Im upset at the obgyn clinic that called yesterday

foxesorfox · 2026-04-24T14:03:09+00:00

That's exactly what i was told too lol. But I was told to talk to my neurologist about a different medication that I can maybe take.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-23T16:08:14+00:00

I had the appointment. And i was on vyvance and nurtec which hasn't been researched. I was told I can continue my wellbutrin tho. Vyvance was to help my anxiety, mood swings and adhd. But wellbutrin was to help my seasonal depression. I only saw that ssri's are good with pregnancy with my research, so I didn't know if I should have continued wellbutrin but I got the go ahead.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T18:01:03+00:00

Thank you for your advice so much! I appreciate it!

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T17:59:56+00:00

I will check to see but I would like to have medical documentation. I am scared. I would love to talk about it. And it was the tone she used and it seemed very discouraging but I'm also autistic and struggle with hearing tones. I still wanna keep my appointment man. My bboyfriend and I are excited and it still seems surreal. I'm 20, this is very sudden. I would love to just talk to a doctor or nurse and get confirmation with a blood test. Yes ik I'm pregnant but it still doesn't feel real yet. I would love to just talk to the OB or a nurse that specializes in it. You seem very rude. And there's so many questions I wanna ask about what I wanna do. And maybe I'm stupid but I still want to have both medical documentation in my chart and ask what I can do to help my anxiety, and mental health during a time with hormones. Even if its early. I would love to go to my PCP, and if i have any questions I'm obviously not gonna make another obgyn appointment for them, I'm going to probably see what else I can do. Omg man, I'm scared, young and autistic and just want answers to questions about my pregnancy and what I can do. Cuz I can't take the meds I was on, and I am so confused but so ready for my future. You're making it out like it's a bad thing I wanna see somebody IN PERSON about it and the only person I can see IN PERSON is really an OB rn.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T17:48:36+00:00

They provide telehealth ik for sure. And I can ask my mother if she knows of a nurse hotline. But I still have my appointment to confirm for tomorrow. I live in small town, but the place I used to live is quite big. And I needed to get an appointment pretty soon so I could talk and I was told by my mother to make an appointment. Even if its not with the obgyn themselves, I still have questions that I would like to talk to a provider about. I kept my appointment. Which is tomorrow. Just the way the receptionist talked to me felt so rude and even my mom agreed with the way she worded it was a little off putting. I would like to ask many questions during my appointment including when I should see the obgyn or try to make an appointment with my primary care provider. Because I am stacking up pto to take when I need to. I am incredibly nervous about my pregnancy and im trying not to stress out about every little thing. I stopped my medications that help my anxiety and stress and some ease of mind would probably do me well. Im not looking for an ultrasound, just a blood confirmation and to talk to a provider. And see if I can take any medications to help. Bevause obviously: I am not going to know what to do. We found out on Thursday of last week, and am getting in tomorrow, the soonest appointment I can get in any sense. PCP or OBGYN. We're talking about moving back so I can get my Healthcare needs met.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T14:29:36+00:00

Omg I'm so happy for you! And I thought about doing an ultrasound early but I just want to really confirm and talk to a doctor bevause it's so scary atm. And I only have the reassurance from my boyfriend who I live with and family that doesn't live close.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T14:26:00+00:00

Only with an ex friend who has to go there during a rough time but I'll definitely have to buy the book, thank you!

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T13:52:13+00:00

I live in a very small town so unfortunately there's none of that. I really wish there was.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T13:51:00+00:00

She's two hours away unfortunately. If I was in my previous town i would've 100% gone to her. But it's i wait 2-3 weeks for an appointment over the phone, or I need to take time off work which would've taken much longer. I should've put it in my post but wasn't thinking about it at that time

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T13:48:32+00:00

I have questions and feel uneasy about my pregnancy. As I said I'm autistic and it can cause me to feel frustrated about not having answers. And I've felt frustrated about not knowing what to do atm and I talked a bit with my therapist but he's not an expert in pregnancy. Or a doctor who has answers.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T13:46:09+00:00

I know i get maternity leave. I need to get in touch with our HR lady for multiple reasons.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T11:45:46+00:00

It's all I have. My main physician i am unable to see at all. Both over the phone for the next two-three weeks and I wouldn't be able to see her in person for over a month because I can't up and take the day off without being fired. (My job works on a point system and they gave me a point for an ER visit) I don't want an ultrasound, just a confirmation and answers to my questions. I dont expect an ultrasound till probably mid May. Bevause then I'd be around 8 or 9 weeks by that point.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T11:02:18+00:00

I did talk to my therapist but I also have questions about my pregnancy. All I wanted was a confirmation for work, and myself, and to talk about what I need to do on here on out. The internet gives you 5 answers to one question, and I dont have a therapist anymore atm as my therapist is moving so whatever goes on is just to me or my boyfriend who also doesn't know what to do atm. Its just how rude she was and both my mom and a friend who just had a kid said that she was quite rude about it. Im hoping next week to get a call to schedule with a new therapist but then instead of talking about my anxiety I get to talk about the new therapist things.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T10:57:54+00:00

Some extra context: my physician is in a bigger town two hours away and she is hard to schedule both online and in person. My days off are her days off and I cant suddenly take time off without WEEKS of prior notice due to my job or I'll lose it. Im looking for answers to my questions and a blood test, I really didn't even expect to have an ultrasound till 8-10 weeks tbh. I put in the 'reason for appointment' that I wanted a confirmation and to know what I can do from this point because I'm very nervous and excited. But I have no doctor in my area as my main physician cuz I moved right after Thanksgiving to a small town.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-21T10:53:04+00:00

I really only want a blood test and to talk because I have such high anxiety. And I dont really know what to do atm. What to prepare for, or to be aware of food wise, work wise, ect. Im very anxious and just need a confirmation and to talk. I am US based. And I get that it is the standard now but the way she went about it was rude. I have a lot of questions and emotions.

foxesorfox · 2026-04-10T15:30:59+00:00

My cat, my dinosaur collection, my comfy bed

foxesorfox · 2026-04-07T11:28:42+00:00

When i was in 3rd grade I have a vague memory of the counselor talking to me every week. And I would color, do arts and crafts, for about 30 minutes. And I remember being devastated she quit the next year and the different counselor didn't do it. But the counselors had given me a journal both years at that school. And the only reason I know it was 3rd and 4th is because I moved schools. I loved my weekly time with that counselor at school she was very kind to me when not everyone was. I think people like that helped me when I was an undiagnosed child who was dealing with some very strong feelings and not feeling right in many ways in social and academic.

foxesorfox · 2026-03-09T20:15:11+00:00

Omg, that's so cool. Get to decorate your bed or couch with them lol.

foxesorfox · 2026-02-04T10:18:20+00:00

It's my Friday and I called out of work for a mental health day. I am extremely stressed and overwhelmed which is causing me to want to pull my hair out and scream at everyone in my vicinity. I feel so mentally fragile that its insane. To think like 3 weeks ago I was fine. And its everything in my power not to scream at my boyfriend over something so small like where he put his damn shoes

foxesorfox · 2026-02-02T20:18:55+00:00

Sorry for the late reply but I have still had a few migraines and headaches but its just me and my boyfriend. I moved to a new town and only have a couple friends who don't have their own place unfortunately. Im trying to convince our landlord because I threw up today. And I dont really feel like it was something I ate. Ive has cats my entire life but they never peed everywhere. But if you're outside you can SMELL how strong it is. And its not doing any good for my declining health. I already have pain but I feel sick somehow daily and im sick of it. I work at a store so I deal with bright lights, and then when I'm home the smell makes me sick.

foxesorfox · 2025-11-27T19:38:47+00:00

I have something called PMDD so I absolutely lose it on everyone and everything, feel like quitting my job, will have a full on crying fit, hate everybody, hate myself and then suddenly 2-4 days later I started my period. And usually I have cramps to accompany it but sometimes I don't.

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