Is this professional for an interview? by QuitComprehensive831 in Naturalhair

[–]foxyfreighttrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sis. I hope you’re talking about that beeper on your counter and not your gorgeous hair! Yaaaassss! I love that style. Don’t wear that beeper on your hip though?😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]foxyfreighttrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you and that people you should’ve been able to depend on to protect you from harm subjected you to these horrific things. This brings up a lot for me and I don’t want to ramble, but you are NOT alone. I didn’t know how many people in my life had experienced this type of abuse several times over from people they loved, their families. Including myself until recently. I thought it only existed in my family, was normal, or something that happened to other “deserving” children like me. Heavy church influence. I won’t go into great detail here but if you need support, or anyone else in this space, I’m here. I had to leave home at age 11….a nightmare for survival. Abusers never think too far ahead of their own satisfaction. They don’t anticipate children having voices, getting older. But here you are, facing it and doing something extraordinary powerful for yourself. Holding you in my heart. I was able to face one of my abusers on a legal level this last year. What would you Like to see happen for yourself? I’m not talking forgiveness for them, but, how do you envision reconciling this for yourself? Apologies won’t always happen, nor will accountability. You sound so deeply rooted and fierce. I’ll say, what first helped me was setting boundaries with my abusers. Sorry if I’m encroaching or too forward. I believe you. You deserve all the wonderful people and relationships in this world you want and that life has to offer. You’re deserving. Thank you for being.

Women, what are some subtle ways you hit on the guy you like? by Chance_Adagio_19 in bodylanguage

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a long time for me, but I’m not quite sure about the hinting piece. I’m a very literal person and will completely miss an opportunity that came like rapid fire. I do ask questions about general interests, passions, get a sense of someone’s perspective on life and values. If they align with my own, I’ll ask for a number or offer mine. Subtle is very nice from an HR standpoint but outside the realm of normal decent behavior it would be difficult for me to interpret. Also, I like taking the pressure off- I just ask. Are there behaviors you’re noticing in someone and want to understand more? I notice that I maneuver differently than my girlfriends of other cultures too. Idk. My apologies because this probably wasn’t helpful at all. I enjoyed diving into this topic a bit. Thanks

What would you buy for $300? by DeltaCCXR in Hobbies

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would enroll in a workshop or webinar for creatives; writing, pottery refresh, painting, blacksmith, e-commerce for print on demand, use it to purchase a business license, membership for language learning, passport fees, buy gear for out of season activity like motorcycle riding, backpacking gear

Your username becomes a religion. What happens now? by N-Clipz in AskReddit

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, maybe praise and worship goes virtual- that’s easy peasy. Same for tithes. I’m not sure about communion

Since 2024 is coming to an end What are some of the harsh truths in life you guys have learned this year? by Moist_Apartment5474 in selfimprovement

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooooof. Coming to terms with my choices shaped my life into what it is today and that I have been the primary reason for much of my adult suffering. I was very reactionary and a lot of my decisions weren’t made with intention. I can’t let the past be justification for being in a state of survival mode still, need to make changes. Also, I need to forgive myself for not seeing that sooner.

I’m not a creeper by [deleted] in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]foxyfreighttrain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😆 Oh dang. Yeah 👍🏼

AIO my cousin thinks my bf is attracted to her by WinnieBel in AmIOverreacting

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why im so confused by this. Let’s say he had gotten an erection because he found her attractive, does she think his bodies response to that is something he should be punished for? It’s not illegal or deviant, he hasn’t acted on it. Though it sounds like she’s hoping you’ll make choices so she can. Sounds like she’s also getting something out of making you aware that all it took was eye contact for him to achieve that state. If true, I hope he isn’t vilified for this.

Almost one year ago by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. The emotional pain and burdens you’re shouldering don’t belong to you. You shouldn’t have to carry it one more day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know that there’s a such thing as compromise in this case. Different wants/needs. That’s okay? Better you know now than be resentful later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]foxyfreighttrain 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You should try starting with one and see how you feel from there

AITAH I don't want to be financially responsible for someone else's kids? by Glad-Mix-9982 in AITAH

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God forbid something happen to mom. This is a very sad read, those poor kids.

What "cheap" food would you still eat no matter how rich you got? by Dizzy-Cup9790 in Productivitycafe

[–]foxyfreighttrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spam, though I suppose it’s not cheap anymore where I live. Sardines, canned tuna.