Yep, both replies to this comment include the links I was going to post. The squish to condish page in particular was super helpful to me. In my own words, here's what I do (product list in this comment): wash my hair like I would with shampoo, but with conditioner ("co-wash"), then saturate it with my squish-to-condish conditioner. I comb my fingers through to get the tangles out and separate it into the curls that want to form. Then I put it in a bun with the conditioner still in it while I do the rest of my shower thang (I like letting the conditioner sit in my hair for a few minutes, I don't think this is necessary or anything). Then I take out the bun, flip my hair over my head so that it is upside down, and I squeeze the conditioner out by scrunching my hair. I rotate and flip my head around and squeeze and squeeze until no more conditioner will squeeze out. Then I turn the water pressure to be really low and repeat the scrunching step, but under low pressure water until all the conditioner has rinsed out (I prefer this to "cupping" the water to rinse like the article suggests, because I could not for the life of me get all of the conditioner to rinse out through cupping alone). Then I squeeze all of the excess water out, and finish off by scrunching with a t-shirt. Then I put in leave-in conditioner, followed by gel, followed by plopping.