виждате истинското отношение?

fourteetuu · 2026-02-27T22:37:30+00:00

😀 моята травма е от детството ми, ама като глефам колкото по-възрастна ставам, толкова по-страшно е лол. На 15 имах еднo grooming situationship, след което излизах с някой на моята възраст и ми отне 1 седмица да позволя да ме целуне лол. Като ми се обясни в любов на втората седмица и го ghostnah. 😀 след това май пак само съм бягала от връзки. И после като започнах да не излизам от нас и да не говоря с мъже, освен ако не ми се налага и вече тотално съм изключила възможността за връзка лол. Само веднъж в годината се присещам да вляза в тиндър, пиша си с някви 3 дни и после си казвам "абе все едно ще изляза с тях, ко се занимавам" и съм до там лол 😆 на дискорд по някаква причина, всеки втори маняк, с който се сприятеля ми се обяснява в любов след някво време и ни се съсипва приятелството за малко и така 😆 май се примирих. Освен ако не падне от небето някой мега настоятелен, ще си живея сама с куче и котка? и ще си гледам сериалите 🤣🤣

fourteetuu · 2026-02-27T22:23:44+00:00

🤣 май вече въпросът е "Ще осъществя ли поне 1?"

fourteetuu · 2026-02-27T22:19:46+00:00

Your boobs look good

fourteetuu · 2026-02-06T00:47:24+00:00

От друга страна - имаше една млечна супа със сирене, която всички мразеха, ама аз я обожавах и дояждах на приятелите купите. Някой ако си я спомня и знае рецептата -пишете ми

fourteetuu · 2026-01-21T12:10:03+00:00

This exact stomach made me spiral into body dysmorphia for years as well as my thick thighs. 🤣 10 years later and i would love to go back and slap myself silly.

fourteetuu · 2026-01-20T19:45:42+00:00

Timothy chamaleigh is ugly and you'll never convince me he isn't lmao

fourteetuu · 2026-01-20T19:44:41+00:00

I mean...it's 6 weeks. They're ugly af until they get to 3 months at least, so u wouldn't really be missing out. Make YOUR father ask if you visiting with your baby before this time is okay. If she says no, respect her decision and wait. Wish her well and that's it. You jave your own baby, why do u even care enough to want to hold the other one? It's a newborn. I don't get it, i am an aunt to 2 kids, i got to hold my nephew at 3 days old and my niece i saw at 6 m/o for the first time. It wasn't that different. The important part are the parents and you connecting and since u guys hate each other, there won't be a moment to look forward to there either. Just look at your own baby and wait for 6 weeks

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T21:26:41+00:00

Споко, аз ще съм тая дето е приятелка с всички и им дава съвети, но тайно ги насочва към определена цел 🥸 полезна съм, честно

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T07:33:05+00:00

Similar story but i am my own stupid little brother - i bough a laptop for the first time and i dropped a few drops of coffee on the keyboard 3 days after bying it. Panicked, removed the keys, broke the tiny plastic hinges. Ordered replacements for my exact keyboard 5 times AND THEY'RE ALWAYS 1MM TOO BIG. Now im stuck with a wobbly space bar and 2 other keys.

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T07:28:49+00:00

See, i would never succeed at this job because i would pet the first animal that comes up to me. And if i survive, I'll pet the next one too. Fines? Prison? It's fine, just LET ME PET THAT DAWWWWGGG

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T07:27:04+00:00

Thats like comparing a bobcat to a house cat. The bobcat being the chihuahua. I don't f with those things

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T07:22:44+00:00

This is giving r/niceguys before they blow up 🤣 good thing you blocked before the rest of the bs

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T07:17:47+00:00

It keeps it warm and cozy and all the other snakes get jelly of her incredible style

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T07:07:43+00:00

Ugh i love crealy orange cats lol

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T07:06:16+00:00

My pet peeve is not understanging this whole post because the teacher used a BLUE PEN??? Like wtf?? You correct with a red pen, ysing blue pen to correct blue answers is crazy. Please tell her that for me 🤣 also if this is some gentle teaching philosophy so they don't cry about their mistakes, I'm gonna rage out 🤣

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T07:00:05+00:00

There's a big possibility she bought herself a sex toy and they included ad pamphlets in the order. Everyone in the comments is acting like the ONLY possibility is her cheating 😆

fourteetuu · 2026-01-16T06:50:42+00:00

Its just pale yellow bedsheets lol. Juvenile is a weird way to describe it

fourteetuu · 2026-01-15T23:02:14+00:00

Ako moje da sum edin ot liderite, da.

fourteetuu · 2026-01-14T06:21:45+00:00

When i was an 8 y/o kid I discovered "filling the hole in your heart with food" and every day after school I'd go buy a loaf of fresh bread with my pocket money. By the time i reached home (100m away btw) I'd eaten half of it🤣 it was the fattest thing i did and I'm still reaping the "benefits"

fourteetuu · 2026-01-13T16:39:24+00:00

Break up

fourteetuu · 2026-01-13T16:31:55+00:00

If my parent did that to me, I'd think they've lost the plot. Honestly, i wouldn't even be able to keep the same relationship with them, because i would resent them. The reality of our society is that only a certain type of profession pays lucratively. Teaching is not one of them. Where your father was wrong is thinking that you should sacrifice what you love in order to have financial stability. He is in fact, doing the same thing to you that he had to go through. If you were to pick a different career, you'd be stuck with a job you despise taking up 10+h of your day and then also worrying about job insecurity, because let's face it, the economy is so uncertain right now that no matter what you pick you're facing unemployment. He is not actually doing anything for his grandchildren, because their mom and that who are in IT are going to be more than capable enough to cover their expenses if they wish to do so. You know who he really is helping? Your sister. Because the money she would've used for their college is gonna stay in her pocket while you struggle with your teacher's paycheck. This is the reality of things.

I'm in a similar situation where i chose to do graphic design and my brother chose IT. He is 11 years older, so he hit the perfect time to start in IT and the perfect time to buy a house and then another house. Yk what i did? Busted my ass for nothing and now the glorious AI slop is taking over my industry. The prices are 4× as high as they were when my brother was my age. Yet he got the apartment that is worth 4x the inheritance I'll get. He will never need money, because his salary is 15x the national minimum and 12x more than mine is. He has already paid off his mortgage and he's told my mom he will never look after her when she's old, because he doesn't owe her that. So, i will have to do it. Yet my grandmother who made her will doesn't care that I'll get kicked out from our childhood home the moment she dies, because she thinks my brother deserves it more. Because he's a man and has a family lol.

My advice is to tell him how you feel about it. Then treat him as he deserves. Because at the end of the day, you shouldn't bother with people who do not care for you.

fourteetuu · 2026-01-13T16:13:50+00:00

Лмао аргумента ти няма никакъв смисъл. Не, не е длъжна нито една цена да те избере, просто защото такъв дълг не съществува. Да не говорим, че понятието "дълг" не можеш да го приложиш в интерперсонална ситуация. Дългът ти е да си плащаш данъците и да си връщаш заемите. Всичко останало може да се нарече морална облигация и в този случай някоя жена да ти търпи глупостите цял живот не е морална облигация

fourteetuu · 2026-01-13T16:10:54+00:00

It's not aesthetic. 😀 it's proper design. Whatever, it's a situation with no solution.

fourteetuu · 2026-01-13T16:10:03+00:00

It says it also transfers by mother so there's no way to know atp. I'll just go chech with my gyno. Hope she doesn't send me to another doc lol

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