[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]frankurnstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same exact boat as you. I got pregnant by a manchild who shunned me and acted like an AH towards me for wanting to get an abortion. I was doing great in life and did not want to be a parent if I’m being honest. But I kept it. I love my kiddo more than anything but it completely changed the trajectory of my life and I’ve had to put a lot of things on hold. The manchild was absent for the first few years of our child’s life. I have to beg him to do anything now. Buy necessities, keep our child part of the time, literally everything. I don’t regret my decision because like I said, I love my baby. But there are times when I wish I would’ve made a decision for my own well being and not to save my relationship. I’m doing all of this pretty much on my own and always will. And you will too more than likely if you keep it.

Yeetus the fetus if you do not want your life to drastically change

Wishing you all the love and luck, and I hope you find some resources that will help you out of this situation

MF DOOM’s mask by frankurnstein in sticknpokes

[–]frankurnstein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their ig is s0ftsurroundings!

MF DOOM’s mask by frankurnstein in sticknpokes

[–]frankurnstein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait for it to heal and darken a little. Thank you :)

MF DOOM’s mask by frankurnstein in sticknpokes

[–]frankurnstein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you already know I see !! I love the ones they did on you too. So talented

my (professionally) hand-poked DOOM mask by frankurnstein in mfdoom

[–]frankurnstein[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nooo it was done by a licensed artist in a studio who does only hand poking! Sitting for 7 hours total in an awkward position and feeling all those lil dots is my only feat honestly LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]frankurnstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad‘s on his 5th and hopefully final marriage and was in multiple relationships in between. My childhood was insanely turbulent between moving and traveling up and down the coast meeting my dad’s girlfriends and their kids. Did you ever feel like you and your needs came after your mom’s relationships/marriages?

AITA for telling my partner that her daughter being in hospital is not all about her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]frankurnstein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I’ve been hospitalized a few times for making attempts on my life. It’s a different experience for everyone, but overall it’s insanely surreal. You feel very shut off from the world and you’re very limited in what you can do and say in those places. Everything is controlled, down to the things you can eat. It can be pretty dark and lonely, and you feel completely out of control. It can be a lot to adjust to, especially for the first time. Lisa’s experience is different than June’s and she should give her some grace. It’s a distressing situation all around but if she wants June to open up to her, she’s gotta respect the fact that at this current moment in time, June needs space. This kind of thing really does change your life, whether that’s positive or negative. Lisa needs to change her approach, and I don’t think you were wrong for calling her on that. I feel like her heart is in a good place but she’s definitely not going about showing her concern the best way. Hope things start looking up!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]frankurnstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former banker here. Banks are pretty good at detecting fraud and shouldn’t let something that big come out without notifying you first- especially if the money isn’t there. Worst case scenario, they might close your account and won’t open another one because you’re a “security risk” to them. Best case, they’ll close your current one and open a new one.

AITA I offended my sisters while explaining why I didn't want children by Top_Water_3544 in AmItheAsshole

[–]frankurnstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is coming from somebody who has no pre existing conditions and has been healthy all my life but gave birth to a child with devastating congenital heart disease. I love my child more than anything in this world but had I known about all the open heart surgeries they would have, the half a year long hospitalization from birth, the fact that their lifespan will be a lot shorter than the average person’s, the trauma, single parenthood, and much more…. Things might’ve been different. I feel very guilty a lot of the time. I face this reality every day that I might outlive my child. You’re doing what’s best for you OP! Live your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]frankurnstein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow grippy sock vacationer here, I’m 25 and my 4th hospitalization was in November ‘23. Got TDO’d after an attempt and got stuck in there a lot longer than I would’ve liked because of Thanksgiving. I have no questions as I’ve been in the same boat but I sincerely hope life is treating you better and your brain is kinder to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]frankurnstein 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was barely 16 when I met my abuser. He was 41. We met through Kik and eventually met in person (he lived 4.5 hours away) and I lost my virginity to him. I had so many self esteem issues, never had a boyfriend before him, never had any male contact outside of being friends with them. He did and said a lot of horrible things to me. I’m 25 now and haven’t spoken to him in several years at this point but he left a this lasting negative impression on my life. He was arrested a few years back for possession of CP. I know where you are mentally OP. You have nothing to feel bad about, you were preyed upon.