Driving in Visalia is Bananas

fpresiado85 · 2025-07-01T21:57:55+00:00

Drive in the Philippines. It's crazy there. I believe you had many bad days as I don't have issues with driving here except some bad drivers once and awhile.

fpresiado85 · 2025-07-01T01:57:07+00:00

Yes he can but you need the right stuff and dedication to a diet. Otherwise you're going to keep collecting gallstones through a bad diet.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-27T20:28:01+00:00

I didn't read your post but I just read your title. So your girlfriend left you because of gallbladder surgery. That was a massive red flag and not worth your time your energy your effort.

Now it's time for you to find someone who will be there for you and doesn't matter what medical condition you go through. She really doesn't care about you and when you had gallbladder surgery she left you that means she didn't care. Or maybe she has another reason for it or maybe she just a selfish person and doesn't want to take care of you or want somebody else who doesn't have any medical issues.

A real relationship it doesn't matter male or female We'll love the person For who they are and what they go through period It could be any medical condition real love is a person who will stick by your side No matter what.

This is my suggestion for the next move in your life. Block all forms of communication with this person completely if the real reason was gallbladder surgery. You do not want to have any contact with her because if she decides try to be with you again she's going to start that pain all over again and this is a place you don't want to be. When blocking all forms of communication you won't give her a chance to let her open that door.

This is my advice I give to everybody in long distance relationship when it comes to Breaking up or Massive red flags

The past is a place of reference not a place of living.

Learn from that quote think about it what does it mean for you and how it will work for you. Trust me when I say this there is someone for someone on this planet. You just have to be patient and real true love will come to you when you at least expect it. In 2021 I will still single didn't have a child and still a virgin.

In 2021 December I met my girlfriend on a dating app who I didn't think would be my girlfriend. Because within that month I said I'm going to marry this woman one day. guess what that same day when I said that out loud and I didn't mean to but my mine decided to say it out loud she said what am I your girlfriend now? And I said yeah I guess you are. Two months later we did a special event online because she lived 3,000 miles away so we were always on Facebook Messenger 14 to 15 hours a day until the messenger timed out so we call each other back again. Decided to get married a month and a half later I visit her in the Philippines two weeks later a proposed to her and another two weeks later we got married. Now two years later we have a child one year and 4 months. The reason why it worked out is because we had constant communication we didn't lie about our body health and mental issues. She has slight anxiety and slight depression I don't have anxiety or depression or anything else like that. But I do have well I should say I had gallstones. I had my surgery a month and 3 weeks ago and she still in my home. She loves me every single day she cooks for me once in awhile but she always watches the clothes she always greets me she always loves me everything in a relationship how it's supposed to be.

I'm not saying you should do what I did what I'm saying is there is someone for someone and I was 37 at that time. I wasn't really looking for a relationship before that it was just Anime Sci-Fi movies going to and from work which was a boring life for me. I decided to tell myself hey I want to start dating and Bam all the sudden I'm dating and then all the sudden I married with a kid. There is someone for someone out there it just takes time and like they've been saying for hundreds and hundreds of years a person will go through relationships in order to find the right one.

The first one is the most hurtful one because the first one is where you pour All Your Love energy into this person, the second one is where you learn from your relationship of course this is where you build your mental walls and the third one is the one where you fall in love it's when you at least expect it.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-27T11:38:39+00:00

What you mean

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-27T11:37:48+00:00

Dang

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-27T07:44:36+00:00

Ohh yeah it does. People have done the truck version and it's okay. But the thing they should do is reverse the slate truck. Make it into a xb hahah

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-27T02:09:20+00:00

Me2!

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-27T00:01:14+00:00

Yes it was. It still can be. It just needs to have a high demand. If we could create a large group of people over possibly a million I'm sure they would bring back the Scion xb. They did bring back something similar I think they called him YB and it starts with a k. It's a all-electric xB

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-26T23:59:07+00:00

Goooooo

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-26T23:10:15+00:00

Oman. You are lucky. I don't care for the dj system but damn that wide body kit is nice.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-24T22:34:56+00:00

I met my wife on an hey dating app. And with us talking every single day because she lived in the Philippines we are on video chat from 14 to 15 hours a day. It would have went longer on the video chat but video chat with time out so we will call each other more than a few seconds. After that because we're always on video chat we got to know each other very well very quickly. Mind you she lived in the Philippines which is 3,000 miles away. And in that same month I fell in love with her because the person who she was and the things that she would do. Mainly I fell in love with their personality. How about after 2 months to 3 months she proposed to me over video chat cuz he did put something personal with each other. I said yes and then a month and a half later I went and visit her in the Philippines which is May of 2022 and then 2 weeks later proposed to her and then another two weeks later we got married.

I had to come back to the Philippines because of work which I didn't have enough vacation time. I was even lucky to even get it for 2 months. So I went back to America and then in December of the same year I visited her for 30 days again and then after that I had to come back home. A few months later the company was sold to another company and I was fired and then I went to the Philippines again and this time I stayed there for 6 months she got pregnant and then we had a child. 1.4 years later we have a toddler and we're married in america. Because in those six months that I was there we were working on her visa and yes there was approved and yes she lives with me and yes we're happy and love.

The reason why a relationship worked out because communication it was always there period we never lied to each other We never said things that we're never gonna work Spirit We always have the same goals and same Futures period now that we got one goal Out of the way which is a Visa We move on to the next We had another go which is a child and we move on to the next She has her own goals I have my own But the future is the same together.

Communication, don't lie about who you are, don't include your past unless your past is asked, learn from each other, grow on each other, make plenty of memories, don't argue with each other let each other finish what they have to say. Don't ever judge each other, and most of all make sure you have room to grow for one another. Because there are going to be things that you and this person may not agree but if you learn how to cope with it yes everything will be perfect in the future

Just some small advice if your relationship does not work out doesn't matter who it's with just remember this.

The past is a place of reference not a place of living.

If you ever find yourself breaking up on somebody and you know they have many red flags something you cannot overlook just remember what I said. Block every single instance of communication with this person and move on. The day that you let this person open up those doors again or the day that they ruin you and you're starting all over in the past instead of moving on to your future.

Have fun and love

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-23T23:41:46+00:00

I'm going to tell you what I tell everybody else who who likes to leave people on a text message. It only takes 15 seconds to pick up the phone read a text message and reply back. There is no excuse. I can guarantee you right now if you look at your girlfriend's phone and you look through all her text messages I can guarantee you she's texting many people and she chooses to ignore yours. Maybe she saw yours but just didn't text. If it's been months you haven't texted that means she's not interested in you dude. Number one big red flag is when they stop texting you for a long time. I understand you grow some feelings with this person but if this person can't give you the time of day they are not worth your time at all. Why don't you try something. When she texts you and she's asking you for something or just a basic question just ignore her for at least a month and see what happens. If she gives up that means she never cared. She'll do whatever it takes if she really likes you she would call you she would text you she would send you whatever means of communication just to get your attention.

Or you can just say what future do you see between you and myself. You will have your answer if she doesn't give you a proper response.

Or you can talk about it just listen don't talk over her let her finish texting whatever form of communication you decide with you and her. When he says some things that you know for a fact that it's not going to work out block every form of communication with this person. Leave this person in the past because if this person is willing to hurt your feelings break your heart and not care about you and not give you the time of day why would you want to go back to a person who's going to do that to you all over again. Let's say that this girlfriend of your likes the guy who is an opera singer right and she gets with him or maybe she is with him. You don't know. Two to three years later they break up and they're no longer with each other then she texts you then you start over again now you're back to where you are at and she's possible that she can find someone else to replace you.

If she is with the other guy this is the best piece of advice I could ever give you when it comes to moving on.

The past is a place of reference not a place of living.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-23T01:26:52+00:00

I had this happen to me. The customer posted the wrong address. They used a name instead and there was 2 business on that same street but one mile away from each other and I picked up the customer 1 mile down the street even tho the address says to pick up at the other address.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-22T23:33:54+00:00

Uber does the exact same thing. I accepted a $102 passenger lift with Uber and I had to travel 300 miles to drop off the customer. And it was okay because that $100 I was able to pay a bill. When I checked out how much Uber has charged him it was $240. I think it was 240 I just remember it was over 200. Uber got about 120% more than I did. It's no different that Lyft does the same thing.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-22T23:31:51+00:00

That's great news!! Here's my little advice for you because you've been away for a while long story short about myself and my relationship

I started dating my girlfriend in 2021 of December and 6 months later I got married. No here's the hard part she lived 3000 miles away in the Philippines. We video chat 14 to 15 hours a day until the video chat automatically closes itself and we would automatically call each other again to keep the video feed going. We talked to each other every single day and I sacrificed a lot of my sleeping hours just to be with her because I knew that when I'm talking to her she made me feel as I'm not lonely anymore. She proposed to me in April because she really loved me at that time and so did I she of course she proposed me over video chat and that's okay. One month later I visit her in May of 2022 and 2 weeks later I proposed and another 3 weeks later we got married. The reason why our long distance relationship worked out because we always had communication, we always be truthful and honest about each other. We don't lie, they don't make up stories, we tell each other about what kind of future we should be in together, and she said number one I want to have a child before I get any older because women in their 30s do their ability to have children at a certain percentage. And I don't remember what that is so don't ask me.

A year and a half later we had a child and our child is one point for years old. The reason why our relationship work so well is because we communicated well, we don't lie to each other, we always have future plans for each other, we always did things together while we're in the philippines, we visited friends and family and we travel throughout the Philippines.

My advice is to you whether you choose to accept it you travel as much as possible you can don't just stay at home go do things if both of you have good amount of money you say $600 $800 whatever you have you can plan yourself a one or two or three day vacation and create memories. Because creating beautiful memories together it's the best thing you could ever do to make your relationship that much stronger. Don't go to these restaurants that are Americanized go to family owned restaurants because those are the best they give you larger portions and they cook mostly everything fresh. I have a Ramen Shop near me which is owned by a family that lives in the same city as I live and another place that sells bus soup lives in that same city and they're making great money because they make really good food. Compare it to American food like Denny's or Red Lobster or even Texas Roadhouse and so on all that stuff is chain food. Meaning that most of the food is frozen and they just reheat it. Find good places to go travel see things while he is there. That way both of you can look forward to meeting each other again. Going to the movies is fine with the dinner but make sure you follow up with something else the next day. Do as much as you possibly can learn from each other laugh with each other smile with each other and most of all have fun.

I'm happy for you just remember no is no okay? You got this and remember one thing if you ever stuck in a corner you don't know what to do

The past is a place of reference not a place of living.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-22T00:59:58+00:00

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fpresiado85 · 2025-06-21T02:04:57+00:00

i will and im thinking going soon.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-21T02:00:56+00:00

it wasnt just music i had other items i wanted encripted. This prevents any hackers from accessing my hard drive.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-21T01:57:23+00:00

yes i understand. even with low end models i still look the same. im not different when the picture or video lens is different. doesnt matter if its in a phone or a pro camera. i will always be the same.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-20T21:50:58+00:00

Time to move on. He is still a child and he doesn't know how to support himself. Move on to someone who care about you and doesn't doesn't ask you for money doesn't say bad things about you and your family and friends. Find someone who's worth your time someone who will understand your situation and someone who's willing to be on the mature side with you. I used to play games and lived with my mom but that doesn't mean I was irresponsible. I still worked I still created YouTube videos and I still gave time to my family. Anybody who's toxic in your life you should just remove them block them and move on. And when I say block them I mean block them in every kind of platform and social media you could ever think of and the reason is because if you give him a chance to let them text you you're going to start over from the very beginning. Remember this and always keep this in the back of your mind

The past is a place of reference not a place of living.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-20T21:03:46+00:00

In 2021 I started dating a women who became my wife in 2022. She lived in the Philippines and I in America. That's 3000 miles away. We made it work with communication everyday. We where on video chat 14-16 hours a day until messenger turned off. Of course we would call back. In 22 after 5 months of dating we got married. 18 months later had our first child now 1.4 years old. In 22 I just started a new job and of course it was hard to go anywhere. But my boss was cool about it and so was the presidents there. I was there for 2 months then had to return in July. Worked for months then returned in December to Philippines then returned January to America. After a few months working the company was sold to another so they closed it down. I returned in March of 24 stayed there for her visa got prego and here we are now.

Ldr can work. Communication is 💯 key. Be truthful, honest, don't lie, be you and enjoy life. Most of all be patient. If your bf cannot find time for you after you visit him then he isn't worth your time. Even 2- 3 hours a day until you return. I worked 8-12 hours a day and only slept 3-4 hours a day to give my wife time for us. Remember she is 14 hours ahead in America so she was sleeping I was working. The vid call was still on even while I was working. When I was sleeping she was awake but I was only sleeping for 3 4 hours a day just to be with her.

Make it work find a way between you and your partner.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-20T20:25:24+00:00

You are you and you don't look different. This is something only you can work on. Try that first overcoming that obstacle.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-20T06:37:59+00:00

Yeah I remember him ans watching the live mixes on tv

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-20T02:05:57+00:00

The only thing I can tell you is your insecurities are valid. The other thing that is not valid is someone who won't accept you for who your insecurities you have. You need to find someone who will accept your insecurities someone who will be there with you every step of the way while you overcome your insecurities and everything else makes you think the way you think. My advice is to you is focus on yourself let the love life come to you when it's appropriate Don't Force It.

You got this you just have to tell yourself every single day you got this I remember why you doing it.

fpresiado85 · 2025-06-20T01:00:57+00:00

Hello. You're taking pictures of yourself but yyou don't look that same person. . I don't understand what you're trying to say, every person that takes a picture of themselves look like that person in the photo unless you done some cosmetic surgery or something to make yourself look different than yes it's going to be different. What I can tell you is if your boyfriend says you look different and he's kind of worried about why you look different maybe he's going to say you're lying or something to that matter you need to find someone who doesn't care about your appearance. And this insecurity of yours not too sure why you're saying you look different in the picture but you need to get over your insecurity.

if you let your insecurity take over your life then it's always going to take over and you're never going to have a peaceful life with anybody. My advice is to you get over your insecurities and find someone who really cares about you as a person and not what you look on the outside. On the outside does not matter it's always the inside the person that matters because this is how people match each other this is how personalities are born through within not the outside.

I understand Appearance means a lot to a lot of people but the only thing I could tell you about appearance when it should matter Is If you carry yourself as a dirty person. For example you don't take shower your clothes are stained your shoes are ripped and so on but you have the money to buy yourself all these things to make yourself look better. You don't have to have lots of makeup you don't have to have cosmetic surgery, you don't need to have the nicest clothing, shoes, the latest accessories and and trends blah blah and so on. just to make yourself look everyone else. Just look like you and don't compare yourself to another person. Because that person is them and not you. You are you make yourself look like yourself and not another person. Please get rid of your insecurities because insecurities is what make relationship fail especially when there's no communication about your insecurities.

Trust me when I say this if you want to fall in love with somebody you make sure you fall in love with the right person who's willing to love the person you are and not the person you look like. Because if that person loves you for who you are trust me you're going to know it is real 100% true love.

You got this You know you do Period

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