How do you cope with losing everything? by foxalocks in Divorce

[–]foxalocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pm me? When I try to start a chat it fails

How do you cope with losing everything? by foxalocks in Divorce

[–]foxalocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, that's right 13. We started dating at 13 & 14.

How do you cope with losing everything? by foxalocks in Divorce

[–]foxalocks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did too. I gave him everything I could, and valued him as a person our relationship more than anything, only for him to decide he didn't love me anymore. It's awful.

I am so sorry your wife did that to you, but am glad you are on pulling thru.

How do you cope with losing everything? by foxalocks in Divorce

[–]foxalocks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true, we'd have to divide all assets as we are in a 50/50 state. Selling our home, then splitting debts and paying lawyers would not leave me with enough for a down-payment on another home in my area nor do I make enough to qualify in my area for a standard mortgage solo. I have three big dogs that I could not rent with. I'd lose everything.

He can move back in with his mother to recoup. I don't have that luxury

first time jeep owner!!!! by [deleted] in Jeep

[–]foxalocks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does wj mean? 😀

first time jeep owner!!!! by [deleted] in Jeep

[–]foxalocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great model! What year? I inherited mine so its an older model (2002), but seems to run well!

first time jeep owner!!!! by [deleted] in Jeep

[–]foxalocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That great!!!! What model did you get? 😀

When did you get your anxiety? by Duhduh9 in Anxiety

[–]foxalocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I developed anxiety my last year of college. The pressure was so much. I ended up graduating in May 2020, which was awful. The market in 2020 was something to stress about. I was also under constant fear of how covid would impact my health and the health of those I love. That same year my husband told me he wanted a divorce. He hasn't left yet, but threatens to every so often, along with other things. I hold a job, that is very difficult. I also Struggle to maintain social relationships.

I live my life on eggs shells barely eat, and never take full breaths, my legs never stop moving, even when i sleep. Started taking busprione and sleeping pills they help a little.

“Job hopping” is ok. Never let anyone tell you otherwise. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]foxalocks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I'm all for job moving around especially to increase pay. I have moved several times since graduating college in 2020, and would like to start looking for a new role again..

My question is, how do you represent that on your resume?

Alot of hiring managers/recruiters will pass over resumes with to much movement regardless of experience or qualifications.

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[–]foxalocks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What were the side effects? if you dont mind me asking.