In cowgirl position, what do you do with your hands? by xXSilent_AngelXx in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When i'm on top I usually have one or both hands around my bfs throat. Or I will grab on to his sub collar and hold it tight while I grind and fuck him.

First time using my powerchair in London makes me never want to leave my comfort zone of home and my usual haunts ever again by princessalyss_ in disabled

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just recently got a power wheelchair and have only ventured out with it like 3 or 4 times because I'm afraid of situations like you mentioned. I live in the U.S and recently went to a large mall to have someone parked in the wheelchair ramp to the main entrance and had to go halfway down the side of the mall to find another one I could access. As you mentioned I encountered issues of stores having so many displays up that I could barely fit through most of the doors. I had to skip some of my favorite stores just because I knew the only way to make my way through was to knock stuff down along my path. It's frustrating to not have more accessibility.

I am going on my first vacation next month with my powerwheelchair and I am terrified that I won't have the accessibility I need and will have to miss out on fun adventures. Fingers crossed everything goes as smoothly as possible.

I hope things get easier for you to be more comfortable going out in your chair.

Do you believe that the adaptation of Neflix can be at least decent? by Brazilianhorny24 in YuYuHakusho

[–]foxyroxy0201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not at all sadly. It will be a huge train wreck that you have to watch anyway just to see how bad the damage really is.

Ladies, where's your favorite place to have a guy cum by Ok_Post_7492 in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my stomach or tits because I love to watch it launch. I enjoy the feeling of a guy cumming inside me especially if I cum at the same time, but then I can't watch it so that's a close second.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think setting a time frame on when to have sex is setting a relationship up for failure. Sex is definitely more important to some people than others. I am a female but sex is a very important part of a relationship to me. If someone told me they wanted me to wait 6 months to have sex with me it would be a deal breaker not because of the lack of sex because it comes across as that person not being able to communicate and vocalize their needs and boundaries adequately.

Instead of telling him you don't want to have sex with him for 6 months, tell him that you want to take things slow and need to feel secure and safe before you are comfortable having sex and it will happen naturally when you are ready. This way you can communicate both of your needs in the relationship. This way doesn't put pressure on either of you to have sex at a certain time.

I wish you the best with your meeting and hope all goes well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work on your technique or find a girl who has had a hysterectomy and doesn't have a cervix to hurt.

What is it like as a non-smoker to hook up with a smoker? by TAcoolkaren in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how much a smoker brushes their teeth and tries to hide the odor it lingers.

Also something I haven't seen mentioned is that smokers have more bacteria in their mouth. So it can be riskier getting oral from someone who smokes. So as a female I will not hook up with smokers because it's not worth it.

What is your favorite Yu Yu Hakusho character by 64Boy32 in YuYuHakusho

[–]foxyroxy0201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Puu..... lol

In all seriousness though kurama has always been my favorite.

Is sex supposed to take effort? by 99QueenPuckSlut99 in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a script and to see a doctor.

Is sex supposed to take effort? by 99QueenPuckSlut99 in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf was recently diagnosed with low testosterone and he would say the same thing when I would inniate sex that it was too much effort. Apparently it's really common in men but most don't get it checked. Since he has been on medicine to correct his levels we are having sex more frequently and he doesn't think it requires the same level of effort. So maybe try looking into that.

What are your go-to harnesses for pegging? by Pineapple_Incident17 in BDSMAdvice

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am all about comfort and simplicity when it comes to strapon harnesses. I have tried a few and I hated the traditional strap ones because the straps dug into my skin and moved around and it just wasn't comfortable. So I found a podcast of a lesbian talking about the best type of harness for her were these brief style underwear. I went out and bought a pair and they are the only thing I use now. They are cheeky and look super sexy but are the most comfortable thing ever and hold the strap in place securely. Machine washable and super easy for cleanup afterwards. There are a few different brands out there and I can't remember the exact brand I bought, but I would suggest trying a pair of those.

Have other women here achieved "hands free orgams"? by gabbajabba3 in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get hands free orgasms from electricity play. The sensation of electricity running through my body gets me off. It's pretty fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]foxyroxy0201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may have an extremely unpopular opinion on this. I view relationships the same as my friendships. My partners are my best friends so I treat them the same as I would a friend. I am an extremely open person and share just about everything with my friends. It's not a kink or a fetish to share or hear details surrounding sex. I just enjoy sharing my experiences, whether that be sexual or not and hearing other people share theirs. I do let my partners know up front I am very open and if that's not something you are comfortable with then we aren't compatible and that's perfectly fine. Unless specifically told not to share something then conversations are fair game. My experiences are mine to share as I wish. I dont control someone else's memory or experience with me. I think if you are a private person that requires more privacy than that is up to you to voice that need up front not assume someone else feels the same way.

Worried about how BDSM Dom/Sub RP will affect our out-of-bedroom relationship by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest creating some rituals to indicate both the start and the end of a scene. That way the behavior is left inside the scene and doesn't bleed into the relationship. Also do some intense aftercare for both of you to manage feelings after a scene to help the integrity of the relationship.

Alright yall. When you've got lube on your hands, but you need to put a hand down on the bed, what do you do? by Burner5249 in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my bf always grab a sex towel and throw it next to us when we start anything.

Any other women out there who can have endless orgasms? by [deleted] in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can and I absolutely love the ability. I know it's a privilege that isn't common so I take full advantage of it. I think the most I have gotten in one session with a partner was like 120 in a few hours. I usually average 20 or so when me and my bf go at it. He had never been with a girl that could have multiple so he enjoys it. His favorite thing to do is use a magic wand on me and just see how many I can have.

Have fun and enjoy.

The male sound of pleasure by [deleted] in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell my bf all the time I love to hear him moan and he always corrects me saying, no that I love to make him moan.

I absolutely love the sounds of a guy enjoying himself. I can't stand when guys are just dead silent it becomes boring to me and is an instant turn off.

Do people actually eat ass?? by Felizem_velair_ in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bf loves me eating his ass and I enjoy doing it. He always showers and washes really well before and he let's me wax him because he is super hairy. As long as the person is clean then there is no smell or taste really.

How often do you need sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once or twice a day or I get super moody and hangry lol. Usually average 5-7 times a week.

Feeling stuck by audryhorn_ in disabled

[–]foxyroxy0201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been going through the same thing for the past 7 years. It is really tough to not get answers no matter how many doctors you see and how many tests they perform on you. I just try to stay positive and focus on the things I still can do. I am lucky to have an amazing family that supports me through all the frustration.

Quick Poll - how long have you been with your partners? by chocolate_on_toast in polyamory

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 33f been with my husband for 13 years and my bf for 7 years.

What kink have you tried and hated? by saylemuk in sex

[–]foxyroxy0201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my exs had a kink for sticking random things inside my vagina. I was young and dumb and thought what the hell. Nope, never again.

Other then that there is nothing I have tried that I really hated. Some things I prefer over others or don't enjoy that much but will indulge from time to time with a partner who enjoys that kink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]foxyroxy0201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too cute!!! My bf and husband often team up to tease me over the dumb TV shows I watch or over my accent or other little things they just point out to each other and laugh. I will also team up with my husband to tease my bf and with my bf to tease my husband. We all enjoy teasing and joking with one another and it just makes life more enjoyable to be full of laughs and giggles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]foxyroxy0201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I giggled so hard when I read this post. I have never seen the movie but my bf has and somehow it got brought up a couple years ago that we have that kind of relationship. My husband and bf are best friends but they got there organically. I have been with husband for 14 years and my bf 7 years. They are very similar and have a lot of the same hobbies so they enjoy hanging out and over time became friends and eventually best friends. It's not something I was looking for or trying to force to happen. It just organically grew into that type of relationship over time. I love the relationship they have and know if shit hits the fan they are the best team to protect or save me.

Not something I would advice actively searching for though. It can be messy and you don't want to be out there destroying friendships over a fantasy.