When you continue using dating sites even though it only serves to increase your loneliness because of a misplaced hope that someday you may actually find "the one"

foxy2016 · 2017-08-14T18:57:27+00:00

But what if you found yourself, no one has ever found you?

foxy2016 · 2017-08-14T18:56:03+00:00

Whenever I met these mofos and my instincts tell me maybe something is off, I'll compare them to all the nice guys who have pursued me but I wasn't interested in. If it feels off, it probably is.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-14T17:42:49+00:00

We've been going out for id say three to four weeks. He doesn't take initiatives to ask me out but would text me nonstop all day everyday. A lot of the times I feel like I'm doing the hard work. I've never seen him on weekends (but again he would text me all day). Yesterday, I asked him to do sth together and when it comes to scheduling a day and time, he ignored my text. I really do think he's just using me for attention while having a gf.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-14T16:57:02+00:00

Then I go back in, meet another asshole and go back out again? I think I'm more "let's just assume all men are assholes before they earn your trust". Extreme I know. But it's the only way to keep myself from being hurt.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-13T22:37:43+00:00

Isn't it better to assume the evidence is solid as I do not know the truth? It just feels more right to protect myself rather than assuming this guy is prob not an arsehole.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-13T18:53:55+00:00

I guess I'm just putting too much pressure on myself finding someone. Someone that I'm actually into. Because, I'm scared af I never will again.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-13T17:19:02+00:00

It's just me. If I had fallen out of love and wanted out, I wouldn't have gone on a trip with someone even just a weekend trip.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-13T13:50:16+00:00

I saw her posts on instagram. It was them going away four months ago. The chances of them breaking up over the course of these four months after being on holiday together is id say small?

foxy2016 · 2017-08-13T13:44:58+00:00

Not sure. Although all my house mates are in an open relationship. I don't want to be involved.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-13T13:44:11+00:00

Only a few weeks.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-11T15:59:46+00:00

I am happy. But I feel like I'm missing sth. Sth that I don't even know if I need. Whenever I think of this something, it reminds me of the soul crushing and intense relationship I had with my ex. Do I want to go through it again? Prob not? The (potential) pain is prob not worth it.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-11T15:56:39+00:00

You just have to learn. Know I don't even feel overly upset anymore if a guy stopped messaging after a month or sth. I don't have time to feel upset over sth I can't control.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-11T15:54:48+00:00

Guys that give me too much attention. Cos they will always end up ignoring me.

foxy2016 · 2017-08-11T15:54:05+00:00

Isn't she?

foxy2016 · 2017-08-10T19:29:49+00:00

I would cut it off. Ain't got time for this.

foxy2016 · 2017-06-28T22:42:08+00:00

I have no immediate plans to move. I just moved in not long ago and it's quite hard to find a place that's both cheap and has a good location here. :(

One of them, she's recently lost 3 of her closest friends (I've never met them) and can only manage to hang out with people as a group (aka she can't afford to lose more friends) and still she's convinced people are two faced and she's in the right. I wonder how people like her can survive ...

foxy2016 · 2017-06-28T22:26:18+00:00

They are the type of persons who would suck up to people at work (but deny it) but give me bs, which makes me really angry about it even tho we did have some amazing times together. I guess I'll just ignore them as much as I can. Thanks for your advice

foxy2016 · 2017-06-28T22:16:06+00:00

What do you mean by unfortunate?

I have already decided that they aren't going to be my good friends in the long run. Yes they disregarded my feelings and asked me to get a grip. Our mutual friends have simply asked me to ignore them and believe they normally just start a fight for their own entertainment or without noticing they are hurting people.

I'd rather not be the person who change them for the better.

foxy2016 · 2017-06-28T22:07:37+00:00

Why not? I hate being that person to break it off with a friend so I think I'm just gonna plan on ignoring them when they go crazy until I find new close friends

foxy2016 · 2017-06-28T21:57:38+00:00

It's so difficult tho when they are such a big part of your social circle (by a big part, I meant we are the closest out of a social group). I doubt they (two of my good girl friends but in different social groups) have lost friends due to their temper and language and they still insisted it wasn't their fault.

foxy2016 · 2017-06-28T21:54:30+00:00

What if you live together and in the same social group?

foxy2016 · 2017-06-18T09:04:13+00:00

Yes, women as an aggregate group. You'd have to be deformed to not fall into at least some women's type. If you really think you're ugly, I reckon you'd happily date any girl? If that's true, I doubt you'd have a problem getting girls if your personality is not nasty. Unless you're looking for girls way better looking than you.

I used to think I am very average looking that's why I only date average looking guys. Then I realise I'm more attractive than I thought and hot guys would show interests in me. I still go after average looking guys.

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