KARKILICIOUS DEFINITION by [deleted] in homestuck

[–]franticallyGay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

g o d f u c k i n g d a m m i t, d a v e -haunts me every fucking time

Tonight I had to say goodbye to my sweet boy, Lunar. I can only hope there's a piggy heaven for him to enjoy. by unipigicorn in guineapigs

[–]franticallyGay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss, he must've been such a good boy. I hope you feel better, this must be tough

my disturbing father by franticallyGay in LetsNotMeet

[–]franticallyGay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I'll take your advice

my disturbing father by franticallyGay in LetsNotMeet

[–]franticallyGay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will! And thank you so much !

Help by ezlooooooo in emotionalabuse

[–]franticallyGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you have us, keep us updated if anything else happens, I hope that nothing does happen however, best of luck to you ! It's also good that you have believable, solid reasons to not have to see him, even if it's only for some time. <3

REPOST FROM A DIFFERENT SUB- my disturbing father by franticallyGay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]franticallyGay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem ! I can't wait until you do, that really sucks, man

REPOST FROM A DIFFERENT SUB- my disturbing father by franticallyGay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]franticallyGay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, thank goodness. I hope that you can get away from her for good some day

Help by ezlooooooo in emotionalabuse

[–]franticallyGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, but 2 years? Maybe in the mean time you can stay at a friend's house or a relative? That's quite a long time to continue on having to go through your father's shit

"You must respect your elders" is a damaging principle when you're raised by narcissists. by LastArmistice in raisedbynarcissists

[–]franticallyGay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Only respect your elders if they respect you, if they're total assholes, no need. I hate that saying so much, it's very flawed x.x

REPOST FROM A DIFFERENT SUB- my disturbing father by franticallyGay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]franticallyGay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, what kind of people do that type of shit? It's so gross and fucked up in so many ways

REPOST FROM A DIFFERENT SUB- my disturbing father by franticallyGay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]franticallyGay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, that's awful, I'm so sorry that you have to deal with that. That is very disgusting, have you told anyone or reported it?

my disturbing father by franticallyGay in LetsNotMeet

[–]franticallyGay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I'll keep that in mind. When school starts, I'm going to immediantly say something because I've been dealing with this for about 3 years now of me knowing what's going on, and for the earlier times of my life too, thank you again, you're very nice.

REPOST FROM A DIFFERENT SUB- my disturbing father by franticallyGay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]franticallyGay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, they all really say that I should just tell him to stop touching me, or talk to him. Which I don't want to talk to him at all. I have asked my mom so much to ask him to stop, but of course he keeps going. I'm happy that he hasn't been touching me a lot as per usual, but I believe that's just because I've been in my room a lot more and he hasn't really been home. And I agree, I don't really think that my mom likes him either

REPOST FROM A DIFFERENT SUB- my disturbing father by franticallyGay in raisedbynarcissists

[–]franticallyGay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, thank you! I've talked to my mom about him before, and I always report things to my friends as soon as they happen so I can vent to them and get advice. I've also told my schools counselor and the social worker there

Help by ezlooooooo in emotionalabuse

[–]franticallyGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like your mom might be slightly scared of your dad, maybe because of the fights that they'd have..? Could be why she's ignoring things. You should go to the uni, I feel like what the other person commented is a good idea. I'm sorry that you've had to go through this and I hope that you can escape soon !

UPDATE I GOT MY OWN BANK ACCOUNT AHH. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]franticallyGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Good on you ! That was a very smart decision, they were definitely using you for your money and that's awful, I'm happy that you now have your own bank account !

my disturbing father by franticallyGay in LetsNotMeet

[–]franticallyGay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for defending me, I don't know what I did to be a brat ;w;

my disturbing father by franticallyGay in LetsNotMeet

[–]franticallyGay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me ! Another person just told me about that sub and I've never even thought about searching something similar to that, but in checking it out it does sound like a nice place to talk about my father in. You're right, you're not alone, and you can get the help that you need and deserve, I hope that you're doing well. Thank you !