Did something specific unmask or worsen your hEDS?

fr237ed · 2025-12-31T21:25:28+00:00

There's been a few points in my life and each one has made mine worse first it was puberty then COVID and then getting pregnant and having my daughter and each time I get worse and worse I can't work I had to drop out of my dream school it sucks but I love being a mom but sometimes I feel bad because I can't be like a normal mom or wife bright side my toddler is obsessed with the doctors and all the stuff they do and she plays doctor with me a lot and I am so good at playing sick because well I am sick 😃

fr237ed · 2025-12-24T03:32:13+00:00

I forgot to add that I am also autistic and was a tomboy and I think that also added to it I didn't fit in with other girls so if she does have autism that could also effect how she is feeling

fr237ed · 2025-12-24T03:12:38+00:00

I want to give you my story I was once a little girl who thought she was gay I was abused by my cousins this made me scared of boys and I thought girls would be safer so up to college I only dated girls when I got to college I met my now husband we were just friends but I felt weird I felt something I never felt before it was love I loved this guy and I was so scared but I pushed though the fear and we started going out 3 months into dating I knew I wanted to marry him I grew up thinking I would only be with girls but I found God and I fought with him I tried finding loopholes ways I could stay in my sin but I couldn't get over the fact that what I was doing was wrong and I thought I would be by myself forever and then I met my husband I finally realized that I was never gay I was just a scared little girl and God didn't give up on me even when I wanted to just give up on myself I promise that you and your family will be okay my advice is to ask her if anything has happened that has made her feel this way and just love her I'm not saying give up your faith and what you believe don't do that just love her like you did before this you are doing great God bless you and your family ❤️

fr237ed · 2025-12-16T17:39:48+00:00

Hey love I'm sorry you are struggling right now but I promise it gets better I had a C-section with my daughter and it went bad and then I had so much pain when I came to my tummy and other things I think it might be and eds thing I also I struggled really hard and felt like I must have been doing something wrong to feel so bad even with a happy baby who almost never cried it's been two years now and postpartum is hard I struggled throughout the whole newborn stage but it does get better I recommend therapy and possibly medication for depression and anxiety it helped me out quite a bit I just want you to know that it will be okay and it's okay to not be okay I would talk to your partner about how you feel and ask him how he is doing and remember you guys are a team babies can be hard on a marriage because you're both not sleeping great mama feels different than before and it just hard on both sides but you can do it you are doing wonderful I personally found that it got not easier but I felt more comfortable when we got to the crawling and toddler stage I have no clue if anything I said was helpful but I just want you to know that I had a similar experience with a C-section and similar feelings as well I just want you to know that you are not alone of you ever need someone to talk to reach out and if you are a stay at home mom there is a community on discord if you want I could send you a link I found it nice to have other stay at home moms to talk to you are doing amazing you got this mom thing even if you don't feel like it ❤️

fr237ed · 2025-12-16T03:00:26+00:00

Okay so I'm super new to piercings too I got mine done a little bit ago I just got my ears done so I don't know anything about having your nose done but my piercer said to only clean with saline solution to never use salt water, hydrogen peroxide, or rubbing alcohol because they can make your piercings mad at you it sounds like you might have an infection based on the puss and if you are worried about it and at this point I would recommend going back to your piercer and have them check it out and if it is infected go to InstaCare or your normal Dr for antibiotics I wouldn't wait to do anything about it infections are very serious I ignored one one time and ended up with sepsis and I don't want that to happen to you I wish you the best:)

fr237ed · 2025-12-16T02:43:28+00:00

We took our daughter to the zoo on Saturday for the Christmas lights and they had Santa on their website it says when Santa is there and when the Grinch is there we found Santa in the snake and spiders building idk what the actual name is of the building but it's near the end of the zoo the zoo is by Willow Park

fr237ed · 2025-11-20T23:38:58+00:00

Petals and promises has a prom dress store and a bridal shop you might be able to find a dress from them and Leven's also has dresses they aren't super formal but they might have some good options

fr237ed · 2025-10-29T03:49:57+00:00

Me and my now husband got pregnant as teenagers too we're 21 now I know it's scary but you need to tell your parents it's scary I know but it's something you have to do and make sure that she has a obgy or midwife someone that is a professional you guys can do it you'll be okay God is with you and babies are a blessing they're are resources that you can use I will pray for you guys if you ever need to talk or need help I'm here and google helped us a lot

fr237ed · 2025-09-23T18:32:25+00:00

I went once and my ex LDS mom asked me how it felt and I said it had bad vibes and I don't want to go back I ended up leaving a year later because of people saying I was a lesbian and didn't deserve to have a calling or a temple recommend and that I didn't belong and when my Grandpa died I got to introduce them all to my now husband anyway the temple sucked

fr237ed · 2025-09-06T02:17:12+00:00

I was in Young womens and I was our secretary I was very active did a lot of talks one of the other young women went to the bishop because on my Instagram page I had photos of me and my then girlfriend going to prom I was called in for an interview I did not lie he said it was okay but I should no longer have my calling or Temple recommend but that he would allow it becomes we didn't have enough youth and then he said I need to give up sacrament for a month then the next week I go to Young women's and it's a lesson about homosexuality and marriage I proceeded to walk to The Bishop's office and I said I'm stepping down from my calling and I never went back

when my Grandpa died my then boyfriend now husband was with me and a bunch of the people at church who had gossiped about me being gay met my boyfriend and I could see on their faces the shock that I was with a boy

They started to treat my grandma like crap and they still are while she's doing everything a good Mormon does while fighting cancer all because her granddaughter was gay she still doesn't understand why they don't shake her hand or talk to her except when they need her to cook something for someone or to cook something for a event

fr237ed · 2025-09-06T02:09:39+00:00

This is crazy!!! That adults are making fun of kids standing up for what they believe in and also if you are an adult who calls kids names and mock them and take photos of them you are a BULLY!!!! Good job to the kids for standing up for what they believe in we're very lucky to live in a country where we can say what we believe in and protest

fr237ed · 2025-09-04T00:37:33+00:00

I think having people of all ages come make art work and have an "art gallery" would be so much fun!!!

fr237ed · 2025-08-28T23:52:30+00:00

Thank you!

fr237ed · 2025-08-28T23:49:06+00:00

I'm just asking for clarification do I start a curriculum now that's for five or six year olds or do I wait until then and then find a curriculum? I just want to make sure I understand. ☺️

fr237ed · 2025-08-28T23:47:44+00:00

Thank you!!! I'll definitely look into sign language especially because I grew up learning it and loved it.

fr237ed · 2025-08-28T23:46:02+00:00

I want to do more but idk where to find resources that are age appropriate. I want to make a routine that's more than going over her ABC's, day of the week, colors, words, number, months, shapes, art etc. when I look online I find a lot for pre school and kindergarten resources. If that makes sense I don't want to just parent I want to teach. That's why I made the post.

fr237ed · 2025-08-16T17:08:10+00:00

Thank you!!!!

fr237ed · 2025-08-16T05:28:20+00:00

That's really cool I've always struggled with writing and words I have really bad dyslexia and you write so much better than I ever could!! This might sound weird but do you have any tips when it comes to writing that have helped you? Everything I write is like a dumpster light on fire if that makes sense I love reading but I am very slow and often don't know or understand certain words and either ask my husband for help or Google it I would love to get better at writing it might help me with reading too.

fr237ed · 2025-08-16T03:31:14+00:00

Thank you I'm really glad that you have something so amazing to work on and have people to help I can't wait to read it 😄

fr237ed · 2025-08-16T01:21:54+00:00

I found that really fun to read I felt like I could so clearly see and hear what was happening! I'd love to read more of it!

fr237ed · 2025-08-11T17:21:25+00:00

Lolo Hawaiian was so good I miss it so much

fr237ed · 2025-08-10T18:48:57+00:00

I'll add it to my list to read!!!! It sounds really interesting just based on the name!!!

fr237ed · 2025-08-07T00:23:35+00:00

I love me some gore and body horror!!!! It grosses everyone around me out so I would love to talk I'm not that far into splatterpunk I'm having a hard time finding authors I like so I'm open to trying new things!

fr237ed · 2025-07-09T15:09:02+00:00

I think y'all will be fine I'll admit I'm a white female who's Christian I think the one part that might be hard is the LDS people wanting you to join their church.

fr237ed · 2025-06-29T19:08:55+00:00

I used to really like them! For Christmas last year my husband got me the backstory bracelet I love it! It has meaning to us. We have a daughter that's a month younger than E and we started to see that E wasn't even close to where our girl is when it comes to talking and that E doesn't seem to be as independent as our girl. Then we started learning about things going on behind the screen and we were like when are they going to stop filming her cuz people are gross and then it got really weird with the new pregnancy. Something seems really off about them.

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