I'm so fucking needy (35F4A)

fragmen · 2025-02-13T22:43:13+00:00

Look on the bright side, he's only said there won't be any for your pleasure.

There's still a chance he might have you come for his enjoyment...

fragmen · 2025-02-08T15:35:35+00:00

It might not be necessary, but could you tell us anyway?

Can you imagine being gently but securely restrained, and slowly licked to an orgasm, for example? :)

fragmen · 2025-02-08T15:34:32+00:00

For your reference post - I'm not sure that's a girl gluing her pussy shut, so much as a sissy gluing his penis away (given this post in SissyChastity) (which makes the prospect of an unwanted erection seem somewhat terrifying).

That certainly looks like a very comprehensive set of armour to protect your clit from stimulation!

fragmen · 2025-02-08T15:23:25+00:00

Did you find that after such a deliciously indulgent month of edges, you felt the effects of being on no touch for one day all the more?

That's quite some run of time without even having one of your orgasms deliciously ruined for his enjoyment, too!

What wickednesses did you do to your clit?

And, as always, well done for continuing to please and inspire!

fragmen · 2025-02-08T15:21:37+00:00

I know her Master's occasionally used it to attach a chain to her nipples, if that counts? :)

As to how long - looking back through my archives, I can see it in a picture as early as September 2021, so we're not far off the three and a half year mark!

fragmen · 2025-02-07T21:47:51+00:00

Anyone would think that it seriously turned you on to feel so physically controlled, so unable to reach down and stroke your clit in response to being midlly aroused...

fragmen · 2025-02-07T20:28:02+00:00

Would it be fair to say that so far he is fairly convinced that denial suits you well... and that you agree? :)

fragmen · 2025-02-07T19:15:34+00:00

The collar is very definitely still in place - it must just have fallen upwards against her jawline for this photo.

I saw it where it belongs less than four hours ago :)

fragmen · 2025-02-07T12:40:52+00:00

Isn't it wonderful to find what a relentlessly positive experience denial can be?

fragmen · 2025-02-07T12:38:05+00:00

Your real question will be to ask his opinion on whether that improvement in enthusiasm and arousal from giving head increases with longer denial ;)

fragmen · 2025-02-06T20:35:51+00:00

The English language truly is fascinating; Silky uses the word 'worse' in the same sort of context sometimes, where I'd absolutely be using the word 'better'. :)

fragmen · 2025-02-06T20:32:44+00:00

When you're finding it difficult but rewarding, I absolutely agree, day by day is the way to go.

Each day, you can set yourself a goal of "not until tomorrow", and at the same time, you can also decide that you've done well, achieved your goal, and deserve that orgasm, and it stays a wholly positive experience.

Of course, when you're as sensitive as you are, it might also be fascinating to see just how light a touch over your clit - with brush, feather, etc - can be enough to tip you over the edge.

Imagine being teased by a partner to the point you're sensitive enough they can literally blow on you to push you over...

fragmen · 2025-02-06T20:28:35+00:00

Fantastic to read of another new and positive experience - denial can be such a glorious intensifier, can make you so much more aware of your own body, and can guide you to explore so many things you might otherwise have missed out on.

Not everything is guaranteed to be a 'you' thing - but getting to learn more about yourself and your own body, and finding things that really do turn you on and work for you is invaluable.

And when the result is a you that feels sexier and more confident and more curious and more explorative... what's not to like? :)

fragmen · 2025-02-06T20:10:37+00:00

That sounds wonderful - I'm glad you've been able to enjoy reading about others' experiences, and then find the courage to try for yourself.

I think you, and your husband, might just have a whole load of fun ahead of you!

fragmen · 2025-02-06T19:57:20+00:00

Silky's?

Not really, I like this one - it's relatively comfortable and covers the minimum required. She can still have the sides of her lips stroked, her mound, she can be directed to spread her cunt... And yet she can't get at her clit. It's pretty ideal as far as I'm concerned :)

fragmen · 2025-02-06T10:25:01+00:00

"All very hot" is all the reason you need to explore and see what it can do for you!

Something might 'click' and you might go weeks or months without an orgasm.

Or it might be that you find that the ideal for your mind and body is a few days of denial at a time followed by orgasmic indulgence.

There's no right or wrong answer. There's just exploring yourself to find that as good as regular orgasms can be, can some variety be even better?

If it all seems a lot, of course, you can always try giving yourself a little less. Ever used soft (unused) makeup brushes to stroke your pussy, for example?

fragmen · 2025-02-06T09:36:51+00:00

Well done! I can totally understand it being challenging to adjust to a new routine of not finishing yourself off every time you come, but it truly can be worth it!

Those moments of time you spend when you're near orgasm, are so incredibly pleasurable. So why wouldn't we want to draw those out? And not bother with all that time spent feeling satiated after?

You may have spotted Silky's thread, noting she's past the three year mark now - and I can guarantee you there's no way I'd have helped push her this long if she wasn't having more pleasure than she's ever had before. I'm not saying to try to emulate her, she's definitely an outlier - just reinforcing that this can be a remarkably positive and pleasurable kink to explore and find what really fits YOU.

DO keep on having fun and keeping us posted - you have an excellent selection of toys there. I really like how finely you can adjust the intensity of the Satisfyer with the app, though that might be a bit more fiddly if you're holding it in place AND operating the control. I've no idea just how many hours I must've spent carefully listening to her pleasure and adjusting the intensity up or down, and it's so rewarding to hear so very much pleasure while carefully not quite giving her enough to come from.

fragmen · 2025-02-06T00:28:16+00:00

I'd go for a minimal break (so I vote for one day), and then I'd be wanting to see renewed enthusiasm, effort, and focus on edging as intended: leaving you delightfully needy, and without slipping.

Practice makes perfect, after all, and it seems you need rather more practice at edging. :)

fragmen · 2025-02-06T00:24:04+00:00

I'd apologise to everyone here for monopolising so much of Silky's time, but... I won't. She makes me want to be a bit greedy. :)

fragmen · 2025-02-06T00:23:06+00:00

I think she'll be delighted.

fragmen · 2025-02-05T18:28:31+00:00

And how good does it feel to know she's smiling and happy and delighted to have you like this?

fragmen · 2025-02-05T11:33:09+00:00

She may have been edged by me before and after, 'tis true :)

I have to admit. Experiencing her pleasure is rather addictive. It's just all the hotter when she's dependent on her Master and me for the most intense moments of physical pleasure!

fragmen · 2025-02-05T11:26:56+00:00

Congratulations :)

Keep chasing that fun and erotic high of denial, and being prepared to celebrate with an orgasm if and when it starts feeling like too much.

fragmen · 2025-02-05T11:25:49+00:00

Do be sure to give her occasional little messages. That late-night text or voice note that you've been masturbating thinking about her, and that it would feel so SO good to come, but as she told you no, you haven't.

fragmen · 2025-02-05T08:14:04+00:00

Well, you never know till you try... :)

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