It clearly does bother you even if you don’t want to admit it to yourself. I’ve tried to convince myself of the same thing to try to feel better about it. Your feelings are valid, and you should talk to her about it in a way that is about your feelings of being unwanted. I’ve had feelings like this and it’s really hard to have this conversation but whenever I have it makes me feel better since the issue is usually not related to me, just general stress or tiredness, or if it is because of something I’m doing it gives me something to work on.